I came across this Lady in a family friends place got talking and we kind of clicked. How ever I was shocked though hid my shock well to hear that she has no ,husband no boyfriend,no job And no business...
She says she never dwells on her predicament as depression and high bp might set in ...
Funny enough she's a muslim so I felt she should at least be able to marry as even no .2

I advised she goes spiritual as this kind of issue get jay kegs oooo

What do u think?

At that age you just have to have achieved at least one thing in life: a good job, business, family, money, anything - even if it's just a boyfriend. Her lack of ambition is astonishing.

I think you should mind your business and stop ameboism

[quote author=Joavid post=56036073]I think you should mind your business and stop ameboism [/quote


lwkmd ooo..

thesicilian:
At that age you just have to have achieved at least one thing in life: a good job, business, family, money, anything - even if it's just a boyfriend. Her lack of ambition is astonishing.

I don't think its lack of ambition sha as she has been maki g efforts

Joavid:
I think you should mind your business and stop ameboism

By the way she asked for advice and yes she knows am posting it ....so please u mind your own business

Is she a feminist ?

A lot of nigerian women will end up like this funny enough. Later they would get one small boy to please marry them and they will be paying the boy

aljharem:
Is she a feminist ?

A lot of nigerian women will end up like this funny enough. Later they would get one small boy to please marry them and they will be paying the boy

Muslim feminist? How ridiculously absurd!

So how does she feed and take care of herself?

She is not doing anything, as in anything?

Fifthcolumnist:


Muslim feminist? How ridiculously absurd!

Yes there are Muslim women that are feminist

I have a friend too (Christian) that's in her late 30s BUT No husband, no boyfriend, no child and worst enough no job. Heaven alone knows how she survives

I once informed her about a particular school in PH that was in need of staff.
After submitting her CV,the HRM told her the available positions were meant only for those that studied "English" and not "Linguistics". ?? Hmmm...

Mznaett:
I have a friend too (Christian) that's in her late 30s BUT No husband, no boyfriend, no child and worst enough no job. Heaven alone knows how she survives

I once informed her about a particular school in PH that was in need of staff.
After submitting her CV,the HRM told her the available positions were meant only for those that studied "English" and not "Linguistics". ?? Hmmm...

Is it that she didn't want to get a bf or what? There are way more men than women and women get to choose so how come? Even fat and ugly girls are changing boyfriends like tissue paper.

OP,
How about you mind your business and face your life? If your life was not depressing for you, you won't have the time to table another woman's business.

Because she's a Muslim "she should at least be able to marry as even no.2", as a second wife? OP, I hope you didn't tell her that. Not everyone wants that kind of life for themselves. Don't pressure her into settling for the wrong person or marriage.

Since she doesn't have a job either, she should be looking into getting one or starting a business and keeping herself occupied + making her money to gain some confidence. That should be her main focus right now.

ifyalways:
So how does she feed and take care of herself?

She is not doing anything, as in anything?

She lives with her parents ....

baby124:
OP,
How about you mind your business and face your life? If your life was not depressing for you, you won't have the time to table another woman's business.

My dear obviously by your choice of words and manner if expression,its clear who has depression.A depressed person stays in her shell and sees nothing good in life they also don't care about others or their problems.

Be honest with your self,you fit the description

aljharem:
Is she a feminist ?

A lot of nigerian women will end up like this funny enough. Later they would get one small boy to please marry them and they will be paying the boy

What makes u feel lot of women will end up like this ?do u have sisters? Do u have daughters? Be care ful of your tongue

tensazangetsu20:

Is it that she didn't want to get a bf or what? There are way more men than women and women get to choose so how come? Even fat and ugly girls are changing boyfriends like tissue paper.

I'm not exaggerating o
If not for some reasons I'd have upload at least two of her pictures here. (A beautiful body+a pretty face+brain). It's not as if she doesn't need a man in her life but in a situation whereby those approaching her are mostly married men with kids? Haba!

lazygal:

She lives with her parents ....

Her parents feed her, change her wardrobe, get her the necessary feminine stuff each month? And she does what from morning till night?

Even Alfa wife dey do something.

Okay, now I know there is a 37 year old single Muslim lady with no job.

Let her try this http://www.namusorg.com/msms/, it might help with her marriage issues.

Mznaett:


I'm not exaggerating o
If not for some reasons I'd have upload at least two of her pictures here. (A beautiful body+a pretty face+brain). It's not as if she doesn't need a man in her life but in a situation whereby those approaching her are mostly married men with kids? Haba!

Well she should come seek admission to my school. If really you say she is what she is, she will get proposals left right and center. Even ugly girls here are treated like gods.

tensazangetsu20:

Well she should come seek admission to my school. If really you say she is what she is, she will get proposals left right and center. Even ugly girls here are treated like gods.

You're mouthed
Location please?

Mznaett:


You're mouthed
Location please?

Regional maritime university, Ghana. If she didn't find a husband here then her villagers are at work. An average girl here has like 10 bfs with each having their own portfolio.

tensazangetsu20:

Regional maritime university, Ghana. If she didn't find a husband here then her villagers are at work. An average girl here has like 10 bfs with each having their own portfolio.

Ooops! she's done with school but no job.

Mznaett:


Ooops! she's done with school but no job.

Lol men she can just move and live here for like a month.

tensazangetsu20:
Lol men she can just move and live here for like a month.

Lol
Guy,please free her jor.

Mznaett:


Lol

Guy,please free her jor.

Lets not derail the thread any further.I sent you a pm.

lazygal:



What makes u feel lot of women will end up like this ?do u have sisters? Do u have daughters? Be care ful of your tongue

No I know what I typed if you decided to bury your head in the sand like the ostrich then fine, your opinion but my household will not end up like that because I have thought them how to be a responsible woman with the fear of God. Not to disrespect responsible men, take care of the home, loyal and caring. That has made all of them to be married today and have a happy home. The last married last year when she decided to drop that feminism rubbish. The husband respect her to the core.

My dear you can give poo and expect flowers in return, what you give is what you get. The same goes to men, you can't treat your wife as a slave and expect a queen. It can't just work. It takes two to tango.

Any single woman that comes to me for advice never get single again after 3 months. Another is getting married next month.

There is no ugly woman. Notice even the extremely fat ones are getting TRUE LOVE while the "slim and beautiful" are still single. Just think about it

tensazangetsu20:
Lets not derail the thread any further.I sent you a pm.

Ok. Sorry,I have issues with my mail.

aljharem:


No I know what I typed if you decided to bury your head in the sand like the ostrich then fine, your opinion but my household will not end up like that because I have thought them how to be a responsible woman with the fear of God. Not to disrespect responsible men, take care of the home, loyal and caring. That has made all of them to be married today and have a happy home. The last married last year when she decided to drop that feminism rubbish. The husband respect her to the core.

My dear you can give poo and expect flowers in return, what you give is what you get. The same goes to men, you can't treat your wife as a slave and expect a queen. It can't just work. It takes two to tango.

Any single woman that comes to me for advice never get single again after 3 months. Another is getting married next month.

There is no ugly woman. Notice even the extremely fat ones are getting TRUE LOVE while the "slim and beautiful" are still single. Just think about it

I didn't bother readin your response but my advise to u still stands don't expect to curse women and expect that the same won't apply to women in your house hold..they are not any different mind words that you utter

ifyalways:

Her parents feed her, change her wardrobe, get her the necessary feminine stuff each month? And she does what from morning till night?

Even Alfa wife dey do something.

Lol ..ify..some Alfa wives no dey do things ooo