This will be my first time positing as I have been a guest for years here.

My ex girlfriend called me 3 days back and said she doesn't want to date me anymore that she doesn't deserve my love and all that I tried to ask her what the problem was exactly and all she kept saying was you deserve someone better than me.
This was a relationship of 2 years plus now, a relationship I put in my all.

I cried and cried, begged and begged this girl but she refused, for no reason.. ..
She became super cold to me..

-sobs- This will make it the 5th time a girl has broken my heart by ending our relationship.

I have done nothing wrong to any girl I have dated before, in fact I am pretty sure I am the calmest guy you will ever meet, I am very patient, I never rush anything, I treat everyone around me right, even though I am not a social person, I have lots of friends who love being around me because of my cool way of life and behaviour, I also have a good sense of humor, I am quiet type but if you around me and we get chatting, you will enjoy my company.


When it comes to relationship, I am the type who doesn't disturb my partner with calls and text because it is not cool being clingy cause my greatest turn off in a girl is when she becomes too clingy it makes me feel extremely pressured in some type of way I cant explain, like I am carrying a heavy burden, I love being free and that's why I understand how important it is to not bug people, I text and call in a reasonably moderate amount.

I have dated 5 girls, the relationship always starts great, I am not the type that cheats, I give my partner maximum freedom, I make my lover happy in every way I can, I am really good looking (everybody tells me this) but still after a short while of dating for like 6 months, they all start losing interest, the sex is great, the communication is great, we go out together, we have maximum fun, I always dress nicely, good perfume.



I have done everything a man could do to make someone happy without looking miserable and hopeless, I don't even care if my partner cheats on me, I won't cheat if she does but I still don't care if she cheats cause I know we all humans and sometimes emotions can control us I understand this simple principle of life and it has giving me great peace of mind I never have to worry if they cheat, it won't change my feelings I won't even question you if I find out, I won't even be angry.
I don't quarrel, I am very understanding.

I have never quarreled with anyone in my life before, no matter what you do, you will wonder if I am human.

I tolerate things 100%.

That's how calm I am.

But I am tired of this constant heart breaks, it is killing me badly. It is making me emotionally imbalance that I don't even know how it feels to like or love someone anymore.

The world is just so strange to me with all these things happening, no happiness, everyone seems to hurt me, I feel right now like the world has turned against me. I don't know what to do...

You are a Wussy and Boring Guy!!
You are the one that is always killing the Attraction with them girls with your Wussiness

Acekidc4:
You are a Wussy and Boring Guy

It's not like I am weak I just do not have time to boss anyone around just because you are dating me I don't think I have right over anyone to tell them what to do.
I only Advice.

BlueShine:


It's not like I am weak I just do not have time to boss anyone around just because you are dating me I don't think I have right over anyone to tell them what to do.
I only Advice.

Maybe you are always showering them with too much attention!!

Give them space and enjoy ur own company!!

i guess you are a pushover(passive), try to man up if not everytime but most of the time.


#positivevibes

Bruuuuh. If you follow all these girls you go just kill your self. Just take your mind of her and live your life, I have been through this before, it's okay man, I know how it feels.

Shit is bleeped up#

Acekidc4:


Maybe you are always showering them with too much attention!!

Give them space and enjoy ur own company!!

But I don't do that I just treat them like normal friends like everyone else only difference is I am in love.

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I HAVE TO STOP HERE... My sugar mama just arrived.

BlueShine:

This will be my first time positing as I have been a guest for years here.

My ex girlfriend called me 3 days back and said she doesn't want to date me anymore that she doesn't deserve my love and all that I tried to ask her what the problem was exactly and all she kept saying was you deserve someone better than me.
This was a relationship of 2 years plus now, a relationship I put in my all.

I cried and cried, begged and begged this girl but she refused, for no reason.. ..
She became super cold to me..

-sobs- This will make it the 5th time a girl has broken my heart by ending our relationship.

I have done nothing wrong to any girl I have dated before, in fact I am pretty sure I am the calmest guy you will ever meet, I am very patient, I never rush anything, I treat everyone around me right, even though I am not a social person, I have lots of friends who love being around me because of my cool way of life and behaviour, I also have a good sense of humor, I am quiet type but if you around me and we get chatting, you will enjoy my company.


When it comes to relationship, I am the type who doesn't disturb my partner with calls and text because it is not cool being clingy cause my greatest turn off in a girl is when she becomes too clingy it makes me feel extremely pressured in some type of way I cant explain, like I am carrying a heavy burden, I love being free and that's why I understand how important it is to not bug people, I text and call in a reasonably moderate amount.

I have dated 5 girls, the relationship always starts great, I am not the type that cheats, I give my partner maximum freedom, I make my lover happy in every way I can, I am really good looking (everybody tells me this) but still after a short while of dating for like 6 months, they all start losing interest, the sex is great, the communication is great, we go out together, we have maximum fun, I always dress nicely, good perfume.



I have done everything a man could do to make someone happy without looking miserable and hopeless, I don't even care if my partner cheats on me, I won't cheat if she does but I still don't care if she cheats cause I know we all humans and sometimes emotions can control us I understand this simple principle of life and it has giving me great peace of mind I never have to worry if they cheat, it won't change my feelings I won't even question you if I find out, I won't even be angry.
I don't quarrel, I am very understanding.

I have never quarreled with anyone in my life before, no matter what you do, you will wonder if I am human.

I tolerate things 100%.

That's how calm I am.

But I am tired of this constant heart breaks, it is killing me badly. It is making me emotionally imbalance that I don't even know how it feels to like or love someone anymore.

The world is just so strange to me with all these things happening, no happiness, everyone seems to hurt me, I feel right now like the world has turned against me. I don't know what to do...

Probably u've been dating adolescents

Try being just friends with benefits. Women all over are complicated. U can never know why

Don't be fooled by anyone women love attention,you woo them and win them over then later you relax and expect them to do all the loving, calling and texting in the name of giving and having space...well after six months they get bored and tired and move on to the next guy who is always and constantly reminding and assuring them of his love


Above all..go make more money

Dear yur story is kind of touching buh u knw wat i would want you to do is dat wen yu see anyoda lady u love dont show ut too much nd dont b over caring because one tin abt we gals wen a guy is overcarin we take him for granted so try nd do dat nd make sure yu ar doin all ur responsibility...dont worry its gonna b fine

cuttylee:
Dear yur story is kind of touching buh u knw wat i would want you to do is dat wen yu see anyoda lady u love dont show ut too much nd dont b over caring because one tin abt we gals wen a guy is overcarin we take him for granted so try nd do dat nd make sure yu ar doin all ur responsibility...dont worry its gonna b fine

Advice taken, thanks a lot.

ladies love u when u are unpredictable we are moved by what we hear nd nt see from ur attitude discription u seem shalow brace up guy and strive to keep what u have from sliping away

Seems to me that you've probably been dating the wrong set of girls.
I mean, trust me there are ladies out there that want a guy like you although majority of ladies wouldn't want a guy like you.
Some times some ladies just need their man to correct them on something, to disapprove of something they are doing or even get into a fight or quarell once in a while.
Without all these the relationship becomes so boring that the lady begins to think she has issues and as such you're too good for her.

OP, you get time o. Whatever happened to getting yours instead of pandering to and wringing your hands over the whims of women? They are inherently fickle, have no concept of loyalty and so cannot be trusted. It is their biology. The selfish gene is an evolutionary adaptation that women will not shed for millennia to come. Even the best of them are like children. You don't want to ever experience the worst. See, you don't control if they will ever love you. What you can control - to a large degree - is that they will be necessarily attached to you in some way, by you being the provider in marriage/having children together.

@greatnaija gets it in the most basic form. This used to be taught in those bushwacking rites of passage boys would go through post puberty. Now it's mostly learned by observing older men who are 'successful' with women. So you're actually doing a disservice to the watching youngins with this your crying and moping. Get a grip son.

I ramble... In short, they're not worth the effort. I let them come to me. #sips on a long cold glass of beer.

blue shine I will like to help you out in terms of counselling . I sent you a mail. if you are interested reply me. thanks

citadels:
blue shine I will like to help you out in terms of counselling . I sent you a mail. if you are interested reply me. thanks

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BlueShine:



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BlueShine:


It's not like I am weak I just do not have time to boss anyone around just because you are dating me I don't think I have right over anyone to tell them what to do.
I only Advice.

I have done everything a man could do to make someone happy without looking miserable and hopeless, I don't even care if my partner cheats on me, I won't cheat if she does but I still don't care if she cheats cause I know we all humans and sometimes emotions can control us I understand this simple principle of life and it has giving me great peace of mind I never have to worry if they cheat, it won't change my feelings I won't even question you if I find out, I won't even be angry.
I don't quarrel, I am very understanding.

You are weak and they will keep playing you until you act like a man.

If a girl cheat on you and you do as if u dont care, she will be wondering if you are a man at all.

If she say she does not deserve you, let her go.

AntiWailer:




You are weak and they will keep playing you until you act like a man.

If a girl cheat on you and you do as if u dont care, she will be wondering if you are a man at all.

If she say she does not deserve you, let her go.

if she cheat, should i go and beat her, why should i waste my time talking too much when i know if she want continue to cheat she go still continue..?

life is all about perspective, violence never solves anything.

BlueShine:


if she cheat, should i go and beat her, why should i waste my time talking too much when i know if she want continue to cheat she go still continue..?

life is all about perspective, violence never solves anything.

No. You wont beat her.

You will leave her and move on.

I wish I can see you to talk to you. You dont have to be violent but you have to stand your grounds on your principles.