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I Do Not Enjoy Sex. I Feel Nothing Or My Joystick Hurts by LtColOscarIbibo: 1:06pm On Sep 18, 2017
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Re: I Do Not Enjoy Sex. I Feel Nothing Or My Joystick Hurts by abelprice(m): 1:21pm On Sep 18, 2017
Chai... pillow dats new... first of all u need Jesus.... secondly...maybe your joystick is 2 small for d kind of juice box you've been stroking... thirdly stop masturbation... it can ruin your life.... undecided...

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Re: I Do Not Enjoy Sex. I Feel Nothing Or My Joystick Hurts by ysyowel(m): 1:25pm On Sep 18, 2017
go and pray that God may restor that which was lost through masturbation but that will not happen less you repent.
Re: I Do Not Enjoy Sex. I Feel Nothing Or My Joystick Hurts by KELVINXY: 1:26pm On Sep 18, 2017
Ur problem can be solved with just one sentence ;Stop MASTURBATION

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Re: I Do Not Enjoy Sex. I Feel Nothing Or My Joystick Hurts by phintohlar(f): 1:27pm On Sep 18, 2017
Where are the doctors in the house oh and all the guys wey don get Bsc and masters for this game

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Re: I Do Not Enjoy Sex. I Feel Nothing Or My Joystick Hurts by LtColOscarIbibo: 1:29pm On Sep 18, 2017
abelprice:
Chai... pillow dats new... first of all u need Jesus.... secondly...maybe your joystick is 2 small for d kind of juice box you've been stroking... thirdly stop masturbation... it can ruin your life.... undecided...

Thanks for your advice.

I don't think it's my relative joystick size. I don't want to elaborate on this but its definitely not it.

I think your last point is key.

We all need Jesus wink

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Re: I Do Not Enjoy Sex. I Feel Nothing Or My Joystick Hurts by LtColOscarIbibo: 1:34pm On Sep 18, 2017
KELVINXY:
Ur problem can be solved with just one sentence
;Stop MASTURBATION

Thanks a lot Bro. While I am working towards this, I have seen guys who also masturbate a lot but have a stable sex life.

Please I am not being defensive. I just want to know if there might be any other reason for my predicament.
Re: I Do Not Enjoy Sex. I Feel Nothing Or My Joystick Hurts by KELVINXY: 2:55pm On Sep 18, 2017
LtColOscarIbibo:


Thanks a lot Bro. While I am working towards this, I have seen guys who also masturbate a lot but have a stable sex life.

Please I am not being defensive. I just want to know if there might be any other reason for my predicament.
True
But in ur case many factors are to be considered
1.ur method of masturbating;which might have affected (thicken)the skin tissues around ur organ which might lead to less sensitivity
2.thou u might not have mentioned it but taking sex enhancement drugs can reduce the sensitivity around ur organ.
3.masturbating comes with both physical and psychological effects,so in other words ur problem might just be psychological.

So my best advice is to talk to ur partner about it,
not about ur addiction but about ur lack of sensitivity down there.
At least by doing so u will get to a comfort zone where ur mind will be at ease. (psychological problem solved)

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Re: I Do Not Enjoy Sex. I Feel Nothing Or My Joystick Hurts by jeffizy(m): 2:55pm On Sep 18, 2017
Quitting masturbation may be hard, but trust me, that's your way out.
The feelings with a female has long gone.
You are now more comfortable with being with yourself during pleasure.
QUIT NOW, NOT LATER!!

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Re: I Do Not Enjoy Sex. I Feel Nothing Or My Joystick Hurts by LtColOscarIbibo: 3:10pm On Sep 18, 2017
KELVINXY:

True
But in ur case many factors are to be considered
1.ur method of masturbating;which might have affected (thicken)the skin tissues around ur organ which might lead to less sensitivity
2.thou u might not have mentioned it but taking sex enhancement drugs can reduce the sensitivity around ur organ.
3.masturbating comes with both physical and psychological effects,so in other words ur problem might just be psychological.

So my best advice is to talk to ur partner about it,
not about ur addiction but about ur lack of sensitivity down there.
At least by doing so u will get to a comfort zone where ur mind will be at ease. (psychological problem solved)

Again, thanks a whole lot.

Although I haven't taken any sex enhancing drugs, but every thing you have said is very very helpful.

I have thought about talking to her about it but I'm afraid of the consequences since she's also very new to sex and may think she is the cause of the problem.

I think my best bet is to fight my addiction as you rightly pointed out
Re: I Do Not Enjoy Sex. I Feel Nothing Or My Joystick Hurts by Frankicent(m): 3:14pm On Sep 18, 2017
Lolz...Choi...Lalasticala come and move this to front page. lipsrsealed Have nothing to say rather than reading story. tongue
Re: I Do Not Enjoy Sex. I Feel Nothing Or My Joystick Hurts by LtColOscarIbibo: 3:16pm On Sep 18, 2017
jeffizy:
Quitting masturbation may be hard, but trust me, that's your way out.
The feelings with a female has long gone.
You are now more comfortable with being with yourself during pleasure.
QUIT NOW, NOT LATER!!

Thank you so much.
Again, I am thinking I derive more pleasure by watching porn.
The whole thing seems confusing considering the fact that I easily get aroused by the presence or touch of a woman... But when it comes to work time, i lose sensation despite maintaining a erection throughout.

I really have to quit this addiction.
Re: I Do Not Enjoy Sex. I Feel Nothing Or My Joystick Hurts by KELVINXY: 7:24pm On Sep 18, 2017
LtColOscarIbibo:


Again, thanks a whole lot.

Although I haven't taken any sex enhancing drugs, but every thing you have said is very very helpful.

I have thought about talking to her about it but I'm afraid of the consequences since she's also very new to sex and may think she is the cause of the problem.

I think my best bet is to fight my addiction as you rightly pointed out
Honestly u're sort of lucky
Most people ends up becoming a one minute man
Believe me,that is more embarrassing.
So look at the brighter side!

I really applaud ur courage.
And am sure u will get through.

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Re: I Do Not Enjoy Sex. I Feel Nothing Or My Joystick Hurts by LtColOscarIbibo: 6:50am On Sep 19, 2017
KELVINXY:

Honestly u're sort of lucky
Most people ends up becoming a one minute man
Believe me,that is more embarrassing.
So look at the brighter side!

I really applaud ur courage.
And am sure u will get through.

Thank you sire...

I was afraid of that one minute man stuff ooo... As sometimes out of excitement I climax within 1-2 minutes while watching p*rn...

But I'm glad it didn't come to that...
Re: I Do Not Enjoy Sex. I Feel Nothing Or My Joystick Hurts by Zaki500(m): 12:17am On Sep 21, 2017
This is a very interesting case.

Save for the raw words, this deserves front page for more inputs.

Lalasticlala mynd44 seun
Re: I Do Not Enjoy Sex. I Feel Nothing Or My Joystick Hurts by LtColOscarIbibo: 9:30am On Oct 16, 2017
Zaki500:
This is a very interesting case.

Save for the raw words, this deserves front page for more inputs.

Lalasticlala mynd44 seun


Thanks

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