jesusbabe00:
I have been happily married for 6 years now with beautiful kids. But recently my husband started being secretive with his phone. He passworded his phone and when I asked him what he was hiding, he will not give me any tangible reason. This attitude continued for some time, so I decided to hack his phone. I downloaded an Application that enabled me have access to his WhatsApp account from my own phone. From this application, I observed that he was chatting with his ex-girlfriend who is now married too. They were expressing love for each other and how they wished they got married and all that. On this same day they were chatting, my husband was suppose to travel outside the country, so I noticed that the two of them have scheduled to meet at the airport where they planned to have sex with each other before he finally flies out. When I saw this chat, my husband was already on his way to airport, I screeshot all their chats and sent it to him, expressing my disappointment. I also sent the screeshot to the lady so that she will know I know what is happening. I also warned her to stop destroying my marriage, if not I will disgrace her. I later got in contact with the lady's husband through Facebook friend request and I started chatting with him. In the process I told him that his wife is trying to destroy my marriage. I also sent the screeshot to him. He promised me that he will make sure his wife does not destroy my marriage. Right now my husband has been calling but I have refused to pick him calls. I feel so betrayed that a man I trusted so much could do this to me. I don't want to easily forgive him and I am looking for a way to really punish him for betraying my love for him. Please help me because am so demoralised right now. Sorry for the long story.

sisisioge:


Haba! What you don't know won't kill you. Abi, shall we just pray the dude stays in your lane only, that way no need to police. See her now, she's gotten the info and still at a cross end on what to do with it..may God help us o jare. It is well.

Dyt:



But I don save am sha

HerPov:
I say give him a taste of his own medicine without the cheating. Put a pin on your phone first. Then get a female friend to play along without telling her why, save her number under a male name on some random number. Now start messaging her back and forth. Laugh, have fun and go out and about as you please. Take his position as the head of your home and challenge it. Come home at odd hours and basically drive him mad. Give him a job to do in monitoring your movements since he had enough time on his hands to cheat give him something to do. Before all this I would advice you separate. Leave his home and get him to work for this relationship. Get him to feel your absence so he can decide where his heart lays. Please don't forgive him to soon! He has to feel his world shatter like you felt yours. Believe nothing he says to you until he earns his trust back. Ignore these people talking about forgiveness, what he did is a sin against you and God and it should not be forgiven so lightly. Just imagine how he would disgrace you if the tables had turned! He would throw you out of your home and take your child! He would tell everyone that would listen.

1. Leave the house/ if you can't then leave the bed.
2. Trick him into thinking that you are seeing another man without doing it (be on your phone, act suspicious, and don't pick up his calls when you're outside - make excuses if asked why)
3. Make him do the work of winning you and your trust back. Do not forgive this lightly or he will think this is the new norm.
4. Tell your family and his family, don't cover his shame for him.
5. Go for marriage counselling.

Funjosh:






Dyt

Dyt:


Naso

HerPov:
I say give him a taste of his own medicine without the cheating. Put a pin on your phone first. Then get a female friend to play along without telling her why, save her number under a male name on some random number. Now start messaging her back and forth. Laugh, have fun and go out and about as you please. Take his position as the head of your home and challenge it. Come home at odd hours and basically drive him mad. Give him a job to do in monitoring your movements since he had enough time on his hands to cheat give him something to do. Before all this I would advice you separate. Leave his home and get him to work for this relationship. Get him to feel your absence so he can decide where his heart lays. Please don't forgive him to soon! He has to feel his world shatter like you felt yours. Believe nothing he says to you until he earns his trust back. Ignore these people talking about forgiveness, what he did is a sin against you and God and it should not be forgiven so lightly. Just imagine how he would disgrace you if the tables had turned! He would throw you out of your home and take your child! He would tell everyone that would listen.

1. Leave the house/ if you can't then leave the bed.
2. Trick him into thinking that you are seeing another man without doing it (be on your phone, act suspicious, and don't pick up his calls when you're outside - make excuses if asked why)
3. Make him do the work of winning you and your trust back. Do not forgive this lightly or he will think this is the new norm.
4. Tell your family and his family, don't cover his shame for him.
5. Go for marriage counselling.

jesusbabe00:
I have been happily married for 6 years now with beautiful kids. But recently my husband started being secretive with his phone. He passworded his phone and when I asked him what he was hiding, he will not give me any tangible reason. This attitude continued for some time, so I decided to hack his phone. I downloaded an Application that enabled me have access to his WhatsApp account from my own phone. From this application, I observed that he was chatting with his ex-girlfriend who is now married too. They were expressing love for each other and how they wished they got married and all that. On this same day they were chatting, my husband was suppose to travel outside the country, so I noticed that the two of them have scheduled to meet at the airport where they planned to have sex with each other before he finally flies out. When I saw this chat, my husband was already on his way to airport, I screeshot all their chats and sent it to him, expressing my disappointment. I also sent the screeshot to the lady so that she will know I know what is happening. I also warned her to stop destroying my marriage, if not I will disgrace her. I later got in contact with the lady's husband through Facebook friend request and I started chatting with him. In the process I told him that his wife is trying to destroy my marriage. I also sent the screeshot to him. He promised me that he will make sure his wife does not destroy my marriage. Right now my husband has been calling but I have refused to pick him calls. I feel so betrayed that a man I trusted so much could do this to me. I don't want to easily forgive him and I am looking for a way to really punish him for betraying my love for him. Please help me because am so demoralised right now. Sorry for the long story.

jesusbabe00:
I have been happily married for 6 years now with beautiful kids. But recently my husband started being secretive with his phone. He passworded his phone and when I asked him what he was hiding, he will not give me any tangible reason. This attitude continued for some time, so I decided to hack his phone. I downloaded an Application that enabled me have access to his WhatsApp account from my own phone. From this application, I observed that he was chatting with his ex-girlfriend who is now married too. They were expressing love for each other and how they wished they got married and all that. On this same day they were chatting, my husband was suppose to travel outside the country, so I noticed that the two of them have scheduled to meet at the airport where they planned to have sex with each other before he finally flies out. When I saw this chat, my husband was already on his way to airport, I screeshot all their chats and sent it to him, expressing my disappointment. I also sent the screeshot to the lady so that she will know I know what is happening. I also warned her to stop destroying my marriage, if not I will disgrace her. I later got in contact with the lady's husband through Facebook friend request and I started chatting with him. In the process I told him that his wife is trying to destroy my marriage. I also sent the screeshot to him. He promised me that he will make sure his wife does not destroy my marriage. Right now my husband has been calling but I have refused to pick him calls. I feel so betrayed that a man I trusted so much could do this to me. I don't want to easily forgive him and I am looking for a way to really punish him for betraying my love for him. Please help me because am so demoralised right now. Sorry for the long story.

jesusbabe00:
I have been happily married for 6 years now with beautiful kids. But recently my husband started being secretive with his phone. He passworded his phone and when I asked him what he was hiding, he will not give me any tangible reason. This attitude continued for some time, so I decided to hack his phone. I downloaded an Application that enabled me have access to his WhatsApp account from my own phone. From this application, I observed that he was chatting with his ex-girlfriend who is now married too. They were expressing love for each other and how they wished they got married and all that. On this same day they were chatting, my husband was suppose to travel outside the country, so I noticed that the two of them have scheduled to meet at the airport where they planned to have sex with each other before he finally flies out. When I saw this chat, my husband was already on his way to airport, I screeshot all their chats and sent it to him, expressing my disappointment. I also sent the screeshot to the lady so that she will know I know what is happening. I also warned her to stop destroying my marriage, if not I will disgrace her. I later got in contact with the lady's husband through Facebook friend request and I started chatting with him. In the process I told him that his wife is trying to destroy my marriage. I also sent the screeshot to him. He promised me that he will make sure his wife does not destroy my marriage. Right now my husband has been calling but I have refused to pick him calls. I feel so betrayed that a man I trusted so much could do this to me. I don't want to easily forgive him and I am looking for a way to really punish him for betraying my love for him. Please help me because am so demoralised right now. Sorry for the long story.

jesusbabe00:
I have been happily married for 6 years now with beautiful kids. But recently my husband started being secretive with his phone. He passworded his phone and when I asked him what he was hiding, he will not give me any tangible reason. This attitude continued for some time, so I decided to hack his phone. I downloaded an Application that enabled me have access to his WhatsApp account from my own phone. From this application, I observed that he was chatting with his ex-girlfriend who is now married too. They were expressing love for each other and how they wished they got married and all that. On this same day they were chatting, my husband was suppose to travel outside the country, so I noticed that the two of them have scheduled to meet at the airport where they planned to have sex with each other before he finally flies out. When I saw this chat, my husband was already on his way to airport, I screeshot all their chats and sent it to him, expressing my disappointment. I also sent the screeshot to the lady so that she will know I know what is happening. I also warned her to stop destroying my marriage, if not I will disgrace her. I later got in contact with the lady's husband through Facebook friend request and I started chatting with him. In the process I told him that his wife is trying to destroy my marriage. I also sent the screeshot to him. He promised me that he will make sure his wife does not destroy my marriage. Right now my husband has been calling but I have refused to pick him calls. I feel so betrayed that a man I trusted so much could do this to me. I don't want to easily forgive him and I am looking for a way to really punish him for betraying my love for him. Please help me because am so demoralised right now. Sorry for the long story.

jesusbabe00:
it is called Whatscan for Whatsweb. It can be downloaded from Google playstore. After downloading it in your phone. Go to the WhatsApp account of the person who want to spy, open the WhatsApp Web and scan the QR code of this application in your phone. That way you monitor all his chats.

jesusbabe00:
it is called Whatscan for Whatsweb. It can be downloaded from Google playstore. After downloading it in your phone. Go to the WhatsApp account of the person who want to spy, open the WhatsApp Web and scan the QR code of this application in your phone. That way you monitor all his chats.

abescom:
This is evil. When my wife did this to me ( I did not cheat but I was meandering near it shadow) I felt like dying. Silence treatment is bad. Kuku kill the man.

As for jesusbabe you just have to forgive him and look inwardly what it is you have done wrong. There must be something that you have done wrong too or not enough. In my own case it was my woman constantly denying me access to her body.

No excuse for cheating, yes, I, someone who was close to cheating is saying that, but the men are not always ONLY the ones at fault. Check yourself too.

I have been happily married for 6 years now with beautiful kids. But recently my husband started being secretive with his phone. He passworded his phone and when I asked him what he was hiding, he will not give me any tangible reason. This attitude continued for some time, so I decided to hack his phone. I downloaded an Application that enabled me have access to his WhatsApp account from my own phone. From this application, I observed that he was chatting with his ex-girlfriend who is now married too. They were expressing love for each other and how they wished they got married and all that. On this same day they were chatting, my husband was suppose to travel outside the country, so I noticed that the two of them have scheduled to meet at the airport where they planned to have sex with each other before he finally flies out. When I saw this chat, my husband was already on his way to airport, I screeshot all their chats and sent it to him, expressing my disappointment. I also sent the screeshot to the lady so that she will know I know what is happening. I also warned her to stop destroying my marriage, if not I will disgrace her. I later got in contact with the lady's husband through Facebook friend request and I started chatting with him. In the process I told him that his wife is trying to destroy my marriage. I also sent the screeshot to him. He promised me that he will make sure his wife does not destroy my marriage. Right now my husband has been calling but I have refused to pick him calls. I feel so betrayed that a man I trusted so much could do this to me. I don't want to easily forgive him and I am looking for a way to really punish him for betraying my love for him. Please help me because am so demoralised right now. Sorry for the long story.