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Hmm

Bruff shes a lady and they r prone to this ish with their parents plus no parent wants their daughter to be used and dump as thats the trending ish of the day. Finally you know your intentions, they dont. Its just an introduction not a marriage and they cant force a wedding date on you bro. Since thats all they want give em to be sure of you but state it clear that u r not getting married untill stable. If na me self I go doubt u as u dey yarn like baby so. If u come Bleep dem daughter up d swear na 1terrabyt oooh

Go see her parents again and explain to them exactly what you wrote here.

BTW if your gal didn't care about what her parents told her she wouldn't be moody lately, so you better check hrt well.

If I was the father, then i would suggest you be a bit more confident about yourself, and this time GO ALONE like a man (instead of bringing a friend like a whimp). Any father wants their daughters to be in the hands of a strong man, not some afraid chicken

MrBrownJay1:
Go see her parents again and explain to them exactly what you wrote here.

BTW if your gal didn't care about what her parents told her she wouldn't be moody lately, so you better check hrt well.

If I was the father, then i would suggest you be a bit more confident about yourself, and this time GO ALONE like a man (instead of bringing a friend like a whimp). Any father wants their
daughters to be in the hands of a strong man, not some afraid chicken

Lol, Thanks man. Already thinking of going alone this time around

Afonjashapmouth:
Bruff shes a lady and they r prone to this ish with their parents plus no parent wants their daughter to be used and dump as thats the trending ish of the day. Finally you know your intentions, they dont. Its just an introduction not a marriage and they cant force a wedding date on you bro. Since thats all they want give em to be sure of you but state it clear that u r not getting married untill stable. If na me self I go doubt u as u dey yarn like baby so. If u come Bleep dem daughter up d swear na 1terrabyt oooh

Hehe, i av no intention of 'use n dump'. I will jst av to see her father one on one and try and explain tinz to him cos my parents will nt even entertain intro talk if i tell them

If your intentions are pure, just go and do the introduction but drum it to them that wedding will only take place when you are financially stable.

If you aren't sure of sticking to the lady, just scram now before you ruin your mothers relationship with her friend.


Introduction is done with family members o. That means your parents must be involved. Less chance of you running away then.

Allow that girl to go and marry, you never ready.

Well this is dicey, her parents have their reasons, and you have yours.

Both reasons are valid so you all must reach a common ground. My honest advice, if they still insist on an introduction after you see the father one more time, simply let her go. Dont ever let anyone force you to a point of responsibility you're not willing to bear. Marriage ain't for kids.

On second thought, there might be pressures from other angles like suitors from close family friends that is why they are mounting the pressure on her. Its possible that in reality they are asking her to make a choice.

At the end of the day be ready to loose her, women will come and go but your wife will remain, if she is not yours she will move on. That's reality for you.

kaycodes:
Well this is dicey, her parents have their reasons, and you have yours.

Both reasons are valid so you all must reach a common ground. My honest advice, if they still insist on an introduction after you see the father one more time, simply let her go. Dont ever let anyone force you to a point of responsibility you're not willing to bear. Marriage ain't for kids.

On second thought, there might be pressures from other angles like suitors from close family friends that is why they are mounting the pressure on her. Its possible that in reality they are asking her to make a choice.

At the end of the day be ready to loose her, women will come and go but your wife will remain, if she is not yours she will move on. That's reality for you.

Thanks, this is really helpful.