modelmike7:
Hope he hasn't tasted the forbidden fruit?!

MrBrownJay1:
Why not just openly ask him who is the babe, and be done with the stress?! Wouldn't it be a waste of time if you wait X amount of time before finding that he is playing you.

Btw: remember, asking a stranger (yeah that's what you are to him) to marry him, could just be a trick to have unrestricted access to your honeypot.

Winneygirl:
Long distance relationships have their ups and downs.
All these 'see each other once a year ' doesn't always work out.
If he has moved on, please save yourself the stress and move on too.

Sexonmomma:

Haven't confronted him on the issue yet. My dear, if he has moved on and he tells me, honestly I would back off... All his comments on the girl's post is what's getting at me.

tollu:


Babe, don't expect closure in words. Attitude is everything. I say eff him and move on.

This is not anything difficult and it doesn't even sound like he's playing mind games with you, that's nice of him. He's simply no longer interested.
How many ears do you have? Pull one and listen to this internet stranger. Move on and blank him immediately.
All the best.

Sexonmomma:

Thanks for this. I thought about asking him. A friend said I shouldn't do on phone until I see him physically. But then again, it's really eating me and I don't have rest of mind

Sexonmomma:

Haven't confronted him on the issue yet. My dear, if he has moved on and he tells me, honestly I would back off... All his comments on the girl's post is what's getting at me.

Viking007:
You've said it all, I pray she listens. Why some women find it difficult to let go even with the clear signs staring at them is still unknown. I'm running out of options on how to cut one off presently.

tollu:


Babe, don't expect closure in words. Attitude is everything. I say eff him and move on.

This is not anything difficult and it doesn't even sound like he's playing mind games with you, that's nice of him. He's simply no longer interested.
How many ears do you have? Pull one and listen to this internet stranger. Move on and blank him immediately.
All the best.

Mimzyy:
Why did you give her the green light in the first place.

Viking007:
Doesn't matter... The issue now is why she's ignoring the red light.

Mimzyy:


You led her on she probably doesn't know you're set to leave her in the lurch. You should be open bout it. Dialogue works!

She knows.

Richy4:
Don't give him your "cookies" anymore.Save it for the right person...He has gotten what he wanted and decides to move on...What he expected was not what he saw. that's why he went back to window-shop some more ...need I remind you that he saw you online..that's his play ground...You can't stop him...hit the ignore button...Use your time for meaningful things..However he wants the relationship, give it to him...If you are tired, call it off....You sold your heart a little too fast...Call me old school but I never liked that online thing even if it's Eharmony that got class, I still have my reservation...

EfemenaXY:


I personally don't like mind games and definitely detest being led by a shoe string. Nothing wrong in seeking closure. Just be upfront about it and ask him point blank where you stand with him. It's not immature to ask and you have every right to hear it straight from the horse's mouth.

Having said that, you know in your heart of hearts that it's over.



You're stalking him (online) and you don't even realise it.

Sexonmomma:


Thanks for this. Seriously the signs are just there that he's not interested. I just needed unbiased opinion of others on the matter. Imagine my close friend told me to stay calm and that I was reading too many meanings into it, but my mind wasn't at ease. I eventually confronted him on the matter... No need saying more, I'm out already

Viking007:
You've said it all, I pray she listens. Why some women find it difficult to let go even with the clear signs staring at them is still unknown. I'm running out of options on how to cut one off presently.

Sexonmomma:
I'm posting this here because I need your mature advise on this issue


I'm not sum1 who goes into a relationship with someone I meet online. I just generally go online 2 check on other pple's post, read msgs and post mine. So last year, I was replying messages that came in on my B-Day when I was caught by the msg of a guy... I havent replied his msg since May and we were in Oct. We started talking and I felt he was OK. Later gave him my number after his request and I discovered he could hold a conversation.


We met just once later in the year because I had to go for service, and he's really fun to be with.. He kept in touch all through camp and out of camp and even sent little gifts like card. We continued talking on phone(we neva met again) until coincidentally, we both happen to be in the same state in April. I came to see my old time coursemate and spend Easter hols, while he came for work. It was just for a day, but it was a great time. Not long after, he asked me to be his woman and I did because I liked him already. Seriously, it has been my best romance. He called regularly to check up on me and even got me a new android phone after I was robbed at gunpoint. We prayed 2geda on fone and say some silly things that make us laugh. I went to visit my parents in lag whr he's also based and we decided dat I'll def see him wen I'm thr. We saw but not quite long after, he travelled for work. He promised to keep in touch with me if he gets good network where he's going to. He never called to tell me he's gotten thr. Called him, he didn't pick, not until some days later he called and told me he has been busy with work. I reasoned with him but it continued that way... Funny enough, I see him online but he neva reply my messages. He doesn't even bother reading it. This continued after he got back from work and I had already travelled back to my serving state.. He hardly calls and won't call except I call... Infact he can go days without calling.. Strange.

Without letting my guard down, I checked his profile and I realized that there's dis particularly girl he replies her comment on his post even while ignoring the rest. I checked the girl's post and saw that he comments on all the posts and his comments shows suggestive meanings..i even saw the things he tells the girl on her post are like some of the things me and him discuss for our pleasure. Right now, I'm thinking of just giving him space and investing in myself, someone advised me against confronting him as it may make him more cautious

I don't want to make my conclusion on this, but please I need your mature advise.

sisisioge:
Nne, biko leave him alone. Don't ask him anything, don't call him again...just plain leave him alone. That's what I would do...life is really too short to be hung up on someone who's obviously moved on. At least you have good memories...keep it that way. Pele baby.

tollu:


Babe, don't expect closure in words. Attitude is everything. I say eff him and move on.

This is not anything difficult and it doesn't even sound like he's playing mind games with you, that's nice of him. He's simply no longer interested.
How many ears do you have? Pull one and listen to this internet stranger. Move on and blank him immediately.
All the best.