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Re: Is She A Wife Material? by MIKOLOWISKA: 11:42am On Sep 28, 2017
Adaumunocha:
Thank God for Vacuum cleaner, poundo yam, washing machine, dish washer.... Person cannot comman go an die
dem still no go gree. dem just wan come de watch telemundo
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by MIKOLOWISKA: 11:43am On Sep 28, 2017
mikeycharles:
A very nice write up, I feel like stereotypes is what's holding Nigeria down i.e this tribe is this or is that, misogyny has been engraved and imbibed in our brains that we forget that a woman was created to be a partner and not a slave or a thing meant for amusement.
so the man that provides and protects should be the slave abi
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by MIKOLOWISKA: 11:45am On Sep 28, 2017
GeneralOjukwu:
Call me a misogynist...thank you.

But as the misogynists are plenty here, so will ladies without home training troop here.

Laundry - drycleaner

Cooking- caterer

Housekeeping- housegal

Why not outsource sex to concubines?

Later you would say you are a supportive wife.

Doing what precisely?

Yes I can make things easy by helping out, but I am the SOLE breadwinner, why would you tell me you can't do house chores?
you de mind dem. come and be sole breadwinner dem no go gree. do housework dem still no wan. confused lot
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by MIKOLOWISKA: 11:47am On Sep 28, 2017
Daeylar:


Tell them jor, the person that invented all this to make life easier are they saying that the person doesn't have sense? grin grin grin
Nonsense people

Chaii, according to most Nigerians, if you have not suffered unnecessary, you are not worth their time, your level of suffering is the way to know if you will be respected, it's the way to know if you are humble.
That's why they love and are always deceived by useless sob stories,
That's why their leaders when they want to win elections they will start roasting corn and frying akara and eating garri, so that people will feel that they are suffering and are humble then give then pity votes

Nonsense, I pray most Nigerians will soon have sense

cc oluebubeneo
so what happens if there is no money to buy appliances or Nepa bill or even house that can contain them. answer now
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by MIKOLOWISKA: 11:48am On Sep 28, 2017
Alariwo2:
A time will come when women will be the ones proposing and begging guys for marriage.

Attimes I see reason why some fanatics dislike girl child education. When they have it all, they think less of men, unlike the olden days when they were under men.

Now they are standing side by side, measuring shoulders with men. Some would call their yeye selves feminisits but they still suck dic.k and pleasure one in their bedroom grin
They make all sort of funny sounds under serious pounding but will be quick to discourage other women from adoring men.

women deceiving themselves
Uh you no see d wan wen wan buy husband?
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by MIKOLOWISKA: 11:49am On Sep 28, 2017
Mznaett:


Imagine you undecided

Instead of you to look for something good to do with your life, you're waiting for one woman that you'll boss around. Unam ikot ke Afo de sad

I pray God should not let any of my sisters to come across someone like you...
Shebi it's rich wife beater or cheater you want for them.no wahala
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by MIKOLOWISKA: 11:50am On Sep 28, 2017
CEEcey:
I never wash my cloth finish na another man cloth i go wash.

If my man cant wash his cloth, he should better stay him mama house

Marriage is not a do or die affair

I cant come and suffer in a man's house all in the name of MARRIAGE!!!
no marriage for you. Mr you marry a rich man with many side chicks
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by MIKOLOWISKA: 11:52am On Sep 28, 2017
oluebubeneo:


Which way Naija? Looking for a naive girl to get married to... well whatever rocks your boat. But I know there are women who work hard, pay bills, rule empires and still have Supportive Husbands... It takes a MAN to keep a Smart woman,an ACHIEVER as a wife, as HIS WOMAN. I respect those MEN. THEY command the respect of QUEENS, They have a high self esteem... they are not intimidated by her success, THEY ARE PROUD OF HER AND MOTIVATE HER.. and still command her respect.
But like they say, 'shoe get size '.

are you willing to be the breadwinner in your home. how many of you can marry a beta. everyone wants an alpha. but y'all feminists are confused.go and find out, those empire builders first passed all these tests, why their husbands support them now
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by degyoniro(m): 11:53am On Sep 28, 2017
what me I have p with is
there is this girl last year when I used to be in school ..... she do come to eat in a restaurant I used to eat with my friends.... openly we will be talking to her indirectly... that shey girls too dey come buka ni....


the girl shame ooooh.... so she can't find time cook for house..... is that one a wife material
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by MIKOLOWISKA: 11:56am On Sep 28, 2017
Nofuckgiven:

You must be mad to have sex with a machine then. I wonder why you bother using any equipment or modern tools if you can do it the old way? If you need a maid,hire one. Wife is not maid. Rubbish
so what is wife. I bet you can't answer
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by MIKOLOWISKA: 11:56am On Sep 28, 2017
Pataricatering:
! Humility ko humbility ni! Do you test men for humility? But women must be tested for humility while suffering so the lazy man she married will still be forming Superman while broke because he married a humble doormat ! Smh
men are tested with being able to house and feed your ungrateful behind
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by Adaumunocha(f): 11:57am On Sep 28, 2017
MIKOLOWISKA:
dem still no go gree. dem just wan come de watch telemundo
Telemundo? Na only telemundo your wife dey watch? You sound like the lady won't have other things doing

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Re: Is She A Wife Material? by MIKOLOWISKA: 11:58am On Sep 28, 2017
Supreme55:
Oga shut up Biko. No be you wear your cloth? Is your wife your maid? You men are just selfish.
but you will live in his house and eat his food and collect iPhone 8 and travel to Dubai and collect school fees. he is still selfish then
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by MIKOLOWISKA: 12:03pm On Sep 28, 2017
Adaumunocha:
Telemundo? Na only telemundo your wife dey watch? You sound like the lady won't have other things doing
such as? shey you see you cant answer the simple question

I can never marry a telemundo or Africa magic watcher
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by Adaumunocha(f): 12:07pm On Sep 28, 2017
MIKOLOWISKA:
such as? shey you see you cant answer the simple question

I can never marry a telemundo or Africa magic watcher
You never asked any question. P.s I hate telemundo.
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by MIKOLOWISKA: 12:12pm On Sep 28, 2017
Adaumunocha:
You never asked any question. P.s I hate telemundo.
what will the wife do in the house? I used telemundo as an example. it could be anything even trading forex
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by Nofuckgiven: 12:18pm On Sep 28, 2017
MIKOLOWISKA:
so what is wife. I bet you can't answer
Wife is a life partner. Just as husband is a life partner. It's your type that becomes houseboy for white women but come here to type trash when it concerns Nigerian women.

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Re: Is She A Wife Material? by MIKOLOWISKA: 12:21pm On Sep 28, 2017
Nofuckgiven:

Wife is a life partner. Just as husband is a life partner. It's your type that becomes houseboy for white women but come here to type trash when it concerns Nigerian women.
what does a partner do?
it's ppl without green card that do that.
I have green card so if you're not doing housework you can go and marry dangote.
again what is the partners job description?
simple question you cannot answer, only insult, SMH
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by oluebubeneo(f): 12:22pm On Sep 28, 2017
MIKOLOWISKA:
so what will you be doing in the man's house. just sleeping and eating abi


Nope... that'll be too boring

The point here is a wife knows her duties in the home but ability to do house chores alone doesn't make her a wife material unless you're looking for a 'househelp' material.

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Re: Is She A Wife Material? by MIKOLOWISKA: 12:23pm On Sep 28, 2017
oluebubeneo:



Nope... that'll be too boring

The point here is a wife knows her duties in the home but ability to do house chores alone doesn't make her a wife material unless you're looking for a 'househelp' material.
please mention the duties. 5 of them. I dare you
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by Nofuckgiven: 12:26pm On Sep 28, 2017
MIKOLOWISKA:
what does a partner do?
it's ppl without green card that do that.
I have green card so if you're not doing housework you can go and marry dangote.
again what is the partners job description?
simple question you cannot answer, only insult, SMH
You have green card after you hooked up with a white woman. Thank God she didn't blow off your brains when you left her. Why didn't you employ a maid when you were single to do your chores instead of doing them yourself? I pity the maid you want to marry. Empty barrels make most sound.

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Re: Is She A Wife Material? by oluebubeneo(f): 12:36pm On Sep 28, 2017
MIKOLOWISKA:
please mention the duties. 5 of them. I dare you
1. She keeps the home..
2. she takes care of the emotional, sexual and other needs of her husband
3.She takes care of the children and brings them up
4. She assists her husband in whatever ways she can, financially and otherwise
5.She is his friend, his companion, his helper, not his slave!

You didn't have to dare me to say all that... I said this already,,, women know their duties!!!

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Re: Is She A Wife Material? by MIKOLOWISKA: 12:40pm On Sep 28, 2017
Nofuckgiven:

You have green card after you hooked up with a white woman. Thank God she didn't blow off your brains when you left her. Why didn't you employ a maid when you were single to do your chores instead of doing them yourself? I pity the maid you want to marry. Empty barrels make most sound.
I have green card cos my parents are citizens.
you can see your mindset and why guys want to test you before they commit .
the girlfriend is the maid.
if she maids well she is married
if she doesn't she is used for the only thing she brings to the table, kpekus, which unfortunately is not enough to commit ones life to providing and protecting.
why do you pity the maid I will marry when she will be provided with all the assistance to do the job, appliances, househelp, roof, food, school fees, vacations protection etc
de dia de fool yourself
no go find sugar son to pretend marriage with.

it's your type that will use green card to cajole man to marry you and be looking for alimony and child support
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by oluebubeneo(f): 12:41pm On Sep 28, 2017
MIKOLOWISKA:
are you willing to be the breadwinner in your home. how many of you can marry a beta. everyone wants an alpha. but y'all feminists are confused.go and find out, those empire builders first passed all these tests, why their husbands support them now


Don't act like you don't know women are no more relegated to the kitchen and the 'other room' There are women who work and help their husbands cater for the family, there are women who pay bills too. They are their husbands' HELPERS

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Re: Is She A Wife Material? by MIKOLOWISKA: 12:45pm On Sep 28, 2017
oluebubeneo:

1. She keeps the home..
2. she takes care of the emotional, sexual and other needs of her husband
3.She takes care of the children and brings them up
4. She assists her husband in whatever ways she can, financially and otherwise
5.She is his friend, his companion, his helper, not his slave!

You didn't have to dare me to say all that... I said this already,,, women know their duties!!!



but these same 'duties' are the ones they refer to as suffering

I dared you so I might get a response
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by Nofuckgiven: 12:46pm On Sep 28, 2017
MIKOLOWISKA:
I have green card cos my parents are citizens.
you can see your mindset and why guys want to test you before they commit .
the girlfriend is the maid.
if she maids well she is married
if she doesn't she is used for the only thing she brings to the table, kpekus, which unfortunately is not enough to commit ones life to providing and protecting.
why do you pity the maid I will marry when she will be provided with all the assistance to do the job, appliances, househelp, roof, food, school fees, vacations protection etc
de dia de fool yourself
no go find sugar son to pretend marriage with.
You are just a poor broke fool typing from ajegunle or whichever remote place you are in Nigeria. Citizen who can't even spell or compose simple grammar. I am not your female relatives that have been tested before they got married and not every man is as lazy and stupid as you. My own male relatives do their own chores and don't wait for a woman to do anything for them. I know you are a slave for one white woman somewhere,we see the pictures everyday here on nairaland. So stop consoling yourself as you married your grandmother's mate. Even the young white women know that Nigerian men like you are useless. Or maybe you are pained because a white woman is frustrating your life over there. Thank God the feminism rights there are strong. Let her milk you dry and kill you cos that is what you deserve. Rubbish.

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Re: Is She A Wife Material? by MIKOLOWISKA: 12:50pm On Sep 28, 2017
oluebubeneo:



Don't act like you don't know women are no more relegated to the kitchen and the 'other room' There are women who work and help their husbands cater for the family, there are women who pay bills too. They are their husbands' HELPERS
yes there was a time kitchen work was relegation.
now it's elevation.
my father won't eat outside so long as he's coming home that night. that's a compliment to any woman.
I don't pray to collect money from my wife so she can keep it as back up in case anything happens to me for the children. but I understand but these women should understand that men 'suffer' on their behalf every single day worrying about how to put food on their table and provide for their offspring so they don't have to. any day they're willing to change roles we're ready but will they?
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by MIKOLOWISKA: 12:54pm On Sep 28, 2017
Nofuckgiven:

You are just a poor broke fool typing from ajegunle or whichever remote place you are in Nigeria. Citizen who can't even spell or compose simple grammar. I am not your female relatives that have been tested before they got married and not every man is as lazy and stupid as you. My own male relatives do their own chores and don't wait for a woman to do anything for them. I know you are a slave for one white woman somewhere,we see the pictures everyday here on nairaland. So stop consoling yourself as you married your grandmother's mate. Even the young white women know that Nigerian men like you are useless.
like I said
only insult you know
so grammar is your argument, I see
your male relatives found women who are willing to pay their bills (like the white women you're obsessed with)
hope some poor schmuck doesn't find you
besides so long as the grandmother can cook and submit she will see husband and happy marriage before you


and you will never be able to speak English half as good as me

bring your waec result mowu compare

troll

and even ajegunle guy will not marry you with this attitude

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Re: Is She A Wife Material? by MIKOLOWISKA: 1:12pm On Sep 28, 2017
Nofuckgiven:

You are just a poor broke fool typing from ajegunle or whichever remote place you are in Nigeria. Citizen who can't even spell or compose simple grammar. I am not your female relatives that have been tested before they got married and not every man is as lazy and stupid as you. My own male relatives do their own chores and don't wait for a woman to do anything for them. I know you are a slave for one white woman somewhere,we see the pictures everyday here on nairaland. So stop consoling yourself as you married your grandmother's mate. Even the young white women know that Nigerian men like you are useless. Or maybe you are pained because a white woman is frustrating your life over there. Thank God the feminism rights there are strong. Let her milk you dry and kill you cos that is what you deserve. Rubbish.
feminists are all divorced and look and feel stupid right now.
you that can spell but can't answer simple question?
what does partner do?
so simple yet you went to white woman grandmother green card. such a foul manipulative mind
SMH
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by MIKOLOWISKA: 1:14pm On Sep 28, 2017
Adaumunocha:
You never asked any question. P.s I hate telemundo.
cat got your tongue. don't allow mumu feminists to deceive you o
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by oluebubeneo(f): 1:18pm On Sep 28, 2017
MIKOLOWISKA:
yes there was a time kitchen work was relegation.
now it's elevation.
my father won't eat outside so long as he's coming home that night. that's a compliment to any woman.
I don't pray to collect money from my wife so she can keep it as back up in case anything happens to me for the children. but I understand but these women should understand that men 'suffer' on their behalf every single day worrying about how to put food on their table and provide for their offspring so they don't have to. any day they're willing to change roles we're ready but will they?

What about a career woman that works just as her husband, knowing fully well that she also has to keep the home she does these
gets a washing machine for laundry and other appliances that makes work easier for her so long as she can afford it, does it make her any less of a wife?

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Re: Is She A Wife Material? by Adaumunocha(f): 1:31pm On Sep 28, 2017
MIKOLOWISKA:
cat got your tongue. don't allow mumu feminists to deceive you o
Her day to day activities... Her job. Where's d time for telemundo? Weekend should b meant for family hangouts.

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