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Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by Ugosample(m): 8:31am On Aug 29, 2017 |
edwife: You are a wise person Don't mind all these people 5 Likes |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by Nobody: 8:32am On Aug 29, 2017 |
tell me about it |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by hoover420: 8:33am On Aug 29, 2017 |
OrestesDante:Because am staying at home doesn't mean am depending on my parents for money. I have other business am doing that is generating little income for me to sustain myself. You don expect me to rent a face me I slap you just because I want to escape from my parents! Who dey pursue me 10 Likes |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by Nobody: 8:41am On Aug 29, 2017 |
THIS KIND POST EARLY MORNING, BECAUSE OF HOW TRUE HE DEY, JUST WEAK ME. ABEG WHO FIT BUY ME SEWING MACHINE? |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by Jagaban880: 8:45am On Aug 29, 2017 |
All of u saying go out n look for sumtin..to do..... mehn itz easier said dan done....u tink to leave ur abode without destination.......is easy........diz wicked World......wer. Men r beast in human form.........plz before u leave ur home have planz n little capital dat can substain issue like accommodation n feeding.....before u tink on building on ur desired passion or idea.... Else..... u.go suffer...suffer..suffer..As Fela sing 5 Likes |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by jaszplus12(m): 8:45am On Aug 29, 2017 |
HenryDion:You took the words right outta my mouth!!! But for emphasis you should have written in BLOCK LETTERS!! 1) AS AN UNDERGRADUATE START PREPARING TO LIVE INDEPENDENT 2)DONT GO BACK TO YA MAMA AND PAPA HOUSE TO EAT THEIR FOOD EXCEPT BY INVITATION 3)LOOK FOR A BABE FROM AS AN UNDERGRADUATE THAT WILL HELP ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS SO YOU WILL FROM THAT TIME HAVE A SENSE OF RESPONSIBILITY 4)DONT LOOK BACK....MOOOOOVVVEEEE FORWARD!!! 4 Likes |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by dayus12(f): 8:47am On Aug 29, 2017 |
hoover420: I don't think the guy meant staying under the bridge....You really don't have to do that....There will always be a way out....Staying at home and sitting with your parents shouldn't just be the only option... 1 Like |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by Noblepreneur: 8:51am On Aug 29, 2017 |
MuyiRano:I am glad you haven't. I just want to believe this your English is typographical error. |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by jaszplus12(m): 8:56am On Aug 29, 2017 |
edwife:Lemme say this, and pardon me that I may not agree with you on your first few points. To be forewarned is to be forearmed. As a human you know you're going to leave your parents some day, should u then wait til the day dawns on you? Don't say its cos some parents chased their kids out that's the cause if their criminal minds and acts far from that...and I guess you know it. As a guy (especially) plan your exit right from your first days as undergrad... Show them you can be responsible. Funny that an undergrad can toast a babe and behave in adult manner towards her yet still wanna be spoon fed because he's undergraduate!! Here's what I mean, if you can have a galfriend then you should also be responsible enough to earn a living!! There are exceptions though... Eg force majure! |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by bolinjkezzy(m): 9:00am On Aug 29, 2017 |
MicTayor:Bobo your case is different 1 Like |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by millionboi(m): 9:03am On Aug 29, 2017 |
mostyg:my dear nobody is lazy.. .....just that most ppl lack d ability to identify passion. |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by mostyg(m): 9:06am On Aug 29, 2017 |
millionboi: Isn't that mental laziness sir? |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by YOUNGKAHUNA: 9:10am On Aug 29, 2017 |
cumz:same thing I did, never wanted going home, but my mum being a widow kept disturbing me to come back so I can keep her company since my younger ones hardly chat and give her attention. But few months after being at home with her she started finding me to be a nuisance to her, cause she feeds me. Had to find something doing quickly and we became best of friends again. We should learn to start small. Most of our parents aren't looking that we feed them, but they don't just want us sitting idle watching TV and fiddling with our phones. 3 Likes |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by millionboi(m): 9:11am On Aug 29, 2017 |
Tattooboy:name them |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by millionboi(m): 9:12am On Aug 29, 2017 |
mostyg:u didn't specify |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by Yhemit(m): 9:13am On Aug 29, 2017 |
I concur with the OP.... you're absolutely right Bro. with God on my side, nothing like going home after nysc. Thou my house is one of the best family ... not moved if you watch movie as early as 5am sef, but as a guy we must do everything to leave our individual comfort zone. |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by MuyiRano(m): 9:16am On Aug 29, 2017 |
Noblepreneur:. lol. yea, but the earlier u kno English isn't my mother tongue, the better. 1 Like |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by millionboi(m): 9:17am On Aug 29, 2017 |
edwife:Dont mind dos kids postin trash |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by sircrabo: 9:18am On Aug 29, 2017 |
Unemployment isn't new in Nigeria, three months, six months and even one year of being unemployed is not new. Your offence is waatching movie by that time of the day. I won't even take that. There are productive times of the day. If your mom had seen you reading , doing chores , or praying she won't react that way. If you must watch GOT, why not wait till they are out ? I only watch movies at night. As for those shouting leave the house ! Its not a sin staying with your parents. They'll understand you better than squatting with group of guys that might mislead you. All you need do is behave urself as an adult that you are and let them know you are trying hard to be independent. So many people left their homes cause they want to be independent only to return home after months. Maybe the landlord of the boysquarters where they were squatting evicted them. Be wise Bro. When you feel its time to leave, save up some money and rent ur own apartment you can afford so you don't go back to parents. 5 Likes |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by millionboi(m): 9:19am On Aug 29, 2017 |
collitexnaira:B4 nko.. ...u want stay Bush? Don't take everything u see here. Most of d ppl shouting leave house and go nowhere are fruadsters 1 Like |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by millionboi(m): 9:21am On Aug 29, 2017 |
YoungRichRuler:i tire4d guy. Job or no job How will u b watching film by that time 1 Like |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by millionboi(m): 9:23am On Aug 29, 2017 |
dreamwords:Yes That's what most ppl don't know. Even if u are not working,make sure u are earning. The most important thing is to earn. |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by Sirwallace(m): 9:25am On Aug 29, 2017 |
I have not gone through the NYSC, still in the system and waiting for service very sooner than later but I have spent more than a year due to incessant strike from a school you could easily guess. staying at home eating mama thank you and the way they rub it your face sometimes is pathetic. the op has a valid point. I think your independence from your parent will earn you the respect. and to those who still ask their parent for haircut are still living in mirage. really scared of the hostile harsh post NYSC experience? be brave enough to face it when when the time comes without those parent I'm the picture. that's how boys become man. 2 Likes |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by Nobody: 9:25am On Aug 29, 2017 |
hoover420: Ok |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by millionboi(m): 9:27am On Aug 29, 2017 |
hoover420:Hahahahaha Ask dem ooooo The most important thing is earning Make sure u are earning? |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by millionboi(m): 9:31am On Aug 29, 2017 |
jaszplus12:Oga u are wrong. The point is weda u are in ur parents huz or underbridge make sure you are earning. |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by alufahh1982: 9:36am On Aug 29, 2017 |
hoover420: even if it is underneath the gutter just geraraa of ur parents house |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by hoover420: 9:38am On Aug 29, 2017 |
alufahh1982: Leaving your parents house because "I am now an adult" is a scam....don't do it! 1 Like
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Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by hoover420: 9:48am On Aug 29, 2017 |
dayus12: it is inevitable Advisably have a steady source of income Before leaving or you'll have yourself to blame. 1 Like |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by Vokians(m): 10:02am On Aug 29, 2017 |
You all have said your piece. Reasonable. Only those who never plan what next after NYSC would find themselves staying at home with their parents waiting for that lucrative job that may not just come by like that. You must get something doing to assure your parents of your effort to secure a good job not sitting at home all day long. |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by Gkemz: 10:13am On Aug 29, 2017 |
Watch your budget. Don't spend more than your budget. Swallow your pride and try your hands on menial jobs if white collar job isn't forthcoming. I know this last one will not be easy seeing yourself falling back to business you once detested. Sometimes you might even feel like asking yourself why you wasted your five years in school when those you regarded as high school dropouts were hustling and building business colonies. |
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