your man is the first son, and he lost his dad when he was just a kid, and the mother had to bring up all four of them by her self. now he is grown and she lives with him. he cant send her to the village cos she was born in the city, grew up in the city and so isnt used to the village life. ladies i want to know your take on this considering she is an educated, nice, jovial mother inlaw.

We can always get her a place of her own.

time to build a mother/daughter house

Yes if I like her and No if I don't

Yes!

Yes I will and spoil her silly, she deserves all the care for giving me a man who am sharing my life with.

Yes, if she is educated

No, if she's an illiterate. I don't want some old lady telling me I didnt do something well or worse that I cant do anything right.

I could give it a try. If it works out fine, if not she moves! We can always find a place for her to stay.

the comments are encouraging, i used to think no nigerian woman will ever live with her mother inlaw. please ladies keep it coming.

true CC, i bet the dude must really be sensitive and diplomatic, in any case he shld know that his wife is closer to him than his mother, and his love shld be undivided. and sure MIL must go spend time with other sibblings from time to time to give the couple ample space to rumble, lol, and they too can steal away to have a swell weekend somewhere quiet.

i once stopped loving a girl cos she was happy she's not gonna hv a MIL(my mum is late),left her eventually though xtremely beautiful and other habits intact.I think my present gf shares that same idealogy,have not asked her anyway and may not.i think its not so nice for MIL and DIL to stay together,you know women with their palava

Most women will tell you yes but no sooner than the old lady steps into the house than they start scheming on how to kick her out.

no i want to have my husband to myself, well i have a nice mother inlaw.

Sure, I wouldn't want my son to kick me out in my old age as well!