The Origin of "Valentine Day" or "Festival of Love"

The Festival of Love was one of the festivals of the pagan Romans, when paganism was the prevalent religion of the Romans more than seventeen centuries ago. In the pagan Roman concept, it was an expression of "spiritual love".

There were myths associated with this pagan festival of the Romans, which persisted with their Christian heirs. Among the most famous of these myths was the Roman belief that Romulus, the founder of Rome, was suckled one day by a she-wolf, which gave him strength and wisdom.

The Romans used to celebrate this event in mid-February each year with a big festival.

One of the rituals of this festival was the sacrifice of a dog and a goat. Two strong and muscular youths would daub the blood of the dog and goat onto their bodies, then they would wash the blood away with milk. After that there would be a great parade, with these two youths at its head, which would go about the streets. The two youths would have pieces of leather with which they would hit everyone who crossed their path. The Roman women would welcome these blows, because they believed that they could prevent or cure infertility.

The Connection Between Saint Valentine and This Festival

Saint Valentine is a name which is given to two of the ancient "martyrs" of the Christian Church. It was said that there were two of them, or that there was only one, who died in Rome as the result of the persecution of the Gothic leader Claudius, c. 296 CE. In 350 CE, a church was built in Rome on the site of the place where he died, to perpetuate his memory.

When the Romans embraced Christianity, they continued to celebrate the Feast of Love mentioned above, but they changed it from the pagan concept of "spiritual love" to another concept known as the "martyrs of love", represented by Saint Valentine who had advocated love and peace, for which cause he was martyred, according to their claims. It was also called the Feast of Lovers, and Saint Valentine was considered to be the patron saint of lovers.

One of their false beliefs connected with this festival was that the names of girls who had reached marriageable age would be written on small rolls of paper and placed in a dish on a table. Then the young men who wanted to get married would be called, and each of them would pick a piece of paper. He would put himself at the service of the girl whose name he had drawn for one year, so that they could find out about one another. Then they would get married, or they would repeat the same process again on the day of the festival in the following year.

The Christian clergy reacted against this tradition, which they considered to have a corrupting influence on the morals of young men and women. It was abolished in Italy, where it had been well-known, then it was revived in the eighteenth and nineteenth centuries, when in some western countries there appeared shops which sold small books called "Valentine's books", which contained love poems, from which the one who wanted to send a greeting to his sweetheart could choose. They also contained suggestions for writing love letters.

The above information is excerpted, with some modifications, from www.Islam-qa.com

The Islamic View

Elaborating the Islamic stance on celebrating Valentine Day, Dr. Su`ad Ibrahim Salih, professor of Islamic Jurisprudence (Fiqh) at Al-Azhar University, says,

Indeed, Islam is the religion of altruism, true love, and cooperation on that which is good and righteous. We implore Allah Almighty to gather us together under the umbrella of His All-encompassing Mercy, and to unite us together as one man. Allah Almighty says: (The believers are naught else than brothers. Therefore make peace between your brethren and observe your duty to Allah that haply ye may obtain mercy.) (Al-Hujurat 49: 10)

I can say that there are forms of expressing love that are religiously acceptable, while there are others that are not religiously acceptable. Among the forms of acceptable love are those that include the love for Prophets and Messengers. It stands to reason that the love for Allah, and His Messenger Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) should have the top priority over all other forms of love.

Islam does also recognize happy occasions that bring people closer to one another, and add spice to their lives. However, Islam goes against blindly imitating the West regarding a special occasion such as Valentine's Day.

Hence, commemorating that special day known as the Valentine's Day is an innovation or bid`ah that has no religious backing. Every innovation of that kind is rejected, as far as Islam is concerned. Islam requires all Muslims to love one another all over the whole year, and reducing the whole year to a single day is totally rejected.

We Muslims ought not to follow in the footsteps of such innovations and superstitions that are common in what is known as the Valentine's Day. No doubt that there are many irreligious practices that occur on that day, and those practices are capable of dissuading people from the true meanings of love and altruism to the extent that the celebration is reduced to a moral decline.

* This article is based on the fatwa "Valentine's Day From an Islamic Perspective" in our "Ask the Scholar" page
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It stands to reason that the love for Allah, and His Messenger Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) should have the top priority over all other forms of love.


That's very interesting, Abuzola jazakallah.

MOST PEOPLE KEEP CELEBRATING,they are so unaware



Abuzola,where are my roses

He dey for bush . Lol

uplawal:

MOST PEOPLE KEEP CELEBRATING,they are so unaware



Abuzola,where are my roses

is abuzola your husband?why are you flirting with him,considering you said it is only christian sisters who do such loooooooooooooooool
@topic
just like you have stolen part of our bible,you have also stolen valentines to fit into your religion the problem is that your religion does not leave room for sauch kind of love
let us be honest,there is no way muslims can ever experience the real essence of valentines
the women suffer all the days of their lives
they cannot sit beside their husband so how will he take her out n tell her he loves her.
they have to ride in different buses on their way and they certainly cant sit side by side watching a movie or something.
so you sef like better thing christians are doing

Godslave, you are not advised to treat ur wife on a special day, ur wife deserve ur love everyday.

And for ur info uplawal is my wife thats why i threw the flower in the bush coz we don't have special day for love, u should show love everyday

I think the above reply means not only for Godslave; but for me and every member on NL.

Wish you'll the best. Ta-ta!

Abuzola !:

And for your info uplawal is my wife thats why i threw the flower in the bush coz we don't have special day for love, u should show love everyday

oh isee,then she must be an adulterous lady then,i have a very good memory and i remember her talking abut her boyfriend,so you are the internet boyfriend while she has the other one with her,

Abuzola !:

And for your info uplawal is my wife thats why i threw the flower in the bush coz we don't have special day for love, u should show love everyday

Somethng is wrong some where.I taught uplawal is supposed to be getting married soon,how come dis young man is calling her his wife? I see promiscuity at play among muslims.Seun pls look into this matter

fools, am coming for u people,let me finish what am doing

Hehehe, uplawal no mind them jare. My amarya

its alrite my darling husband

Abuzola !:

Hehehe, uplawal no mind them jare.  My amarya

zola what is amarya? U want to drag her wit me abi?

laughing so hard,toba are u jealous?

@Toba,is not u am supposed to be getting married too na

first internet islamic love loool no wonder all the whole demostration up and down all these days so it was for a mission, mission accomplished

THANK YOU

uplawal:

THANK YOU

so all thes times you were saying one guy is nearby it was all arrangee to get abuzola to notice you this is islamic valentine o

uplawal:

laughing so hard,toba are u jealous?

before nko? I like oyinbo& u re yellow pawpaw.I dnt mind at all

Just an add-on.

Valentine can not be said to be core xtianity celebration (Check wikipaedia) but was promoted by entrepreneurs who always want to seize any available festive period to increase their sales.

In Nigeria, Valentine is generally regarded as a day to slaughter (must take your girlfriend to bed) as such, many xtians organisations normally fix a lot of their religions activities of that day in order to preoccupy their youth.

To me, valetine means promotion of promiscuity

btlasisi:

Just an add-on.

Valentine can not be said to be core xtianity celebration (Check wikipaedia) but was promoted by entrepreneurs who always want to seize any available festive period to increase their sales.

In Nigeria, Valentine is generally regarded as a day to slaughter (must take your girlfriend to bed) as such, many xtians organisations normally fix a lot of their religions activities of that day in order to preoccupy their youth.

To me, valetine means promotion of promiscuity

you need to get yourself right first you disagree with an article one pf your muslim brothers posted on here about the origin of valentine and then you try to tell us to accept wikipedia which is not a credible source of information as it is biased and subjective and then you erroneously conclude that valentines is a sex orgy of some sort is this the way muslims think??

@GODSON2009,

May be you don't get my argument right, What i mean by non core xtian celebration is that, it was neither mentioned in their scripture book nor has it has any direct affiliation to the prophets or disciple of Jesus Christ.

Could you educate me on credible source of information?

Can you sincerely tell me how the xtian youth celebrate valentine?

I am willing to learn from you.

they celebrate it (val) to promote fornication and adultery in xtiandom,shame to the dead religion