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Wife Paid For House Rent, Good Or Bad by Toonice(m): 3:42pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Just want to ask from house, is there anything bad if the wife paid for rent if the husband is broke down financially? CC: seun, lala, plz help me, I need more advice on this topic Biko my Chairman |
Re: Wife Paid For House Rent, Good Or Bad by Ashleydolls(f): 3:59pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
There's nothing bad in it. They're both staying in the house 2 Likes |
Re: Wife Paid For House Rent, Good Or Bad by subtlemee(f): 4:17pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
It's in the bible that she's a help meet,nothing is wrong in her taking up such responsibility once in a while |
Re: Wife Paid For House Rent, Good Or Bad by Ukeachu1(m): 4:18pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
It's neither good or bad. It's gender equality |
Re: Wife Paid For House Rent, Good Or Bad by marshalcarter: 4:19pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
the nigga above me......its a gud or bad ans op it isn't a bad idea |
Re: Wife Paid For House Rent, Good Or Bad by Nobody: 4:39pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Ask another question bro. Is she not living with the hubby? 1 Like |
Re: Wife Paid For House Rent, Good Or Bad by Toonice(m): 4:44pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Some women we start misbehaving, that's y am asking if it is normal. When the wiffy did something Wrong can the husband send d wife packing since she is d one that paid for the rent. |
Re: Wife Paid For House Rent, Good Or Bad by Gloriagee(f): 4:58pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Can the wife send her husband packing if he does something wrong too? Or wat dumb law empowers husbands to send their wives packing? After peeps'll be complaining that women don't contribute to a household's finances. After shes paid rent, ure wondering if she can be sent packing. Wat happened to dialogue, applying resolution techniques or the good ol kissing and making up? Toonice: 6 Likes |
Re: Wife Paid For House Rent, Good Or Bad by Godmother(f): 6:51pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
It's not wrong if its a once in a while thing. The husband is not superman and can be broke at anytime and this is where the wife steps in as the helpmeet. Problems will only arise if the man now relaxes and expects the woman to continue paying. |
Re: Wife Paid For House Rent, Good Or Bad by eyinjuege: 6:59pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Toonice: Why would you send your wife out of the house? Where's she expected to go out of the blues? You should pack out if you're tired of the union, and if she can't cope alone with the financial responsibility of the house, she will also pack out eventually. There's nothing wrong if she pays the rent, and I don't expect her to also send you packing out of the house for misbehaving. The earlier you see and treat your wife as an equal partner with same vested interests in the marriage the better for you. It doesn't matter who pays the school fees or the rent, or even the feeding. It all depends on the financial capability of those involved. 2 Likes |
Re: Wife Paid For House Rent, Good Or Bad by Nobody: 7:09pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Op already thinking of how he will throw his wife out, if she misbehaves even though she paid the house rent. Smmhh. Well if u are tired of the marriage u can quietly move out of the apartment and seek for divorce properly . No need pondering if u can throw your wife Out. Smmhh No dialogue. No communication.. Just want to throw out. May God help us oooo. Orisirisi...the wife does not even know what's coming to her later.. In her mind, she's helping her family and husband. But husband's mind is far off. 3 Likes |
Re: Wife Paid For House Rent, Good Or Bad by Nobody: 7:24pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Nothing wrong with it. But why would you be thinking of a scenario of one person sending the other out of the house... Na wa o 1 Like |
Re: Wife Paid For House Rent, Good Or Bad by Nobody: 8:16pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
in developed countries house rent, glossaries, water and electricity bills are spirit 50 50 btw the couple So if in a situation there is unresolved conflict btw the couple the man is aware he is the one to be ejected . . 1 Like |
Re: Wife Paid For House Rent, Good Or Bad by Juliearth(f): 4:57am On Mar 27, 2017 |
I think Africans need to change their mindset about these things. If a woman has the financial strength and means to foot the house rent,why shouldnt she? The last time I checked,God made man head and woman Neck over the family, meaning that their roles are compementary(husband feeds the family and the wife pays rent if she has the means to)and the Head is as important as the Neck...the head cannot stand nor function without the neck and the neck is useless without the head...This isnt rocket science-'tis common sense. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Paid For House Rent, Good Or Bad by galadima77(m): 6:22am On Mar 27, 2017 |
Gloriagee: I think that a husband harboring the tendency to send his wife packing doesn't deserve financial assistance from the wife....though unfortunately she's married to that kinda man. 2 Likes |
Re: Wife Paid For House Rent, Good Or Bad by Exponental(m): 8:30am On Mar 27, 2017 |
Toonice:Your understanding about marriage is very low. Obviously you are a kid. Who told you couples who celebrate years of marriage never had issues that could warrant break up? Marriage is a maturity thing. Pray God help you with wisdom and maturity to manage it well when you get into it. It's fun if I must confess. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Paid For House Rent, Good Or Bad by TonyeBarcanista(m): 9:11am On Mar 27, 2017 |
Nothing wrong in a woman paying rent BUT it is advisable that the man up his hustle to pay the rent or see the payment made by the wife as a form of loan and refund her when necessary, and with interest. |
Re: Wife Paid For House Rent, Good Or Bad by Nobody: 6:13pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
If She Lives In The House,why Should It Be A Problem. 1 Like |
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