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Our Request To 9ja Woman In D Diaspora by VGA: 11:25am On Jan 31, 2010 |
Hello girls to cut the long story short and for the sake of simplicity am not going to lie it really hurt me and i think some guys may or may not agree. when we guys approach you and stated introducing oneselves as my name is , so on and so fourth try to understand us is not maybe we are jobless or looking for trouble you know deep in your heart this guy want to be your friend and hopefully you become boyfriend girlfriend things am telling the truth and been simple here 4get all this western culture thing. we are black and africans dont expect the guy to start using online dating techniques. i grew up in nigeria and nothing like all this online techniques do this do that u cant even be yourselves anymore for the sake of confusion am addressing this to our 9ja queens in the diaspora. i saw a topic the other day when a guy met a girl and the only thing he talked was food and church there's nothing wrong in that. i supported the guy because he is real and be himself all this online topic dont work. is just to take our money and upon that we dont even get the girl. so girls what are the things we mens need to do or how to approach you if we dont approach u then how r we are going to meet the opposite intimacy. cos have tend to realise when you meet a girl here in abroad seems is like an insult when u r trying to know to i dont know y anyway am keeping my fingers cross and hope to get replies on this |
Re: Our Request To 9ja Woman In D Diaspora by Pwaves(f): 12:11pm On Jan 31, 2010 |
Ogaa o. |
Re: Our Request To 9ja Woman In D Diaspora by neily(f): 12:27pm On Jan 31, 2010 |
The problem here is that you guys are not romantic. Yes we are Naijas but time and the world is changing you guys shuld change wit it. The time of our mothers and grand mothers has changed. Think of Nigeria thirty yrs ago and now, is there no change. That we are Africans and Nigerians does not mean we shuld not be civilised. Lets be real but the only thing that is constant in this world is CHANGE. |
Re: Our Request To 9ja Woman In D Diaspora by N101: 2:22pm On Jan 31, 2010 |
@ poster If you approach a woman the right way she will not reject you or be rude to you. Get to know her before you start stating your CV and "propositioning" her. If you approach her the right way and she is rude to you or starts acting up, walk away. She doesn't deserve any more of your attention. Spare me that rubbish about "western culture", that's always used as an excuse for someone who doesn't know how to behave. Win her as a friend first rather than acting out on what you see and what you want to do with her (sharp women can read that look from a mile away). Oh, and make sure you smell nice RESPECT is the key. |
Re: Our Request To 9ja Woman In D Diaspora by daylae(m): 2:37pm On Jan 31, 2010 |
Internet dating was intented to make people comfortable and free when trying to find intimacy,but now it is certain that its been grossly bastardise;tink some peole still believe in it just for mere facination cus more than 80% of people looking for a date on the internet gives false imformation about themselves,some even use someone else's picture on thier profile,its just but a way to manipulate and con innocent people. Its never an old sch method approaching someone in the street,cus its more real and safe rather than going on blind date on the net. |
Re: Our Request To 9ja Woman In D Diaspora by coolier(f): 7:45pm On Jan 31, 2010 |
What's he saying? |
Re: Our Request To 9ja Woman In D Diaspora by Fhemmmy: 2:44pm On Feb 01, 2010 |
The wrath of a man looking for love |
Re: Our Request To 9ja Woman In D Diaspora by VGA: 10:16am On Feb 02, 2010 |
coolier: As you can see read for yourself. try not to pretend |
Re: Our Request To 9ja Woman In D Diaspora by Shinatu: 1:15pm On Feb 02, 2010 |
N101: GBAM! |
Re: Our Request To 9ja Woman In D Diaspora by iice(f): 3:21pm On Feb 02, 2010 |
LOL |
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