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Re: Can A Married Christian Couple Use intimacy gadgets? by Erhun10z: 11:27am On Jul 09, 2017
niqqaclaimz:
For me is nat right....God created those genetials for use .feel like is sodomy...
Please, What Is The Relationship Between Sodomy And Intimacy Gadgets ?? Because Ayam Not Understanding You OOOO
Re: Can A Married Christian Couple Use intimacy gadgets? by teemy(m): 11:28am On Jul 09, 2017
the more married folks have playful moments the more they bond together. ever considered that you are closer to that friend you did a lot of naughty things together back as kids than the other ones. let folks play more abegi, marriages are failing.
Re: Can A Married Christian Couple Use intimacy gadgets? by Nobody: 11:34am On Jul 09, 2017
Josh44s:


You are a big fooool for asking such stuupid question. Even Islam don't permit it, let alone Christian

You are a slave
Re: Can A Married Christian Couple Use intimacy gadgets? by Erhun10z: 11:38am On Jul 09, 2017
Samuel8604:


be specific wat for?
To Sing In The Church As Microphone.. You Don't Know What Intimacy Gadgets Are Use For Abi ? Issorite, Dey There Make Pant Dey Wear You.
Re: Can A Married Christian Couple Use intimacy gadgets? by mykel25(m): 11:39am On Jul 09, 2017
Anything that rocks your boat
Re: Can A Married Christian Couple Use intimacy gadgets? by tobrinskilanski: 11:41am On Jul 09, 2017
Beckino:
Though I have no biblical proof I feel like it's sodomy.

are u a deeper life member?
Re: Can A Married Christian Couple Use intimacy gadgets? by Erhun10z: 11:44am On Jul 09, 2017
HARDDON:


I curse you for this blasphemy!
May the cross you just so blatantly just abused judge you this day!
I hereby command the air you breath to choke you.
The earth upon which u walk swallow you.

In Jesus name i Declare! Amen

Imagine this rude uncut thrash. Can u try this with Islam n not cause an uproar?
Chaii !!!! If Men Were God, The Guy You Quoted Would Have Had His Place In The Guiness World Record For Worst Death Ever

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Re: Can A Married Christian Couple Use intimacy gadgets? by Nchabuomo: 11:46am On Jul 09, 2017
HARDDON:


I curse you for this blasphemy!
May the cross you just so blatantly just abused judge you this day!
I hereby command the air you breath to choke you.
The earth upon which u walk swallow you.

In Jesus name i Declare! Amen

Imagine this rude uncut thrash. Can u try this with Islam n not cause an uproar?
Why are you fighting for God?
Who empowered you to curse or bless?
If you feel the individual crossed the line, pray for God to show him Grace and Mercy, not curse him with death;which you don't even have the power to.

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Re: Can A Married Christian Couple Use intimacy gadgets? by Kaycee7(m): 11:48am On Jul 09, 2017
According to the teachings of the Church, sex should be marital, unitive and procreative. The use of intimacy gadgets violates the unitive requirement. Therefore Christian couples should abstain from use of intimacy gadgets.
Re: Can A Married Christian Couple Use intimacy gadgets? by Erhun10z: 11:52am On Jul 09, 2017
holluphemydavid:

Am a Christian and I av English version of Quran, so state ur reference where d mouth action was stated forbiden
He Was Talking About The Hadith Of The Holy Prophet Mohammed (pbuh) And The Opinion Of Some Scholars (due To Health Issues)..
Re: Can A Married Christian Couple Use intimacy gadgets? by cold(m): 12:01pm On Jul 09, 2017
HARDDON:


I curse you for this blasphemy!
May the cross you just so blatantly just abused judge you this day!
I hereby command the air you breath to choke you.
The earth upon which u walk swallow you.

In Jesus name i Declare! Amen

Imagine this rude uncut thrash. Can u try this with Islam n not cause an uproar?
Oh ma gawd! I'm shaking..dayum! See my life..sigh

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Re: Can A Married Christian Couple Use intimacy gadgets? by enemyofprogress: 12:01pm On Jul 09, 2017
I must not see any muslim here on this thread unless he/she declares that Jesus is his/her Lord and personal saviour.
Re: Can A Married Christian Couple Use intimacy gadgets? by bunnyhabit: 12:03pm On Jul 09, 2017
i have been a catholic all my life and i have never heard it was a sin to use sexual toys during love making sessions. i let my sex partner use intimacy gadgets with me
Re: Can A Married Christian Couple Use intimacy gadgets? by gokuu(m): 12:04pm On Jul 09, 2017
Which one is "intimacy gadgets" again??

It's sex* toys jorrrr, and it's absolutely fine. Feel free to explore all your sexual demons.
Re: Can A Married Christian Couple Use intimacy gadgets? by gokuu(m): 12:06pm On Jul 09, 2017
Kaycee7:
According to the teachings of the Church, sex should be marital, unitive and procreative. The use of intimacy gadgets violates the unitive requirement. Therefore Christian couples should abstain from use of intimacy gadgets.

mtschewwwww!!!
Re: Can A Married Christian Couple Use intimacy gadgets? by HARDDON: 12:07pm On Jul 09, 2017
Nchabuomo:

Why are you fighting for God?
Who empowered you to curse or bless?
If you feel the individual crossed the line, pray for God to show him Grace and Mercy, not curse him with death;which you don't even have the power to.

How naive. This is same logic many Christians apply and have died stupidly. This is same logic robbers rob , maim, herdsmen kill, rape, Evil men attack Christians like chicken because most of us lack knowedge!

"My people perish for lack of knowledge"

Go read Mat 18:18-19
Hosea 4:6

Luke 4:19 matched with isa61:2

Christ came, was all about Love, peace n repentance and gud deeds but his earthly dispensation is over.
This is the Holy Spirit dispensation. He is a consuming fire. He is the Spirit of Judgement!
This is why Ananias n his wife died in the church for telling lies . You know they wudnt hv if it wen Christ was here.

It is high time Christians wake up and Live the authority life we were fashioned for n stop applying kids gloves in this evil world n getting killed like chicken.

No, we cant carry guns. Our mouth is our weapon. We issue orders daily "Any1 that plans to attack us, dies b4 they attempt it"

By the time people start perishing because of us, the world wud reverence God and not take Christianity for a ride.


Ps 82:6 says i am a goD. So i am empowered to kill, bless , curse, care , luv etc depending on the circumstances.
Re: Can A Married Christian Couple Use intimacy gadgets? by jeff1993: 12:12pm On Jul 09, 2017
Adeoba10:
No.... One of the reason why Ojukwu manhood lives on, just to avoid using of Love Machine and cucumber..



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Hey... Hold it... Say what you know.... We Muslim follow both the Quran and the hadith, but based on the word of the prophet, anything (apart from the human body) is forbidden... Islam encourage pre intimacy, finger, sucking of breast, even MouthAction (but due to health wisely, some scholar disagree with that) anal is also forbidden in islam.... Any sex position is allowed with your rightful owner except anal. Using of gadget is forbidden.
If your partner can't satisfy you, it is your right and duty to look for solution... .
..... Can u Quote a part of d Quran or hadith that says intimacy gadget is bad for married couples
Re: Can A Married Christian Couple Use intimacy gadgets? by selfmadeboss: 12:18pm On Jul 09, 2017
even virgin mary used it to please herself. that is why she could stay for long without a dickkk.
mohamad the fuckingg profet also used it on his concubines cheesy cheesy
Re: Can A Married Christian Couple Use intimacy gadgets? by Nchabuomo: 12:21pm On Jul 09, 2017
HARDDON:


How naive. This is same logic many Christians apply and have died stupidly. This is same logic robbers rob , maim, herdsmen kill, rape, Evil men attack Christians like chicken because most of us lack knowedge!

"My people perish for lack of knowledge"

Go read Mat 18:18-19
Hosea 4:6

Luke 4:19 matched with isa61:2

Christ came, was all about Love, peace n repentance and gud deeds but his earthly dispensation is over.
This is the Holy Spirit dispensation. He is a consuming fire. He is the Spirit of Judgement!
This is why Ananias n his wife died in the church for telling lies . You know they wudnt hv if it wen Christ was here.

It is high time Christians wake up and Live the authority life we were fashioned for n stop applying kids gloves in this evil world n getting killed like chicken.

No, we cant carry guns. Our mouth is our weapon. We issue orders daily "Any1 that plans to attack us, dies b4 they attempt it"

By the time people start perishing because of us, the world wud reverence God and not take Christianity for a ride.


Ps 82:6 says i am a goD. So i am empowered to kill, bless , curse, care , luv etc depending on the circumstances.

My brother the issue is that we don't know God.
He is the mountain mover.
He holds the heart of kings in state.
From his words we came to be.
The beginning and the end.
Imagine a being that can DO all things.
NOTHING is impossible for him.

Do you think he can't fight his battles? The earth is his foot stool. Don't worry about fighting for God or even fighting for your life, cause it isn't even yours to keep or take. People have died from drinking water, People have survived plane crash. Nothing is in our hands!
That you made an utterance doesn't mean it would happen. But when God makes an utterance it must happen. So my brother we are all pencils in the hands of the creator, all asking for his mercy and love.
You have no right to condemn whom God hasn't condemned no matter what the individual said or did.

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Re: Can A Married Christian Couple Use intimacy gadgets? by Nobody: 12:21pm On Jul 09, 2017
The organs were designed for a purpose without limitations.

Sex and religion is oil and water. They do not mix.

Sex in any form is natural. Use of gadgets amplifies nature. It is as good as good as using a car instead of trekking.

Do not allow religion to mitigate against the only thing worth living for apart from stimulants.

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Re: Can A Married Christian Couple Use intimacy gadgets? by Livefreeordieha(m): 12:23pm On Jul 09, 2017
Lateralmaths:
Is it wrong for a married Christian couple to use intimacy gadgets? This question was raised in a Christian chat group I belong to.
What do you think?
no dey cant..infact they shud never be seen or heard of in da oza room...wat type of fuckery question is diz?rubbish ...diz is one of d reasons ur wives run to their spiritual fadaz for the divine hot sex styles.. shocked undecided...and ur husbands run to the self styled young runz gals to fulfill dat which makes a man whole grin grin grin...i pity alot of people creating their own problems becuz of the nonsense hypocrisy dat has eaten up their myopic brainwashed minds..
Re: Can A Married Christian Couple Use intimacy gadgets? by Nobody: 12:25pm On Jul 09, 2017
First and foremost, the bible has not really addressed this issue directly but I believe that there is a guide in the scripture and we must trust the leading of the Holy Spirit in all things. Philippians 4:8 " Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable-if anything is excellent or praise worthy- think about such things" Whatever we allow in our relationship as Christians even in marriage should conform with these guidelines of the scripture.

We must continually ask the question, Is it true, noble, right, pure, lovely in God's sight,
admirable, excellent or praiseworthy? If in our heart, intimacy gadgets doesn't pass these eight test, then we have the answers we are looking for.
Secondly, we can learn from the early Apostles. Now this was repeated severally in the book of Acts, a look at chapter 15, verse 28 " It seemed good to the Holy Spirit and to us......" Most of the things the early Apostles did were those which they perceived was good not just to them but first to the Holy Spirit. We must ensure that whatever we allow in our marriage bed, which The Lord has commanded to be undefiled (Heb 13:4), must seem good also to the Holy Spirit.

Lastly, when we substitute something else in the place of the original, we might be gradually slipping into another form of idolatry! If our conscience doesn't condemn us as Children of God then we have peace with God 1 John 3:21

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Re: Can A Married Christian Couple Use intimacy gadgets? by Afamed: 12:37pm On Jul 09, 2017
jeff1993:
..... Can u Quote a part of d Quran or hadith that says intimacy gadget is bad for married couples
As far as the methods of mutual stimulation in pre-intimacy are concerned, the shari'ah allows the husband and the wife to see, kiss, touch, smell and stimulate any part of each other's body. 49 The only restriction is that no foreign object should be used. And this restriction is quite understandable: nothing can really substitute the things Allah has created in our bodies!

The restriction I am placing on the use of foreign objects is based on the following hadith. 'Ubaydullah bin Zurarah says that he had an old neighbor who owned a young slave-girl. Because of his old age, he could not fully satisfy the young slave-girl during sexual intercourse. She would therefore ask him to place his fingers in her vagina as she liked it.

The old man complied with her wishes even though he did not like this idea. So he requested 'Ubaydullah to ask Imam ' Ali ar-Riza (a. s.) about it. When 'Ubaydullah asked the Imam about it, the Imam said, "There is no problem as long as he uses any part of his own body upon her, but he should not use any thing other than his body on her."50

In an earlier discussion, we said that masturbation (i.e., self-stimulation of one's own sexual organ till emission of semen or orgasm) is not allowed. However, in the case of married persons, there is no problem if the wife stimulates her husband's penis till the emission of semen or the husband stimulates his wife's vagina till orgasm.51 This is allowed because it does not come under "self-stimulation;" it is stimulation by a lawful partner. The Qur'an clearly says that,

"The believers are.. . those who protect their sexual organs except from their spouses." (23: 5-6)

And stimulation of sexual organs by a lawful partner surely comes under the definition of protecting one's organ s "except from their spouses."
Re: Can A Married Christian Couple Use intimacy gadgets? by Praktikals(m): 12:49pm On Jul 09, 2017
no-no
Re: Can A Married Christian Couple Use intimacy gadgets? by maisauki: 12:50pm On Jul 09, 2017
pressplay411:

They legally allowed to do whatever tickles their fancy.
Theres nothing wrong in exploring to maximize sexual experience.
Theres no biblical/quranic reference against it.
Please don't bring Qur'an side by side bible, whilst there's no biblical restriction, there are various Islamic injuctions against acts like these, i'll try quoting some later, God Willing
Re: Can A Married Christian Couple Use intimacy gadgets? by brenister10: 1:06pm On Jul 09, 2017
Josh44s:


You are a big fooool for asking such stuupid question. Even Islam don't permit it, let alone Christian

Oga, you don't need to crucify him. That's how some people are being led astray. He asked a question and if you don't have a tangible answer to it, then you keep quiet.

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Re: Can A Married Christian Couple Use intimacy gadgets? by pressplay411(m): 1:14pm On Jul 09, 2017
maisauki:

Please don't bring Qur'an side by side bible, whilst there's no biblical restriction, there are various Islamic injuctions against acts like these, i'll try quoting some later, God Willing

That the Bible and Quran should not be juxtaposed is an insult to the Bible.
It is literary older and of more historical value. Don't let religious leaders keep pitching you against one another. And no, you can't and don't need to fight for God/Allah.

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Re: Can A Married Christian Couple Use intimacy gadgets? by ceaser500: 1:28pm On Jul 09, 2017
deepwater:
Sex is overrated
Get in there, whip and get whipped.
Clean up, come out and get back to work, you got bills to pay...

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Re: Can A Married Christian Couple Use intimacy gadgets? by Nobody: 1:29pm On Jul 09, 2017
tobrinskilanski:


are u a deeper life member?
No. It's not like any pastor told me...I just have a feeling that it's wrong and silly too.
Re: Can A Married Christian Couple Use intimacy gadgets? by ceaser500: 1:29pm On Jul 09, 2017
deepwater:
Sex is overrated
Get in there, whip and get whipped.
Clean up, come out and get back to work, you got bills to pay...

Re: Can A Married Christian Couple Use intimacy gadgets? by Nobody: 1:32pm On Jul 09, 2017
repogirl:
kindly use dictionary proof to understand what sodomy means biko.
I understand what it means. Lemme just use 'wrong' then.
Re: Can A Married Christian Couple Use intimacy gadgets? by Nobody: 1:36pm On Jul 09, 2017
mpowa:

It's not... What a legally married man and woman decide to do with each other is acceptable before God - as long as there's no third party.
I understand.

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