The BIG question is: Whose fault is it when you’re being taken for granted? Should you blame the person taking you for granted? Or should you blame yourself?

There’s a reason why you may be allowing others to take you for granted. And in all probability, it starts and ends with self respect.

#1 You can’t say ‘no’.

#2 You’re predictable.

#3 You’re too sweet.

#4 You postpone decisions.

#5 You can’t confront people.

#6 You’re scared.

#7 You lie to yourself.

#8 You don’t believe in yourself.

#9 You can’t be alone.

#10 You don’t know your own desires.

Fact

Ahhh..m i a victim

you are a talkative

You're autocratic.

Hello, Mr Nice Guy!
People will always seek to take advantage of others...
Humans are selfish like that so, being mean atleast 45% of the time is a necessity.
#NoAssKissing #GiveNoFucks

What's tha business?

Every nice guy is seen as a biitch ass nigga in this era.

No fucck given attitude is an art that must be learnt and practiced if you value your self respect.

My mum always say, over familiarity breeds contempt, so stop giving fuccks about people who dont deserve it, be a little snubbish and watch yourself become adored when to channel small attention to those people.

everybody com and see true talk

Hmmm

11. You laugh at everything

12. You greet every tom, dìck and harry you come across

13. You talk too much, more talking and less listening

U always fell for women.. As in.. Women are ur pronounced weak point. U can't make a decision on ur own

It all boils down to self-confidence.

True tho.

True

True talk.

Don't take shiit from anybody.

I always seek to offer assistance, sacrifice my silence to make pple happy n most of d times find myself unhappy n downgraded by very same pple. I no fit bone, quarrel I no fit. the way out I have been using is relocating n leaving them missing me n calling me Good Guy.

pantless:
I always seek to offer assistance, sacrifice my silence to make pple happy n most of d times find myself unhappy n downgraded by very same pple. I no fit bone, quarrel I no fit. the way out I have been using is relocating n leaving them missing me n calling me Good Guy.

Hey good guy, f#*k you!! hahaha I used to try to help peeps as much as I can at any opportunity until I realized how human beings are and since then they robbed me. It was so traumatic because they stole they last bag of f#*ks that I had to give. Nowadays I only help when I feel the person deserves or seriously needs it and I have to see that the really needs it. Most value it when they don't get it easily.

Nice

DirtyGold:
Hello, Mr Nice Guy!
People will always seek to take advantage of others...
Humans are selfish like that so, being mean atleast 45% of the time is a necessity.
#NoAssKissing #GiveNoFucks

What's tha business?

Humans are terrible, snakes and disks. They should never be trusted. Money and the desire to make it in life brings out the worse in them.

pantless:
I always seek to offer assistance, sacrifice my silence to make pple happy n most of d times find myself unhappy n downgraded by very same pple. I no fit bone, quarrel I no fit. the way out I have been using is relocating n leaving them missing me n calling me Good Guy.

You can be very caring and gentle and at thesame time be assertive and firm. This will ensure people don't take you for granted.






www.nairaland.com/3708909/fergusens-7-steps-understand-lecturer

lie!!!!!!!!

OP this post is pointless, please use the brain small

saydfact:
The BIG question is: Whose fault is it when you’re being taken for granted? Should you blame the person taking you for granted? Or should you blame yourself?

There’s a reason why you may be allowing others to take you for granted. And in all probability, it starts and ends with self respect.

#1 You can’t say ‘no’.

#2 You’re predictable.

#3 You’re too sweet.

#4 You postpone decisions.

#5 You can’t confront people.

#6 You’re scared.

#7 You lie to yourself.

#8 You don’t believe in yourself.

#9 You can’t be alone.

#10 You don’t know your own desires.

copied: www.palmchatnow.com

Now I know the reason for her misbehaviors

The main reason why people are taken for granted in
relationship is because of lack of self-respect just like someone pointed out above.
This makes you constantly do things for people in
order to earn their adulation to make up for whatever you think you lack. However, the results of this
are quite contrary to what you expect because humans will always be humans.


what op listed are things you need to stop. Stop being too predictable, stop postponing important decisions, stop lying to yourself and learn to say 'no'. Learn to confront people. All these won't be hard if you have self respect.

Martinez19:
Humans are terrible, snakes and disks. They should never be trusted. Money and the desire to make it in life brings out the worse in them.

Yea.. Trust is really expensive, dont dish it out easily.

What's tha business?

this is pure truth! however, u dnt apply "do or die" in all situations.

You should monetize the phucks you give. phucks should be dispensed carefully and all safety measures should be observed when dishing out phucks

My phuck rates
1 phuck = 350 naira

Message me if you want to monetize your phuck

I expected an epistle.

saydfact:
The BIG question is: Whose fault is it when you’re being taken for granted? Should you blame the person taking you for granted? Or should you blame yourself?

There’s a reason why you may be allowing others to take you for granted. And in all probability, it starts and ends with self respect.

#1 You can’t say ‘no’.

#2 You’re predictable.

#3 You’re too sweet.

#4 You postpone decisions.

#5 You can’t confront people.

#6 You’re scared.

#7 You lie to yourself.

#8 You don’t believe in yourself.

#9 You can’t be alone.

#10 You don’t know your own desires.

copied: www.palmchatnow.com

5 especially.
When people try to Test you and you don't strike/snap back, they'll "Examinate" you.

fergusen:


You can be very caring and gentle and at thesame time be assertive and firm. This will ensure people don't take you for granted.






www.nairaland.com/3708909/fergusens-7-steps-understand-lecturer

Yeah I concur. Am a very smiling and nice person, giving respect to those who deserve it and helping people too but at the same time I take Nonsense or bullshit from anybody too. Self respect is the answer and when it comes to women, have class not anything under...