Could anyone share his experience with us on the best way to maintain a healthy marriage that can withstand all odds and survive?

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Try or strive to understand your spouse as much as possible. Dont think you are always right. And bear in mind that whether right or wrong, u must conceed to him or her most of the time.

Communication is another key. It does not matter what the level of argument or misunderstanding might be. Dont sleep without settling it.

Learn also to trust each other. Knowing fully well, that you are in it not for 10years but for life. give it whatever it takes in love to get to the promise land.

while we all strive to keep our marriages there's no guaranteed key to happily ever after outside the bible. Learn to pray together and understand each other while keeping it together let's also be modest in all we do and take the other partner in consideration while taking actions.

Another thing. Don"t sleep without settling whatever grudges or misunderstanding between both of you. Dont ever capitalise on your spouse weaknesses to get back to him or her. Help him/her to get over whatever weakness you might notice. His/her weakness is also your weakness. Work on it once and for all. Let him or her know at every given opportunity that you still love him/her.

Communication, understanding, patience and tolerance is the key. Learn to work on what he or she is complaining of. Trust him or her cos this is one of the key to healthy marriage. Do not dwell so much on each others weaknesses, learn to accept what you can not change. Do not listen to gossips and home brekers, they mean no good. As a woman submit, respect and reverence ur husband. Submission is the major key, do not talk back at him, do not hiss or interrupts when he is talking, respects his family members and his friends. Do not keep secret from each other.For husbands, love your wife and know how to care and pamper a woman. Women are very soft in nature, a little sorry will do the magic or a little gift is more than enough. Also men don't be too egoistic listen to your wife advice, women instints work better. Listening to her does not mean she wants to control you.