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Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Nobody: 6:30pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
DukeNija:But why do nigerian men find it hard to accept thats the issue ... Its like they want a needy wife dont get it 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Nobody: 6:30pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
Kimbra safiaa diddy oya una don comment |
Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Cool23(m): 6:35pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
tosyne2much:yh I feel that's one of the reasons marriage fail 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Nobody: 6:38pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
tosyne2much:Hmmm explains alot You know a guy said to me who are you working for was like na wa o Its not a crime to bring something else that will take huge load off ya hubby .. but alot have this mentality Just dont see what the issue is aslong as she respects her husband and doesnt treat him any less should be fine 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by tosyne2much(m): 6:45pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
Bumbae1:The question is, how many women maintain that level of respect for their men when they earn more? 3 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by tosyne2much(m): 6:46pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
Cool23:Yes it is ooo 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Nobody: 6:46pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
Bumbae1:99% of Nigerian Men are confused egoistic, insecure hypocrites!. I can type that again If need be in slow motion. They want to dominate, control,organize , oversee , dictate and direct the other gender's life yet they complain, wail and ask what the woman brings into marriage / relationship. When a woman is below them, they trample on her, when she's above them, she becomes a threat to their existence. Then I ask, what do men want?. Aren't they just confused babies after all? This is why I advise ladies to achieve what they want to achieve, be who they want to be, be financially stable before considering marriage, then the man will have no choice than to either get richer than you are, or accept you for whom you are. (before Marriage). A man has no right to take a woman's life from her but can share her life with her. 26 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by firstking01(m): 6:48pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
Bumbae1:You really missing if you nahh in ph ciry...Grooving here and there. |
Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Nobody: 6:49pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
firstking01:Will visit sha once i touch down |
Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Nobody: 6:53pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
tosyne2much: Hmmm thats a valid point ... its true some turn their husband to houseboy because they earn more But still Make them give us chance nao 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by firstking01(m): 6:53pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
Bumbae1:Currently where are you abode?? |
Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Nobody: 6:57pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
firstking01:East side of dat landan u no where e dey Oya drive down make we go chop food for 805 u like amala ? |
Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by tosyne2much(m): 6:59pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
Safiaa:I want you to know that this is not only limited to men being intimidated by their wives richer than them. Some men naturally don't want to see people excel more than them in life. It could be their friends, neighbours, family members, etc In a nutshell, men with the above tendencies will never want to see their wives excel than them especially in the area of finances 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by tosyne2much(m): 7:02pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
Bumbae1:When some them earn twice more than their men, they begin to rule out timetable for sex and will starve the man of kitty-cat |
Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Stanleysteno(m): 7:02pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
No be Only star, na legend.... I got no problem with my wife being richer, as long say she no let the riches turn her head |
Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Nobody: 7:07pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
tosyne2much:Lol when she is tired nko lol Btw for a guy how many time a week you think sex is needed for long lasting relationship ( marriage ) 1 a week not a good thing ? 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by tosyne2much(m): 7:12pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
Bumbae1:Well, as for me, I think twice a week is good 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Nobody: 7:15pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
tosyne2much:Yes thats enough abeg who una wan ki But nigerian men have high sex drive .. .. I think 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Nobody: 7:16pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
It is truly wonderful. [b][/b] EnigmaticEnigma: 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by tosyne2much(m): 7:20pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
Bumbae1:Yes most Nigerian men no dey use ear take hear kitty-cat But I'm different tho 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Nobody: 7:23pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
Its very hard for a woman to be earning more than her husband and stay humble However there are rules to making sure you dont become a wuss 1. dont collect her money. No matter how she tries to offer you dont collect. Women can be funny. One minute they tell you " baby whats mine is yours" when you start collecting she will turn around and call U a bum. However important stuff like the kids school fees she can pay IF she offers 2. same goes for her car. Dont drive it even if its sitting idle she has travelled and you need to move around. You are better off getting on okada/keke. She might give you the keys, let you drive but the moment you break one headlight or scratch the car na different tory 3. Dont be too bossy. The golden rule: he who has the gold makes the rules . You might want to be more diplomatic when dealing with her 4. work hard to get on your feet . Let the points 1-3 be your motivation 13 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Alphamale2017(m): 7:32pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
Mynd44:so u nor get girlfriend ? Story for the gods. Abeg send me more jokes 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Mynd44: 7:43pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
tosyne2much:You meed to stop watching Nollywood movies 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by tosyne2much(m): 7:45pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
Mynd44:You should have smelt the sarcasm in my comment 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by bqlekan(m): 8:42pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
I think the man should be blamed here. If a man's family can convince him to divorce his wife over an issue like this, I think the man doesn't deserve the lady in the first place. Can someone actually use someone else's destiny? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Nobody: 9:36pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
Mynd44:I never used to have issues with a woman having a little more cash than her partner. Most men don't take it well. A woman is hardly ever humble, nice or submissive enough. It's like you have to do everything double so you don't offend him. But then, what do I know? There's a bf I'll really love to shoot. 7 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Omotayor123(f): 10:29pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
Alondrah:Oh my God. you spoke my mind. thumbs up for this sis. That Ego like tosyne2much said, will either accept or reject before marriage takes place. Thank you. 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Omotayor123(f): 10:32pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
BUTCHCASSIDY:I couldn't do but agree with you. You're so so on point. |
Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Nobody: 10:45pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
Alondrah:Like its the women that know what they want. Funny enough many women dont have a problem with rich men trampling all over them and treating them like dirt. they even coined a statement to back this up "better to cry in a BMW....." . The few times you see a woman protest against the rich man is if he stops paying up Its when the man doesnt have money then you begin to hear how controlling and fùcked up a man really is 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by DukeNija(m): 12:58am On Apr 22, 2017 |
Bumbae1: It's an ego thing. A Nigerian man is proud of being the major/sole provider, take that away and he'll probably feel emasculated. Besides, there's the profound theory that women who have money don't respect their husbands. 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Tallesty1(m): 4:58am On Apr 22, 2017 |
Omotayor123:Why should all men think same? Give Mynd44 my uncle's shoes to wear for just two days and he will chose to remain single till eternity. Abeg I no wan talk. |
Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by Tallesty1(m): 5:00am On Apr 22, 2017 |
tosyne2much:Oga there's nothing like intimidation there There are too many women out there and a man marries who he's comfortable with, the rest should leave him to his choice and move on. 2 Likes |
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