I believe this topic will be thrown to the recycle bin, but i am a persistent person.
That in this context means that i have made similar topic somewhere where nobody except me can delete it.

Who among us has never cheated, insulted, manipulated or abused another human being.
Show me that person and i will show you a perfect liar. I have learnt a lot about life.
So many things attributed to the perceived strong are actually the qualities of the weak.
The truth is that no one can live in this world without friends.
Another truth is that we chose our friends or enemies according to our current mood,
especially when there is an unusual event.
The weak are not those people who cannot fight for themselves,
The weak are people who try to take advantage of every situation. whether good or bad.
The strong are people who see trouble, tried to avoid it, avoided it, failed to avoid it after trying and the likes,
My little life has seen a lot of things, cultures, people, characters, desires, dreams, fantasies, illusions, etc.
At the end, i struggle to understand all of them but the simple truth is that i can never understand them and nobody can. Whenever i throw that big blanket over my body and prepare to sleep, I always make out some minutes to meditate on how wrong or right i had been for that day. The truth is that whenever you think you are right, some people think you are wrong and whenever you think you did the wrong thing, some people will agree that you actually did the right thing,
So the definition of life to me, my friend, Has become NOTHING!!.

I am dedicating this article to a lady. Miss <snip> aka. spikeycylinder.

Pic removed * its against the rules to post a members pic, without their permisison

I dont really recall how we met, but i have a pretty good idea.
It has to be through my offline jokes which i started writing and posting to people as far back as 2005 or 2006.
I recall i used to chat with you a lot then, share jokes and laughter, and even discuss business.
I would have asked you out because you are a beautiful and smart girl, but i never did because we dont live in the same part of the World.
In this life we live, I always vote to do things that has chances of working out for me in the long run.
We are vulnerable to the temptations of anger, fear, weakness, stubbornness and many more.
And we get confused in the process to the extent that we forget the ones we are supposed to chose.

Miss Kemi, You are not sick, You are not wicked [atleast you have never been to me].
We quarreled online sometime ago, and fell out of place.
Since then, each time i log on to my yahoo messenger and see you online,
It reminds me of one person i cannot say hi to.
It reminds me of how people could fall out of friendship and out of order.
It reminds me of the mistakes humanity can make just to make themselves feel alright while others feel bad.
And at the end of the day, it all boils down to who is right and is wrong.
Now how does that make us better than one another ?

Today i took what i believe was a giant step towards reminding myself how strong i am.
I deleted your name from my friends list. I deleted it not because i want to. not because i dont want to see it float on my list like all my friends but because i have made so many attempts to contact you, to ask you to forget what happened and move on, to remind you that we are all humans who are vulnerable to problems and to remind you that being enemies is not the way out but then you never respond. You never return my 'HI'. You never respond to my 'how are you'.
You never wanted to know why i was doing all that. I believe you have chosed your friends and you believe that they are just the right people because they either tell you what you want to hear or because they look like want you want to see. Before anyone begin to tell me how weak or silly i am, I will like to say that i have been in a situation like this before and at the end of the day, i only created one virtual enemy who thinks and believes that i should be in the grave instead of a bar. I believe that one of the characteristics of falling out of order is to start calling one another names.
Like, silly, ugly, idiot, poor, retard, clown, illiterate and many many more.
I also believe that it hurts more when the person you respect and trust betray you.
All this are just the normal characteristics of everyday human being.

I want you to tell me what you see when you look at your picture above.
Tell me what that is if not a beautiful girl, Tell me what you see in those eyes if not a decent and sweet girl.
Do not let utterances of people derail your mind. I am sorry for what happened.
It has never given me sleepless night but that was because we all pretend to be strong even when we did something that makes us weak.
I dont like to loose friends because To have a good friend is one of the highest delights of life.
And because The best things in life are never rationed.
Forgiveness begins when we recall those who hurt us and feel the power to wish them well.

subscribing!

Darn it!!


THE AMAKA, you beat me to it!!

Lol.

Subscribing oooo.


_{while I was reading, a reply has been posted bla bla bla}

What happened?

@ Sam

Maybe you shouldn't have posted her picture.

But my rival is do damn prettyyyyyyyyyy

stillwater:

What happened?

gbeborun

TOPE2000!:

gbeborun

Lol. I'm always like the last person to know things here on NL. Don't blame me abeg. One has to be watchful

The picture stays there. She is a pretty girl.

stillwater:

Lol. I'm always like the last person to know things here on NL. Don't blame me abeg. One has to be watchful

Lmao . . .one does have to be watchful on dis NL o

What is going on here?

Is this an ode to a chick?

Lol, some deep learning and revelation going on here

SEFAGO:

What is going on here?

Is this an ode to a chick?

ode to a chick ko, ode to a nightingale ni .

Sam Milla:

The picture stays there. She is a pretty girl.

"The picture". Na you get am?? Posting pictures of a member without his/her permission is a bannable offence . I hope .

spikedcylinder:

Sam, what is going on?

It's an ode to you.

I think someone is just trying to make peace.

spikedcylinder:

Sam, what is going on?

Nothing, just that since the last time we rumpled the neck of our shirts here on nairaland ,
You have not returned my '' how are you'' or ''hi''.

Awwwww.

sam y didnt u send her dis message to her inbox b4 u deleted her?
chei see story

agabaI23:

I think someone is just trying to make peace.

At least he should have got the name right.

[b]Spikey[/b]cylinder. Lolzzzz.

tboy1:

sam y didnt u send her dis message to her inbox b4 u deleted her?
chei see story

same thing i was thinkin ooo
must u wash ur dirty linen here

maedan:

At least he should have got the name right.

[b]Spikey[/b]cylinder. Lolzzzz.

The spikey is kinda pettish. I think it was deliberate!

lol funny arse thread.

Man you guys are weird. Sam Milla all that story for nothin? She is a Nigerian woman for crying out loud- she is quite used to being abused, slapped and kicked around- all you had to do was say sorry instead of writing a bloody thesis

SEFAGO:

Man you guys are weird. Sam Milla all that story for nothin? She is a Nigerian woman for crying out loud- she is quite used to being abused, slapped and kicked around- all you had to do was say sorry instead of writing a bloody thesis

OMG
can somebody shut this lil boy up?

TOPE2000!:

same thing i was thinkin ooo
must u wash your dirty linen here

na only dirty linen him wash??
u no see long story, with picture sef  

SEFAGO:

Man you guys are weird. Sam Milla all that story for nothin? She is a Nigerian woman for crying out loud- she is quite used to being abused, slapped and kicked around- all you had to do was say sorry instead of writing a bloody thesis

And as a Nigerian man, you are used to being a mugu?

you don't have to be a pvssy.

tboy1:

na only dirty linen him wash??
u no see long story, with picture sef  

Lmao . . .make una leave sam
The dude no fit sleep after the fight na

H2O2:

you don't have to be a pvssy.

Sure you are a deck and I don't want you to be attracted to me.

michelin89:

And as a Nigerian man, you are used to being a mugu?

Not funny

TOPE2000!:

OMG
can somebody shut this lil boy up?

Its called freedom speech. I am not a little boy. If you are using it as a derogatory term not working.

I read everything man, waste of my time reading so much to find out later that this was an apology

SEFAGO:

Not funny

Yours was?