Good day everyone, having been on nairaland for quite a time and the general norm now seems to be feminism.

Nice one, were are the women's right

OP. Nice one.

You're such a nice woman, you don't insult your husband. You have 7 posts on NL,almost half is insult...with you even insulting someone's mother that isn't your mate...na real wa!

I guess you're different in reality.

The feminist will soon descend on the op and term her abokoku.

pocohantas:
You're such a nice woman, you don't insult your husband. You have 7 posts on NL,almost half is insult...with you even insulting someone's mother that isn't your mate...na real wa!

I guess you're different in reality.

Insulting someone and my husband what is the correlation aunty amebo ? In fact get lost! I just insulted you too.

Hemstone:
Insulting someone and my husband what is the correlation aunty amebo ? In fact get lost! I just insulted you too.

LOL...are we fighting?

There are some issues that men face and I'm in support of 'men's rights' when they aren't disingenuous and just agenda driven attempts to take swipes at 'feminists' and divert conversation away from female issues

I doubt feminism is about insulting husbands.

Even before the hullaballo of feminism, women have been abusing husbands.
I think the real feminists are logical beings. I can't seem to picture Chimamanda Adichie abusing and cursing her husband. She may disagree with him, but I can only picture her not being emotional about it and discussing like an adult should.
Because someone abuses you doesn't give you the rights to lay your hands on them.

I know the law doesn't equate verbal abuse with physical abuse/assault.
So why a grown up would result to assaulting another is beyond me.

Let's be real here, domestic violence is wrong. Being verbally abusive isn't right either, but on a greater scale of things , it is a lighter offence.

Every individual deserves respect- man, woman or child. We all need it.

If both men and women can learn to treat each other as they would themselves, the world would be a better place.
Do unto others a s you would want them do to you. It means you should be fair in your dealings with others.

pocohantas:
LOL...are we fighting?

lol we are not.... just joking with you

eyinjuege:
I doubt feminism is about insulting husbands.

Even before the hullaballo of feminism, women have been abusing husbands.
I think the real feminists are logical beings. I can't seem to picture Chimamanda Adichie abusing and cursing her husband. She may disagree with him, but I can only picture her not being emotional about it and discussing like an adult should.
Because someone abuses you doesn't give you the rights to lay your hands on them.

I know the law doesn't equate verbal abuse with physical abuse/assault.
So why a grown up would result to assaulting another is beyond me.

Let's be real here, domestic violence is wrong. Being verbally abusive isn't right either, but on a greater scale of things , it is a lighter offence.

Every individual deserves respect- man, woman or child. We all need it.

If both men and women can learn to treat each other as they would themselves, the world would be a better place.
Do unto others a s you would want them do to you. It means you should be fair in your dealings with others.

I never said feminism is about abusing men. I just cited an instance

Hemstone:
Good day everyone, having been on nairaland for quite a time and the general norm now seems to be feminism. Even though am a woman and I love to be respected I believe most women of nowadays deserves the treatment and lack of respect they get from the men. Ese of big brother naija the other day posted on her social media page about domestic violence and all she could say was a man should walk away when he's been insulted by the wife instead of hitting her. The real question should be why are you abusing your husband in the first place? Have been married for 6 years and I can never and I repeat never insult my husband. I respect my husband and he in turn care for me like a baby. Every man needs respect and moreso a man you got married to in your right senses you should behave better to him. Our mothers are the true epitome of women and should be emulated instead of this bandwagon misbehaviour all in the name of civilization. Women let us be guided!

I was tempted to ask if you have a younger sister that is extremely single....

gbam.I think this deserves front page . lala come and do justice please .

Hemstone:
Insulting someone and my husband what is the correlation aunty amebo ? In fact get lost! I just insulted you too.

True there's no correlation remember on the Internet anyone can be anyone even a dog, I insult alot but in person am not like that she has a point about feminism I support feminism but 3rd wave feminist are confused lots alot of women in Nigeria would break under feminism it means treated equally as a man can y'all really handle that. It would mean lot of advantages that you enjoy taken from you. 3rd wave feminist only argue when it benefits them. No feminist argues for the right to be drafted to war or paying alimony when they make more than their husband.

Women are selfish

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