In an interview with BroadwayTV, the pretty mother of four opened up on one of the pressing challenges in celebrity marriage, which is infidelity.
When asked if one should forgive a cheating spouse, Omotola said if they are a first time offender, one should forgive. Especially, if they are remorseful and they show sign of change.
She went on to say that if a spouse continuously cheats, a lot of things should be put into consideration; first the reason why they are repeatedly doing it, the situation surrounding it and the person in question. She said:

“Should one forgive a repeatedly cheating spouse? The first question to worry about is, why are they cheating repeatedly. The problem with us these days is that we are not patient.

The sin is very bad but the first thing we should do is assess the situation and the person in question. The questions are: who is this person really: is that the only problem?

Is this person a perfect person and the only problem is cheating? You have to weigh your options. For me, as a person, is this something I want to deal with? I have met a lady who told me she didn’t care what her husband does.

You can’t judge other people’s relationship, only they, can decide what to do. If it is just about cheating and nothing else, one may be able to live with it but when the person is hopeless, that’s another matter.”

“Everyone knows I can forgive anything if they tell me. Just make sure I know. If my husband does anything, I will expect him to tell me. I can get angry but if you tell me you are sorted, because I can defend you.

I may still be angry with you but I will defend you because you have told me. To me, honour is important. At that point I feel honoured. That is how my own brain is wired.

If you are honourable enough to tell me I will respect you. It doesn’t mean that you and I are cool, but I will stand by you.

But if you don’t tell me and I find out or someone else tells me , you have broken the honour chain. That’s the way it works for me.

My forgiving him doesn’t mean I am through with him. But that he tells me is healing enough for me. It doesn’t mean it is right what he did or I am okay with what he did but it’s healing to my soul.

I appreciate the fact that you are human, that you messed up and you owned up to it. And I am saying this in light of other things not just relationship.”

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If you like don't forgive him, he will just remind you the sex roles you played in some movies you were featured.

Who else noticed Omotola's husband has a tattoo on his arm!!

hodusglobal:
If you like don't forgive him, he will just remind you the sex roles you played in some movies you featured.

Lol!!!! Una u badt gan ni.

Only a cheat can make this kinda statement.....

After dey don knack u anyhow.....

You cheated on him in you movies and he claims he isn't worried. If he cheats on you and he is caught, hed say he is acting his own movie, no be so? No long thing

That is because when billionaire business man taiwo afolabi OFF your payint and fvck your big ass booty, your MUMU husband forgave you! You think wee wee nor know!

olayinks007:



Lol!!!! Una u badt gan ni.

Na so nah, Do me I Do, Tit for Tat na hin get life nah...

Lol

LesbianBoy:
That is because when billionaire business man taiwo afolabi OFF your payint and fvck your big ass booty, your MUMU husband forgave you! You think wee wee nor know!

Na person wife be dis o. Suffry they yarn this kind thing. How you take no this thing wey you just yarn?

after reading this , the husband goes ahead and cheats. we will not hear word on social media again

When una go all get sense.isn't it crystal clear omotola and her husband are in a closet open marriage

Nigerians dy sabi take panadol for another person headache ..

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guys don provoke!