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Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by LoveWifee: 12:36am On Aug 03, 2017 |
spiritedtete: Gush you. 2 billion you mean. Hahaha for what and to spend on what. I don't have 2 billion but I'm very very comfortable. I can always make money but trust can't be regained. We all met money on earth and will leave it when we die. I'd rather have a comfortable and happy family than much wealth. Ask Churchill if you doubt me 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by cococandy(f): 12:37am On Aug 03, 2017 |
This too @OP selflessmaya: 2 Likes |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by abels(m): 12:37am On Aug 03, 2017 |
herveze:.. All men are like that " that's insane of u to say, I didn't even bother reading the remaining piece of trash you added 5 Likes |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Donsamie(m): 12:40am On Aug 03, 2017 |
wait till u delivers he will be back,don't make trouble with him,knw when he is about to come home from work nd start praying for him let him catch u many times praying.nd behave as if nothing is wrong. thank me later |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by spiritedtete: 12:41am On Aug 03, 2017 |
LoveWifee: Awww bro you are so sweet.... Let me tell you something... Not trying to convince you though... 8 out of 10 of your friends will cheat, except if they keep it away from you. The reality about marriage is this... Respect and honour your house hold; here is where men get it wrong most times, because they get carried away and allow a stranger collapsed that family dream they nurse. I have been married for over a decade, I have seen things from myself, associate, and moralist like pastors etc... There is no such thing as faithfulness to a woman... Painful to type this but honestly, its the truth. Good for you you have maintained a principle. But how long will you hold on, Hmmmm. I will be glad if you do that to the very last. Now this is my point, women are wired strangely, but this is what they are looking for in a man "success and good name" it doesn't matter how many you married. Your success and good name is what they will always be proud of. 2 Likes |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by cococandy(f): 12:43am On Aug 03, 2017 |
Disgusting crop of creatures angelusbrut: nkpommpko: Maximus85: spiritedtete: 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Nobody: 12:44am On Aug 03, 2017 |
Why were you checking your husband's Social media status na so na go dey look for trouble where none exists...if your husband doesn't want you anymore you'ld have known by now. The fact is men are visual creatures and in these days of internet it only takes God....stop worrying your head and mind ya business...even in marriage there's a right to privacy. 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by spiritedtete: 12:46am On Aug 03, 2017 |
LoveWifee: The Nigerian churchill? Haaaa common is a broke ass now... He is trying though. You are the one of many few saying they are comfortable with what they have? But it's a lie. We crave for more, success and even power. 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Nobody: 12:48am On Aug 03, 2017 |
xx 2 Likes |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by stamapro(m): 12:49am On Aug 03, 2017 |
Prayers will do. My friend trust me, just table your complains to God Almighty as long as you don't break any hedge on your part you will see the positive result. So is not time for quarrels, fighting one another or avoiding him, show him love. |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by LoveWifee: 12:56am On Aug 03, 2017 |
spiritedtete: Funny you. Little wonder a lot of married women are becoming hoes. They have been emotionally battered to the extent they start retaliating. Don't you think blood flows through their veins too? how do you know they are differently wired? If they care only about success and less about cheating how come they fight and get so traumatized when they find another woman taking their place. Even mother Sarah couldn't stand Hagar but ordered her out. We've got to be fair. About myself cheating, forget about it. I keep myself busy with God, Job and Family. No time for some strange ladies who were no where around me when my wife was cooking with ice fish and kpomo. If you take ill today, I bet you those random girls will hop to the next guy. Only your wife will be with you and secure your future (Children). So why maltreat your only hope. 10 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by LoveWifee: 1:01am On Aug 03, 2017 |
spiritedtete: You can be successful without hurting your spouse. I crave for success so I can supply all my wife and kids will ever need and Not to taunt them. From experience, invest in your family, and secure your future. Some years from now, you won't have the strength to club but you'll always ever have your family. They'll be your Joy and pride at 60,70,80. 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by MadCow1: 1:05am On Aug 03, 2017 |
tomi87014: It's one thing to cheat and it's another thing to not show remorse especially when caught. I really don't know what to say to you my dear. You seem to have entered a one chance marriage. 3 Likes |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Pedagogue: 1:11am On Aug 03, 2017 |
@tomi87014, I hope you realise that the most liked comments are not necessarily the best! My first advice-calm down! Explanation: Most couples experience disillusionment after one and a half or two years of marriage. So what's happening, if properly handled, is not strange! My second advice-Ignore him- for now! Explanation: As difficult as this sounds, it can be potent if done correctly. Don't discuss his 'infidelity' again. Continue to prepare his food & don't deny him sex- if he requests. BUT cut all other forms of discussions. My third advice: Keep him Guessing... Explanation: Given that you are pregnant, don't try and sexy stunts! Just be very NEAT. Lastly: Judgment day Explanation: If you can successfully give him the 'silent treatment ' while being the 'best wife' you can ever be, your hubby will most likely want to mend fences with you. Whenever he does, let him realise that you are still madly in love him, but that his actions are capable of ENDING the beautiful future you are building with him. In future: Stop your 'FBI investigations'. What you don't know cannot affect you. 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Richiepiro(m): 1:11am On Aug 03, 2017 |
WOW, IT IS A PITY THAT THIS IS HAPPENING TO MY DEAR, I FEEL YOUR PAINS BUT I HAVE TO BLAME YOU ON SOME ASPECT DON'T EXPECT ANY SOLUTION FROM A FORUM LIKE THIS ALL YOU NEED AT THIS PIONT OF TIME IS TO GO ON YOUR KNEE AND PRAY TO YOUR GOD BECAUSE ON YOUR OWN YOU CAN DO NOTHING BUT WITH GOD ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE. 1. FOR YOU LADIES/GUYS DON'T GO THROUGH YOUR PARTINER'S CELL PHONES BECAUSE YOU MUST SEE SOMETHING THAT MIGHT REPOSITION YOU. a. If you really want to leave long in life don’t read your wife/husband messages. b. Don’t touch his/her cellphones when he/she is not there. c. Don’t cross your boundaries. 2. IF YOU NOTICE ANY CHANGE IN HIM DON’T NAG/COMPLAINE. a. Men don’t like it when their wives nag. b. Don’t talk about them outside. c. Still respect him. 3. CHECK AND ASK YOURSELF a. Have I been serving him well? b. Do I really make a good choice for him 4. THESE ARE SOME OF THE THINGS THAT CHASE YOUR MAN OUOF YOUR SIDE a. DIRTINESS: When you are dirty your husband will definitely lost interest in you. b. DRESSING: Put on dresses that will always turn him on. c. MANAR OF APPROACH: Watch your tongue 5. THINGS HAT WILL KEEP YOUR MAN (FAITHFUL) a. PRAYERS: Pray for him always, your prayers will go a long way. b. RESPECT: Show him respect c. GOOD FOOD: Cook him good food always to tackle his stomach d. SEX: Always give him good sex. If you really want a man to be faithful to you as a woman just hold onto these key words But if he don’t see any of these in you HE will look for it outside. 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Nobody: 1:13am On Aug 03, 2017 |
herveze:YOU ARE TRASH! Your wife is pregnant with your child and instead of you to be supportive and loving for the 9months, you are looking for the things that will please you. I blame the women that raised men like you and I blame the women that raised the women that choose to be with men like you. Dumb piece of shit 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Nobody: 1:15am On Aug 03, 2017 |
[color=#990000][/color] na hard solution bt it wil help u in ur marriage find a good friend dat will help u out tell him or her everytyn dat apen he/she wil pretend like a guy toastin u, on d process u wil tell him dat u luv ur husband u wil nt cheat on him. d guy wil tell u dat ur husband cheat on u wit his girlfriend ooo u wil tell him no dat ur husband no dy cheat oo try to cause him, wat next make ur husband see ur text by styles no show him direct let him find out wit ur phn. him wil leave d girl n tell u everytyn notice trust friend dat wil help u out nt d one dat wil expose everytyn later |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Nobody: 1:18am On Aug 03, 2017 |
herveze: And who dafuq made you the representative to every men,better speak for yourself you cheating a$$ bastid 4 Likes |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by bamisho: 1:19am On Aug 03, 2017 |
herveze: Always making excuses for the man! If it was a man who came here to say that about his wife would you have said it's men that cause it and asked the husband what he's doing wrong?!!! The hypocrisy is disgusting!!! 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Cadillac15(m): 1:19am On Aug 03, 2017 |
Jahblessme: People like you think marriage is a theoretical based combination, a textbook situation where 1=1 in Nigeria is the same in the USA. From your comment, it is evident that you are a single lady and is looking forward to getting married, hence not qualified to advise th OP. Like they say, single people give the best advise on marital issues but my dear, with this mentality of yours, you are going to walk out of all your marriages. And i guess OP is about to start walking out too. Good luck |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by emperordelis(m): 1:22am On Aug 03, 2017 |
What you dont know wont kill you.to all phone snooping females,y'all will always end up sad... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by acc001(f): 1:25am On Aug 03, 2017 |
tomi87014:Dnt trouble ursef,it's d state of ur condition,as soon as u giv birth he will turn normal again.,jst find something doin to mk ursef hapi..if u nid a friend to talk to pm me. |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by hokafor(m): 1:30am On Aug 03, 2017 |
Madam u must have done something to him or disrespected him in certain ways u think is normal .just check ur self very well maybe he uncovered one of ur secrets. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by felixomor: 1:48am On Aug 03, 2017 |
tomi87014: My sister, Be strong. Please Take it easy and pray to God for Wisdom That is all I can say. Secondly, try to have a more sincere conversation with him. Ask him why he wants to be unfaithful (as you claim) despite you being faithful? Soon, you will find out the reason. That is what you would then address. The root cause It is well with you in Jesus Name, Amen |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Maxvasia(m): 1:49am On Aug 03, 2017 |
TheArchangel:I know what he typed isn't entirely correct but what is ur point? Cos i believe u were trying to make one. |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by friendl: 1:51am On Aug 03, 2017 |
Ignore him |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by ardel(f): 1:51am On Aug 03, 2017 |
tomi87014:My dear such is life, dnt let it hurt your baby im speaking from experience. Think.of your unborn and be geateful to GOD. Men always feel the need to explore, they feel boxed up most times.But keep praying for him and all will be well.GOD will do it trust me. |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by jaksmillioniar: 2:23am On Aug 03, 2017 |
cococandy:beauty |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by ajaniogun14: 2:23am On Aug 03, 2017 |
My response is coming late. Hope you get to read it. First, not all men/relationships are the same, so what works in one union may not be effective in another. Therefore, I will task you to cast your mind back to your "before marriage" acts. You have missed something along the way which made him find alternative outside. Secondly, when couples have babies early in marriage, the man tends to drift cos the woman comes with acts/behaviors the man was not used to and a quick fix is a side chick. Retrace your steps. While am not in support of a side chick, my experience has taught me that a sane man knows the difference between a wife and side chick. While the wife is for keeps, the side chick is temporal. In my case, my side chick back then made me treat my wife best and honestly indirectly. Now that she found out about the side chick, I am more calm with my wife and faithful, but I still miss my side chicks. What she did was simple, she didn't take it as an advantage to find side-bobo or cause issues at home rather, she teases me about them and asks about their welfare to the extent that shame catch me and I had to delete them myself. While you may not be able ti do what my wife did, I instruct you to find what brings peace and not rancour as rancour would push him more outside and not care whose ox is gored. Lastly, PRAY. 1 Like |
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Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Daeylar(f): 2:38am On Aug 03, 2017 |
Marshalxv: Rubbish, Did you even read my comment at all? LMAO, where did I ever say the wife should go out and cheat on him? LMAO, I'm not your problem, please go and look for the cause of your anger people like me are the reason we have broken marriages, not the useless men and women that cheat on their partners, not the op's husband who looks at his wife and. says to her face that he doesn't owe her any faithfulness, not some men like the one I quoted who opens his mouth to say that all men are like the op's husband and that it's normal it's people like me that are the reason we have broken marriages, LMAO nonsense, next time don't quote me with trash, Read and understand before coming here to type trash rubbish 3 Likes |
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