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Re: 4 Reasons Why, As A Mother, You Shouldn't Bring A Househelp by sugarwiz(f): 7:18pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
emerged01:Be part of those few true men. The problem starts whe a person feels they have a lesser role to perform in their OWN child's life. 1 Like |
Re: 4 Reasons Why, As A Mother, You Shouldn't Bring A Househelp by hatedisplace: 7:23pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
All those making mouth that they don't need househelp, please answer the following questions 1. How long have u been married? 2. How many children understand d ago of 10 do you have? 3. How big is your hour? 4. How long do you stay away from your home all in the name of work or business? 5. How easy is it for you to do your shopping and buy shopping I mean everything including petrol for the Gen. Househelp whether part time or full time is a necessary evil. 4 Likes |
Re: 4 Reasons Why, As A Mother, You Shouldn't Bring A Househelp by Nobody: 9:38pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
chatinent:your opinion, as far as it is not the solution, is irrelevant. |
Re: 4 Reasons Why, As A Mother, You Shouldn't Bring A Househelp by Nobody: 9:43pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
emerged01:really, training of a child is done by 2 parenrs equally not mummy alone. leave that mentality in the gutter where it belongs 3 Likes |
Re: 4 Reasons Why, As A Mother, You Shouldn't Bring A Househelp by Nobody: 9:46pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
snazzy5050:please how will the so called marriage change the price of beans in the market |
Re: 4 Reasons Why, As A Mother, You Shouldn't Bring A Househelp by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 10:00pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
I've never liked the idea of a house help in my house. I must have time for my kids and not boarding school for them o.I'm sure they can hear me now from pre-earth world 1 Like |
Re: 4 Reasons Why, As A Mother, You Shouldn't Bring A Househelp by mrssho: 10:53pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
Please what's the point of this post? If a woman hires a houseboy would you advise the man to stay at home so the boy doesn't take over his duties as a husband. If a woman cheats it's her fault if a man cheats it's her fault if the children are good it's bc of the woman if they are bad it's because of the woman. So much responsibility on one person. How about teaching the men to be more supportive and exhibit self control 4 Likes |
Re: 4 Reasons Why, As A Mother, You Shouldn't Bring A Househelp by Nweike1: 1:31am On Sep 06, 2017 |
chatinent:one million likes! your head dey there |
Re: 4 Reasons Why, As A Mother, You Shouldn't Bring A Househelp by ImaIma1(f): 5:29am On Sep 06, 2017 |
My husband that never bought the idea of a help is the one suggesting we get one soon. I didnt even bring it up but we have our ways Never say never. 1 Like |
Re: 4 Reasons Why, As A Mother, You Shouldn't Bring A Househelp by emerged01(m): 8:20am On Sep 06, 2017 |
sugarwiz:Not be part. I'm a father and I'm proud that I am among the few. God will give me long and healthy life to be there for them. Just have it in your mind,you have a bigger role play. 1 Like |
Re: 4 Reasons Why, As A Mother, You Shouldn't Bring A Househelp by emerged01(m): 8:33am On Sep 06, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:You are quoting me out of context. I'm not saying training should by mother alone. I will be so stupid to say that. |
Re: 4 Reasons Why, As A Mother, You Shouldn't Bring A Househelp by Nobody: 8:57am On Sep 06, 2017 |
emerged01:you didn't need to say when you implied |
Re: 4 Reasons Why, As A Mother, You Shouldn't Bring A Househelp by FindaHousehelp: 11:09pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
...but if you employ from a professional house help recruitment agency, then it makes perfect sense to bring a house help.
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Re: 4 Reasons Why, As A Mother, You Shouldn't Bring A Househelp by FindaHousehelp: 11:10pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
...but if you employ from a professional house help recruitment agency, then it makes perfect sense to bring a house help.
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Re: 4 Reasons Why, As A Mother, You Shouldn't Bring A Househelp by Bluffly: 9:47am On Sep 21, 2017 |
chatinent:In this life of ours, the good to the bad is estimated on a ratio of 10:90. Does that mean we should not live our lives? Whatever system adopted will have a monitoring system in place and with all thing committed to Gods hand. We shouldn't be living in fear or make people live in fear as that is a joy to the devil. Even real Christians pass through tribulations. Because some people had it bad with housemaids does not mean everyone will have it bad. There are many who had it good. All that is required is that before a maid is employed ensure a thorough spiritual background is carried out. Remeber that in our prayers we also pray to God to give us the grace to remain steadfast in Christ. Please put everything in the hands of God with due diligence. Let's be chargeful other than being careful. 1 Like |
Re: 4 Reasons Why, As A Mother, You Shouldn't Bring A Househelp by eyinjuege: 6:35pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Akinaukwa:Please tell the fathers to be more hardworking, and provide for their families. Most women work out of necessity. You'll see them even earning majority or all of the family income, and they're still expected to be home with the children. How many jobs gives you money without taking your time? Even govt job doesn't give you time as most people assume, and their pay isn't great anyway. Tell the men to work hard, and their wives will gladly stay home with the children, or start jobs that affords them time with the pay not being so great 2 Likes |
Re: 4 Reasons Why, As A Mother, You Shouldn't Bring A Househelp by lilyheaven: 12:06am On Aug 23, 2018 |
motun2017:Really? How are you doing it? |
Re: 4 Reasons Why, As A Mother, You Shouldn't Bring A Househelp by ImaIma1(f): 12:50pm On Aug 23, 2018 |
lilyheaven: When she starts having children and she is working at the same time, the story will definitely change. They think it is easy to do laundry, cook, clean the house go to the market and still be working. By the time the woman looks like a shadow of herself, it is the husband that will start looking for help. 3 Likes |
Re: 4 Reasons Why, As A Mother, You Shouldn't Bring A Househelp by lilyheaven: 1:38pm On Aug 23, 2018 |
ImaIma1:I really need to learn how they are doing it. I want to apply their method. |
Re: 4 Reasons Why, As A Mother, You Shouldn't Bring A Househelp by ImaIma1(f): 2:45pm On Aug 23, 2018 |
lilyheaven: Some people have family that theu drop the child or children off with. What of those that don't habe mums or family that can help? It is really what works for you that you do. Because we might be struggling to be like someone not knowing what else they are doing or what alternative help they have but do not say 1 Like |
Re: 4 Reasons Why, As A Mother, You Shouldn't Bring A Househelp by lilyheaven: 9:28pm On Aug 23, 2018 |
ImaIma1:Ye! You are right, they won't tell us their mum or cousins are helping out. 1 Like |
Re: 4 Reasons Why, As A Mother, You Shouldn't Bring A Househelp by ibechris(m): 6:59pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
motun2017: Pls,dey cool down no one is forcing u. If u can't afford it,just say it. Wait till u are married...marriage will twist ur brain to "never say never". |
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