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Please Advice Needed by kestino(op): 2:06pm On Aug 28, 2017
It has really been stormy in my relationship with this lady, but always believe things will be good someday. But just about a year after leaving for kaduna for a military training, i got the shock of my live. I came back recently , only for me to hear that she has delivered a baby girl. I called her to know wetin sup, but she was telling me its over between us. But after due calculation of input and output before leaving last year october, the child was suppose to be mine, but she is saying am not the father, but i called the sister who told me that the father is nowhere to be found.
Please am shouting out, how do i go about this situation?
Re: Please Advice Needed by Nobody: 2:12pm On Aug 28, 2017
grin


The question here is: "ARE YOU WILLING TO BE A FATHER?"

If yes, then take the baby for the DNA test if its really yours... cool
Re: Please Advice Needed by bamisepeters(m): 2:30pm On Aug 28, 2017
The woman knows the father of her child better than anyone, even the presumed father.While you were around it is possible she was in another relationship. Forget the fact that you had sex the same day as it is also very possible she had sex with the other person few minutes after you had it with her. Some women are funny and unpredictable you know! I would have suggested DNA, however, you are not engaged let alone married, so just move on, if the baby is yours the truth will come out one day.
Re: Please Advice Needed by Nobody: 2:36pm On Aug 28, 2017
Maybe you really are not the father. Do a DNA test if possible.
Re: Please Advice Needed by Marcelo290(m): 2:56pm On Aug 28, 2017
gringringrin hmmm...input and output.

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