Hello buddy, really out for solution. I met a girl and we became friends (normal ) she cooks for me and we eat together and I take care of her needs (she is a student)


She started telling people that I am her brother, some she tell that I am her neighbour which is true, to her, she sees me as her best friend.

As time goes by, I asked her out, she started with "All men are the same" meanwhile she still depend on me for almost all her needs. Food, hair, gift, school stuffs etc and I truly love her and don't want her to lack anything.

I continued the sequence of asking her out and she told some of her other male friends and they discussed and she said 'I am going to accept but you have to relocate from here' I have so many friends/dates but if you want to date me, no problem but you have to relocate first.

What should I do? I truly love her.

And you couldn't sleep because of this ?

how is this a problem. use your common sense, it is not everything you bring to people to decide for you

Don't relocate just stay. She's hiding something, believe me. U don't let her dictate to u. Be the man, ask her why she wants u to relocate if it's not life threatening then don't. If she insists pls move on n stop being a Santa.....even Santa Claus na only December we dey hear of am......lol

Nonsense.

She doesn't want to date you but she could use your money.

That girl has made you her toy. She's asking you to move cos she's not proud of you. She doesn't want her real man to be seeing you around her. If you can testify to the truth, she only comes around whenever she has needs. Leave her now or get your heart broken later. Don't say I didn't tell you these. Don't be fooled again bro. Good luck.