I have dated him for 4 years and he was my first love.we quit the relationship after 2 years and after a year we came back again.but this time promising to change and fix things up was the opposite instead.i was really tired of enduring and wanting to keep up with my principle of 'THE FIRST MAN I WILL DATE WILL BE THE LAST'' and had to come out of the mess for a broken relationship is better than a failed marriage.when i told him i cant continue this again he started threatening me saying if i marry another person he will shoot me,the man and himself.it became violent really violent and he tells people i left him and he will make me regret ever leaving him.when it became hot that i could not bear it and know not what to do GOD then gave me a job outside the state.it was a miracle.he kept on calling and threatening me until i told him am in a relationship already so he should move on which is a lie and he said YOU COULD NOT EVEN MORN THE RELATIONSHIP IN JUST THREE MONTH YOU ARE ALREADY IN ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP.i told him that to make him stop calling me and insulting me even though he insulted my life when i told him that.there was no contact between us for months.lately he visited my elder sister who was ill and i was on call with her when he came and she told me,your friend is here and not wanting to ignore him i told her to give him the phone and we greeted after several months.the next day he started calling me and showering me sweet names but i told him to please stop all that because what happened the first time that i came back will not repeat itself and am in a relationship already and this time i was really in a relationship and its just 3 weeks after staying and leaving in fear of getting hurt again for over a year and he appears from no where to start calling me again.imagine someone who was calling me all the sweet name on earth,when i told him please am in a relationship so no need of all the sweet names please.he changed on phone immediately and started insulting me and calling me all bad names on earth.he said i will block on all social media i thought he was joking and he truly did.i really do not like violence.what should i do

Forget the psycho Jor..




Direct you energy worrying about sth else

Learn punctuation marks next time
To the guy, change ur number, find a new bf
but bottom line, i don't care if a boy treats a girl bad
All girls r supposed to be dealt with

Why this stuff in nairaland this morning?

elders in the House..... cuman talk ooo