Good morning. Beautiful day right? Yes. We thank God for His mercies.

I write on behalf of most wives. Yes, we know and have read all the memos about 'A good wife.'

The documents always find their way to our desks.

A good wife builds her home.

A good wife never raises her voice on her husband.

A good wife is a praying wife.

A good wife...........

A good wife...........

The list is endless.

It's all well and good. I totally agree.

However, nothing is said about 'A good Husband.'

I am yet to see a memo on this.

That is where I have an issue with.

What exactly will 'A good husband' be doing while 'A good wife' builds the home?

'A good wife' does not raise her voice but 'A good husband' is allowed to do so?

'A good wife' should always give her man good food and sex.

Is 'A good husband' not supposed to give this woman the Love, respect and adoration she also deserves?

'A good wife' does not nag. She should communicate effectively. I agree.

But why is 'A good husband' exempted from good communication skills?

Please listen up. They asked that I tell you this:
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Good marriages are not made in heaven. They are made here on earth and it takes the input of both the man and woman.

The family is the bedrock of the larger society. I strongly believe a great number of societal vices can be curbed if the family is well grounded and raise healthy kids.

Yes. These kids are watching.

'A good husband' is not one who only provides financially.

Please draft your own document. Keep to the terms and we 'the good wives' will do our part too. It will come naturally.

I make this promise on their behalf.

Thank you.

A hopeful 'good wife,'

Nkiru Uzoh

They will only come here to insult women for having realistic expectations about what good husband means and then make noise about how women are lazy and not good enough etc. They never take corrections.

thotianna:
They will only come here to insult women for having realistic expectations about what good husband means and then make noise about how women are lazy and not good enough etc. They never take corrections.

You think all men are like your father and brothers?

Why don't you start your corrections from them. After all, they never taught you not to generalize from an ignorant point of view and draw conclusions based on the personalities of the men in your household.

EponOjuku:


You think all men are like your father and brothers?

Why don't you start your corrections from them. After all, they never taught you not to generalize from an ignorant point of view and draw conclusions based on the personalities of the men in your household.

Don't make me insult your fathers and brothers in return. Go back and read my post and come and tell me where I mentioned all men. Nonsense.
And it's your mother that didn't teach you how not to draw ignorant conclusions before understanding a post you read.

Nofuckgiven:
Good morning. Beautiful day right? Yes. We thank God for His mercies.

I write on behalf of most wives. Yes, we know and have read all the memos about 'A good wife.'

The documents always find their way to our desks.

A good wife builds her home.

A good wife never raises her voice on her husband.

A good wife is a praying wife.

A good wife...........

A good wife...........

The list is endless.

It's all well and good. I totally agree.

However, nothing is said about 'A good Husband.'

I am yet to see a memo on this.

That is where I have an issue with.

What exactly will 'A good husband' be doing while 'A good wife' builds the home?

'A good wife' does not raise her voice but 'A good husband' is allowed to do so?

'A good wife' should always give her man good food and sex.

Is 'A good husband' not supposed to give this woman the Love, respect and adoration she also deserves?

'A good wife' does not nag. She should communicate effectively. I agree.

But why is 'A good husband' exempted from good communication skills?

Please listen up. They asked that I tell you this:
***********************************************

Good marriages are not made in heaven. They are made here on earth and it takes the input of both the man and woman.

The family is the bedrock of the larger society. I strongly believe a great number of societal vices can be curbed if the family is well grounded and raise healthy kids.

Yes. These kids are watching.

'A good husband' is not one who only provides financially.

Please draft your own document. Keep to the terms and we 'the good wives' will do our part too. It will come naturally.

I make this promise on their behalf.

Thank you.

A hopeful 'good wife,'

Nkiru Uzoh

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