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Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by YourCoffin: 1:24pm On Jul 09, 2017
Does it get erect when you look at a guy's butt?

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Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by senier007(m): 2:58pm On Jul 09, 2017
Simple way to analyze and have your answer is straight forward
1. Did you used to have morning arousal?
2. Did you used to experience general body weakness?
3. How long did your erection used to last?
4. What's the volume of your semens?
5. What drugs have you taken in the past for more than a month?
6. How long do you last during sex?

Answers
1. If you used to have morning hard/arousal more than 3times a week then your problem is psychological you may try Revive- a herbal meds that claim to fight psychological erectile-dysfunction but if the answer is no then you may need to do Hormonal essay

2. Lower tetestorone sometimes used to cause weakness and low libido there is treatment for such

3 & 4,5 & 6 are all interconnected
Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by Otexdog: 3:27pm On Jul 09, 2017
lilmax:
your wife is a woman right? and you no longer aroused seeing her?

oga divorce her and follow the Babe you are in lust with

again divorce her and your problems are over


But I love my wife. Do people divorce because of sexual issues or when they fall out of love for each other?
Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by Khemhyte(f): 3:43pm On Jul 09, 2017
Otexdog:


But I love my wife. Do people divorce because of sexual issues or when they fall out of love for each other?
So you for heed to his advice abiabi undecided. I wonder if you get liver at all. You dey listen to perzin wey know nothing about marriage.
Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by lilmax(m): 4:11pm On Jul 09, 2017
Otexdog:


But I love my wife. Do people divorce because of sexual issues or when they fall out of love for each other?
trust me your solution is divorce, don't look back

please chase your happiness
Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by Nobody: 4:14pm On Jul 09, 2017
Op contact me via WATS app I no the cause 07035167128 eusehoghale@gmail.com
Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by Beckyodafe(f): 4:20pm On Jul 09, 2017
Your problem could be ejaculatory incompetence or your brain is already accustomed to a particular pattern of stimulation. It happens 2 men that have viewed pornography and masturbated for a long time b4 marriage. No matter what their wife does they don't get aroused. That's how d human brain works. However, you will need time and patience and constant intimacy with your wife without porn and masturbation for your brain to be re-accustomed to what your wife can offer. D soln lies with you.

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Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by stevecantrell: 4:34pm On Jul 09, 2017
Otexdog:
I've been a guest member for years and I created this account because I need help with what has been bordering me for weeks. I will be as brief as I can.

First I've been married to my wife for 2 years and we've been trying to conceive.

Secondly, we've been enjoying great sex life prior before these weeks of nightmare. My wife doesn't seem to turn me on lately.

It was once during our first 6 months of marriage that my wife initiated intimacy and I wasn't aroused, my body didn't just respond and I thought to myself that it was because I was not in the mood. It never happened again until sometime in June that I initiated it and I wasn't even getting sėxually aroused or hard eréction . We tried for 3 consecutive days in that week of June and nothing. This time, I thought stress, fatigue etc. I went to the bathroom to see if I can ejáculate by másturbation . I did by help of pórn and I was convinced it wasn't Erectilé Dysfunction (ED). I visited a pharmacy and spoke with the nurse and she prescribed Adam's Desire. I have been on the medication and I think we have been doing fine with the intimacy until this weekend (our 2nd year anniversary).

I initiated the sex because she was supposed to be ovulating and we've been advised to have more sex during the time of her ovulation. I couldn't get hard around my naked wife and it broke our hearts. I had to excuse myself to watch some porń to aróuse me and I came back into the room to complete the sex with her.

It happened again last night and I don't what to get help from pórnography to stimulate my sexual desire for my wife.

My question is:
WHAT DO I CALL THIS?
HOW CAN I BE HELPED?

I guess you married ur wife for love and not because of her bangin' body.
I mean, why cant u develop a boner on sighting her nude body ?
For example, i like women with long legs and a narrow waist and flat abs, i get an instant boner just seeing them in underwear.
However, a short legged woman with big tummy doesnt quite do it spontaneously for me.

Is that what youre experiencing ?
Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by aragonchuks(m): 4:39pm On Jul 09, 2017
Otexdog:


This is not really a joke. I need some serious response. Thank you

Dr IGUEDO GOKO CLEANSER
Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by victorioushands: 4:48pm On Jul 09, 2017
Thank you for sharing.

Your case is not peculiar.

Please try not to entertain the pressure of having not been able to have children these two years.

If there's anything your wife had done which you may or may not have forgiven her for, forgive her again and, this time, mean it.

Remember that you are the failure if you let anything or anyone cause separation between the two of you, more so because of this minor issue.

Remember why you loved her and married her in the first place ( unless you married her because of her money in which case you must have to adjust and live with her as a true husband).

Your wife is the best gift the Lord has given you, treasure her secretly and openly.

Let all your sexual imaginations be for and of her. Forget those in your street, they are your downfall

Always form the habit of telling your wife that you love her many times daily...and mean it each time.

Ensure you do not entertain any voice in your heart telling you it's your wife's fault.

Begin to buy her gifts no matter how little they my be financially. Let them come from your heart.

Let your wife be your priority after God.

Do not for anything to dampen her spirt this time because, believe me, she feels the pain far worse than you.

Let her know that your decision to marry her was the best you have ever taken and that you will do that over and over again in every lifetime.

Learn to be her true companion and confidant.

Alway thank God for blessing you with your wife and always pray about it while you lead in family prayers.

Rest your mind on the matter. It's just Satan's many stupid tricks. He wants you yo allow a third party into your marriage who will destroy it. Always pray for your wife in secret - a prayer of thanksgiving and not of complaints and requests.

If you have been doing these and the situation has continued, rest your mind because it will change. You will begin to run after your wife pretty soon.
ALSO MAKE SURE YOU HAVE NOT BEEN CHEATING ON HER. THATS A MAJOR CAUSE FOR MANY MEN.

May the peace of God attached to matrimony be yours.

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Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by Nobody: 5:47pm On Jul 09, 2017
Op call again was in a crowded place
Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by Nobody: 6:40pm On Jul 09, 2017
If you are watching porn and masturbating regularly, you are the one with the problem. Stay off the computer/phone and stop looking at naked women. It dulls the brain and causes impotency with real women.

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Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by Nobody: 9:41pm On Jul 09, 2017
GeneralOjukwu:
Erectile Dysfunction (ED) most of the time has psychological roots.

Let me give you one odd advice...make sure she doesn't expose her nudity too much while in the house.

Restrict the unclothedness to sex, i have noticed over exposure is common in ED cases.

Goodluck!

OP, this right here is your answer. Na See Finish be OP problem

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Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by Richy4(m): 11:38pm On Jul 09, 2017
OP, When was the last time you spent quality time with your wife...For Example

<<<Going to the beach<<Park<<<Zoo<<<<Museum <<<even cinema?

Some of you guys are just the architect of your problems..When you were courting a woman, you will have time to take her out..immediately you get married, there's no more time..one just keep wondering where the time went to...Those time that was available during courtship...

I understand that times are hard and one has to work and pay the bills,but if you map out two Saturdays only in a month for alone time with your wife, you will never complain about this...Do you know the reason why stadias are always full during premier league match or other sports abroad?, it is just to avoid all these "I don't think I love my wife" I don't think she turns me on " stories... Believe me, what ever occupation that you were doing,You might be richer than those spectators @ the stadium but you find them doing those stuffs with their family...Romance is not only during courtship..You can still rekindle your love with your wife doing those thing that you love outdoor...It is not compulsory it must be expensive...it's just boredom and stress reliever...

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Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by munas: 11:45pm On Jul 09, 2017
Otexdog:
I've been a guest member for years and I created this account because I need help with what has been bordering me for weeks. I will be as brief as I can.

First I've been married to my wife for 2 years and we've been trying to conceive.

Secondly, we've been enjoying great sex life prior before these weeks of nightmare. My wife doesn't seem to turn me on lately.

It was once during our first 6 months of marriage that my wife initiated intimacy and I wasn't aroused, my body didn't just respond and I thought to myself that it was because I was not in the mood. It never happened again until sometime in June that I initiated it and I wasn't even getting sėxually aroused or hard eréction . We tried for 3 consecutive days in that week of June and nothing. This time, I thought stress, fatigue etc. I went to the bathroom to see if I can ejáculate by másturbation . I did by help of pórn and I was convinced it wasn't Erectilé Dysfunction (ED). I visited a pharmacy and spoke with the nurse and she prescribed Adam's Desire. I have been on the medication and I think we have been doing fine with the intimacy until this weekend (our 2nd year anniversary).

I initiated the sex because she was supposed to be ovulating and we've been advised to have more sex during the time of her ovulation. I couldn't get hard around my naked wife and it broke our hearts. I had to excuse myself to watch some porń to aróuse me and I came back into the room to complete the sex with her.

It happened again last night and I don't what to get help from pórnography to stimulate my sexual desire for my wife.

My question is:
WHAT DO I CALL THIS?
HOW CAN I BE HELPED?

Note: I can get séxually aróused by a lady I'm lusting for in the streets of my neighborhood

Seun, lalasticlala, mynd44, rocktation, farano

Let no one deceive you...

Your problem is pornograhy and over masturbation.

You have used pornography to over produce dopamine in your brains,thus only your wifes naked body cannot arrouse you any more.
The simple solution is to stop watching porn and also stop masturbation and you will be fine
Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by Saintmary(f): 12:20am On Jul 10, 2017
More sex is not the only means to get pregnant. Go for medical checkup.
Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by MicroBox: 12:53am On Jul 10, 2017
It's a common occurrence..
Just try close your eyes and picture her to be one of your married neighbour to deceive satan.
It happens and you are not alone in this, so don't allow rookies to disorganise you.
Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by oglalasioux(m): 4:50am On Jul 10, 2017
If your wife walks around the house unclad all the time there's no way you can get aroused if you want to have sex with her. Let her cover up.
Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by crackhouse(m): 5:35am On Jul 10, 2017
The truth is that ur wife no dey trip u again.
She have to start dressing sexy for u so u can be aroused. She should start wearing all these mini skirts and pants stuff whenever u are with her.
Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by Nobody: 5:59am On Jul 10, 2017
You have PIED
P0rn Induced Erectile Dysfunction.
Stay away from p0rn and pls by all means stop masturbating! angry

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Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by Nobody: 6:17am On Jul 10, 2017
FortuneTeller:
If you are watching porn and masturbating regularly, you are the one with the problem. Stay off the computer/phone and stop looking at naked women. It dulls the brain and causes impotency with real women.

This advice works same shit happened to me I was watching too much porn and the other. Just abstain from pornography you will be alright.
Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by coldgate(f): 6:19am On Jul 10, 2017
Go and buy Kamasutra - it is a book on the art of lovemaking (Indian). You cant follow the steps and not be aroused by your wife. Delay gratification. Start with a little romantic dinner (candle lit). Minimise distractions. It shouldn't be that hard.

NB: Got the book as a wedding present years ago and it is bae.
Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by emekachimek: 6:39am On Jul 10, 2017
I think there's a part you missed telling us : you watch so much porn. So much porn kills libido and causes ED

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Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by sisisioge: 7:00am On Jul 10, 2017
TTC could be stressful and this strains relationships. I will suggest you and madam take time out from the seex and just embrace romance. Make an agreement not to do the do for at least 3month but agree to carry on with every other thing. Even when either of you get really hot...do not indulge until you both get your groove back.

Also, talk about the issue. Talk about seex. Talk about fantasies. Talk about your likes and dislikes. Talk about the highlights. Talk take talk grin


Plus, I hope madam is working on her body and wardrobe. All will be well dude...you and your sisi will move past this in no time wink

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Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by nurex01(m): 7:39am On Jul 10, 2017
Tell her to use soft perfume on her body, with her night gown on every time u are in d room. Let her body be transparent I mean she should be with her pant, you will UnCloth her gently when you started falling for her soft perfume. Stop masturbating, stop pornography, don't rush to have sex with her, play with her gently. You can get some small pillows on Ur bed and use it as a toy before you move closer to her. Tell her to rub your chest with her hand gently and down softly. Baba take care of the rest.
Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by browniex: 9:26am On Jul 10, 2017
lofty900:
Why would you excuse yourself to go and watch porn, why not watch it together with ur wife? Anyway, lemme give you a tip, memorize ur favorite porn scene in ur head. So whenever ur wife comes around just close ur eyes tight and replay the scene in ur head, ur erection will be explosive grin
it will stand up,bit will not stay up,once the scene skips from his head, his prick will fall down,he should just learn to love and appreciate his wife,don't allow only her unclothedness to turn you on,if you love her enough you will be turned on by just talking naughty with her or just looking into her eyes,everything about my woman turns me on,not only when she is nude.

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Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by bigl: 9:58am On Jul 10, 2017
Otexdog:
I've been a guest member for years and I created this account because I need help with what has been bordering me for weeks. I will be as brief as I can.

First I've been married to my wife for 2 years and we've been trying to conceive.

Secondly, we've been enjoying great sex life prior before these weeks of nightmare. My wife doesn't seem to turn me on lately.

It was once during our first 6 months of marriage that my wife initiated intimacy and I wasn't aroused, my body didn't just respond and I thought to myself that it was because I was not in the mood. It never happened again until sometime in June that I initiated it and I wasn't even getting sėxually aroused or hard eréction . We tried for 3 consecutive days in that week of June and nothing. This time, I thought stress, fatigue etc. I went to the bathroom to see if I can ejáculate by másturbation . I did by help of pórn and I was convinced it wasn't Erectilé Dysfunction (ED). I visited a pharmacy and spoke with the nurse and she prescribed Adam's Desire. I have been on the medication and I think we have been doing fine with the intimacy until this weekend (our 2nd year anniversary).

I initiated the sex because she was supposed to be ovulating and we've been advised to have more sex during the time of her ovulation. I couldn't get hard around my naked wife and it broke our hearts. I had to excuse myself to watch some porń to aróuse me and I came back into the room to complete the sex with her.

It happened again last night and I don't what to get help from pórnography to stimulate my sexual desire for my wife.

My question is:
WHAT DO I CALL THIS?
HOW CAN I BE HELPED?

Note: I can get séxually aróused by a lady I'm lusting for in the streets of my neighborhood

Seun, lalasticlala, mynd44, rocktation, farano
Are u sure u weren't taking a lil alchohol which u nw stopped? And by the way, I can bet ur bowel movement isn't smooth (as in, u don't defeacate very well) and its a major cos. Work on the 2. I don't advocate alchohol but try a lil smirnoff ice. As per toilet tins, try take some citrus fruits like orange and water Mellons
Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by jobbers: 10:02am On Jul 10, 2017
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Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by RICHC2(f): 8:12pm On Jul 10, 2017
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Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by Donald7610: 10:22pm On Jul 10, 2017
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Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by ikp120(m): 8:31am On Jul 11, 2017
Bros, you don't have problem.

Just get your wife some bad ass sexy clothes like micro mini skirt, hot bum shots, silicon push up bras, extremely skin-tight gowns, etc.

Let her put it on while at home (not when you guys are about to sleep o. Just normal dressing).

Bros, you dick go hard pass rod and you will end up eating her in the kitchen as she dey cook.

I don't even know why a stark nude body should arouse anyone sexually. That thing doesn't move me o. Na hot sexy dressed babes dey gimme anointing.
Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by GuntersChain(m): 3:19pm On Jul 11, 2017
you seem to have lost that spark you see in her, when you masturbate it works, when you lust after other women you can feel the vibe but when it comes to your wife it fails. You seem not to be sexually attracted to her. Introduce aphrodisiacs into your meals besides they are natural.

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