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n by pweetychic: 3:29am On Feb 10, 2010 |
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Re: n by mamagee3(f): 3:32am On Feb 10, 2010 |
There's a new word in the dictionary called "Editing" |
Re: n by pweetychic: 3:34am On Feb 10, 2010 |
I don't understand mama gee, |
Re: n by Nobody: 3:38am On Feb 10, 2010 |
God blessed us women with natural instincts. Its tragically obvious this man is a man-digger, using the classic method to trick monies out of young, impressionable women. Stop sending him monies. |
Re: n by mamagee3(f): 3:39am On Feb 10, 2010 |
pweetychic: The length of your story is mind buzzling. |
Re: n by pweetychic: 3:43am On Feb 10, 2010 |
Thanx ebony, God bless you too! |
Re: n by kayc33(m): 3:46am On Feb 10, 2010 |
Ebonyeyes: and how do u know he is actually a gold-digger to be on the safe side though, stop sendin him money and watch his reaction |
Re: n by chidipupay(m): 4:38am On Feb 10, 2010 |
If i advice you now, you will not send me money. Stop sending him money and send me the money. |
Re: n by Amigoz(f): 6:23am On Feb 10, 2010 |
pweetychic: From the above excerpt from your post, I will say NO he isnt a gold digger. But then again, he might be a sheep in wolf's clothing. Point is at no point in your post above did he ask u for a gift or money. U opted to give him these gifts, so u cant call him a gold digger. Just cos he complains about his finances doesnt mean u have to dig your hands in your pocket. Dont confuse 'pity' with love. You have been dating this guy online 4 almost a year, how come u havent been out to see him? You already have the answer to your post, and as others have said also. STOP sending him money and gifts. . . .Save that money and take a trip to 9ja (im guessing u are 9jerian). All da best |
Re: n by selena(f): 7:26am On Feb 10, 2010 |
pweetychic:You have to dump him fast,because i have the feeling that he is using u.Y would you send some guy you met online,and have never seen before gifts and money.DUMP HIM FAST,and forget about the stupid love you have towards him because he obviously does not love you. |
Re: n by Nobody: 7:29am On Feb 10, 2010 |
You've never met a guy and you are sending him money and loving him like this What if he has two left legs? Lol Anyway, I don't blame the guy for collecting, afterall you offered! But I bet my two cents that he has a GF in Nigeria, maybe even married. You are just the girl who's in jand and sending him gifts and money, hoping to tie him down! I'm sorry but you need to STOP! Before you do anything further, you guys have to meet. You have to go and meet him, get to know his friends, family and try to figure out who he really is. Or else your story will end up being the same old 'he used and dumped me' line! |
Re: n by TyGabriel(m): 8:04am On Feb 10, 2010 |
maga |
Re: n by ayettymama(f): 9:49am On Feb 10, 2010 |
dayuuum girl fix up hes not even a golddiga merely ur the maga!! he is just using opportunity you move on with life let him chase u and send u stuff!! |
Re: n by sexybabes(f): 10:55am On Feb 10, 2010 |
Don't even know what to say! |
Re: n by Nobody: 12:21pm On Feb 10, 2010 |
Are u sure he is not married and using ur money to take care of his family? Like somebody said,stop sending him money and stuff then see his reaction. Just show empathy when he complains abt his financial status and that should be the end of it.Dont buy his story. |
Re: n by justwise(m): 12:30pm On Feb 10, 2010 |
nikkykay: Good point there |
Re: n by r231(m): 12:34pm On Feb 10, 2010 |
have you seen this guy face to face before |
Re: n by Amigoz(f): 12:36pm On Feb 10, 2010 |
nikkykay: More than likely then again do u blame the boy |
Re: n by justwise(m): 12:38pm On Feb 10, 2010 |
Amigoz: Maybe not, freely given freely taken |
Re: n by smooooooth: 12:39pm On Feb 10, 2010 |
a serious guy will try and get you talking with his family and friends when you call, and besides how are u sure he doesnt have a serious girl down here that he is prolly planning on getting married. even dou i agree that peeps can meet online and fall in love, its important they must be in the same state, so u can easily meet and confirm most of the things you get to hear online. how are you sure he is not married, how are you sure its his pics on fb, and like uju said, how u sure he doesnt have 2 left legs. and u must know an average nigeiran guy's notion on ladies abroad, they always feel they are not good wife materials, the ones who actually marry them must have known them even b4 they went abroad ( rare dou ), or they are looking to gain something from them ( this are the weak men ).its obvious this dude has connected the longest NNPC pipe i have ever seen, from him to you, sucking u dry. but then, follow you heart. |
Re: n by agitator: 12:46pm On Feb 10, 2010 |
pweetychic: Are you sure, what you are implying is that you turned down offers from people you can see, because you are in love with somebody you have not seen. this can only be imagined |
Re: n by misanho: 1:36pm On Feb 10, 2010 |
Anything 4 luv, its d greatest of all force, just keep goin nd dn't 4get 2 ask him after reading this post hw sincere n committed he is 2 d relationship but kip goin sis |
Re: n by Nobody: 1:49pm On Feb 10, 2010 |
I will be back soonest. |
Re: n by sistajay(f): 2:02pm On Feb 10, 2010 |
@ Poster Yep, his a gold digger with a ribbon on it. The next time you have the urge to send him money, spare a thought for a more worthy cause, like the Haiti disaster, children's charity etc. You're thinkin with your heart while he's thinkin with his head. |
Re: n by pweetychic: 2:18pm On Feb 10, 2010 |
n |
Re: n by yimiton(f): 2:31pm On Feb 10, 2010 |
He is definitely a gold digger. Any Nigerian man who doesn't encourage his girlfriend to speak with his family members and doesn't introduce her to his friends is simply not serious. The probability that this guy is married is very high. The fact that he gave you his email password also doesn't prove anything. It's possible that he has more than one functional Email accounts and he simply gave you the password to one that is not implicating. I'll say, you should totally stop sending him money otherwise, he or his friends will one day tell you to your face that you're trying to buy love. People could be horrible these days, but one needs to be careful. All the best. |
Re: n by justwise(m): 2:32pm On Feb 10, 2010 |
pweetychic: You got a god heart but please be careful. |
Re: n by foyeks2001(f): 3:35pm On Feb 10, 2010 |
becareful sis |
Re: n by selencious(f): 8:04pm On Feb 10, 2010 |
@Poster!! He sure is;quit b4 its too late. Don't be suprised if he is already married with Children.Im sure he is one of those Oprah talked bout on her show. Yahoo guys |
Re: n by ayettymama(f): 8:15pm On Feb 10, 2010 |
^^^ woahhhhhhhhh operah gave them airtime the situation must be bad! |
Re: n by GoodLuck3: 9:00pm On Feb 10, 2010 |
Poster, forget about him,he is not real, he is indeed a golddigger. Be careful about on line relationship. |
Re: n by flexshop(m): 9:01pm On Feb 10, 2010 |
Every one is callin him a gold digger, why? Look at it,d guy is workin and she confirmed it. He gav her his pasword. Why should he introduce some1 he is dating online to his people?God forbid, u guys must be jokin, there is no sense in dat, if she wanna know his people,she should jet down to naija, About the möney,he is just being influenced by his yahoo friends, i can tel cos i hav been down there b4 @poster,use ur head and go to naija, |
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