Narcissistic abuse is a very severe abuse in relationships and marriages which many people are not aware of and this is due to the high level of manipulation involved. Narcissists are incapable of love because they are unable to bond with people emotionally, however, they are very charming and easily draw people close to themselves. Narcissists have an exaggerated sense of self worth and form relationships with people based on how much their image can be boosted by them . It is either you are a victim of their schemes or an accomplice. You can only be close to them on these grounds. The intimate partners of narcissists are hardest hit by their nature and is the most difficult relationship one can ever recover from. Initially, they charm their victims with a love that is too good to be true and as time goes by, they cross boundaries that would make the victim under their spell in such a way that the victim would be traumatized and haunted even after a breakup. It is impossible to be happy in a long term relationship with a narcissist. They are users, manipulator so and chronic liars who would paint themselves as the victims when the real victim has been discarded. There is so much about the narcissist that I would like to share but if my post is too long, you would get bored. For now, let's be be weary of partners that seem to fall in love with us too soon , that have bad things to say about their exes continually, that are demanding, that have no real friends , compulsive liars, feel entitled, hardly admit to being wrong, domineering, get bored easily....to be continued.

The worst situation one can find oneself is to be married to a narcissist. A lot of people are suffering on their marriages because of this most especially the woman.

I have a friend like this. God I had to call it off to get back my sanity.

Not just men women too exhibit this trait.