Allow other people to train and discipline your child when they are wrong.

Nakairogold:
Most parents are rarely at home. .Most of these kids train themselves.

You have the statistics of most parents not being at home?

JamesReacher:
That image shouldn't be promoted at all bro.

Police hotline is still free... I think

maggilove:
Allow other people to train and discipline your child when they are wrong.

Ok, if my child steals my money, how would you discipline him/her for me?

Practising good makes perfect good not bad

There are many irresponsible adults who never put off childishness.

Sadly childhood goes hand in hand with foolishness.

So we see babies putting everything in their mouths.

We see toddlers asking a million questions.

We see young children dismantling electronics, toys and things to know what's inside.

But if an adult still puts sand in his mouth as food, that one is no longer foolishness but madness.

A parent has a duty to guide the child in the way he should go so the child will be wise.

God be with devoted parents.

#sacrifice

I accept everything except 2 and 5

ochobaba:
The problems we facing in the world today, is as a result of parental decadence

I disagree. The sex that most ppl are involved in now, they did not watch it in their parents house, they did not learn to smoke weed in their house. Even pastor's children are the worst of the bunch. Idk but parents are only to blame in 30% of cases. I encourage parental guidance on shows and regulating their outing but don't restrict it 100%. My own parents kept me at home 24/7 and it made me develop shyness.

Too much regulation is bad but not enough will result in chaos

stnkembu:
This is the genesis of our problem.

Welcome to the world of the progressive liberals.

ochobaba:
The problems we facing in the world today, is as a result of parental decadence

You can't give What you don't have.


That's the situation of most homes and most worrisome , our Country

Tell them that a goodone

chatinent:
Many mothers treat their children like perfect creatures and only notice imperfection, or rather, 'bad character' in other children. Here are things you need to moderate in your child's growthfare .
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1. Stop stomaching their gossips. Ma, you are closer to the child, even you sir; stop registering their gossips. 'Mama Nkechi just said sth about you mummy, she did this, she did that.' Even if that what actually Mama Nkechi did, so shun them first before gossip trade become habitual.
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2. Their eyes' kingdom. Do you ever take note of what they watch at all? Do you? Some movies are rated 18, you don't bother, let alone lampooning them. Do you know that saying 'practice makes perfect?' I bet you do. They are eye-practising, don't worry, they'll attain perfection. How can a child of maybe, seven be advising you not to watch Spartacus , that 'Doctore Bleep up.' ( am I really hearing this?)
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3. Dress Inn. Are you vigilant they are not visiting immoral dress inn? They may get intoxicated. You are the parent, you don't want a bad thing to happen to them, do you? It's at your own peril. Remember, the way you dress, is the way you are addressed.
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4. What is their pride? Have you ever asked them that question?
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5. Phonetinent. What do they spend time doing online most? I understand this is a technological world. Tell me, what's technological being useless? Ha ha, pornofacebookgram right?
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6. Company. Do moderate the caliber of people they keep. That saying: 'show me your friend and I'll tell you who....' finish it.
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7. Rearing a glutton. Minimize the tank of food you give them all in the name of feeding. House-girl eats a piece of meat and your son takes eight pieces. Don't worry, father karma visit is inevitable.
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8. TV hours. This should be limited. Too much of everything is good's brother.
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9. Outward approach. How do they treat others? Do they treat others in a way somebody with parental upbring would do?
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10. Now you! It ends it all; moderate you.
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Origin: http://chatinent.com.ng/index.php?showtopic=473&st=0&#entry930

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balogun16:
if should have tell us to kill our children instead. if we don't allow them exploit how will they develop mentally? that is why Africa is backward. if the little nigga or little biitch want to watch Indecency let them watch. how will they know how satisfy their partner if they don't start practicing now. practice makes perfect remember

No na!

Rikze:



You can't give What you don't have.


That's the situation of most homes and most worrisome , our Country

You right brov

chiraqDemon:

I disagree. The sex that most ppl are involved in now, they did not watch it in their parents house, they did not learn to smoke weed in their house. Even pastor's children are the worst of the bunch. Idk but parents are only to blame in 30% of cases. I encourage parental guidance on shows and regulating their outing but don't restrict it 100%. My own parents kept me at home 24/7 and it made me develop shyness.

Too much regulation is bad but not enough will result in chaos

I feel your pain brov but parents have to go along way in teaching about moral values, cultured and conformity

oshe11:
THEY SHUD RATHER ADVICE THEM WITH THE PROVERBS BELOW

PROVERBS IN PIDGIN. JUST TO RELAX THE WEEK. (MY PEOPLE SAY!)
1. Na for old age ashawo dey know the value of pikin.
2. Woman wey never see problem na im dey still hold breast run.
3. Woman wey dey find pikin no dey wear pant sleep.
4. Rat wey follow lizard enter rain, na later é go hear am.
5. Na for afternoon dem dey find black goat.
6. Weather hot!! E no mean say fowl go lay boiled egg.
7. Eye wey dey cry dey see road.
8. Pikin wey him mama back cross water, wey say him march fish, wetin him mama go march?
9. Small pikin wey dem carry for back no know say the journey far.
10. Person wey don faint before no be stranger to death.
11. Person wey chop belle full, no know wetin hungry man dey see.
12. No be as woman dey close eye enjoy sex she dey enjoy labour pains.
13. Yansh no get teeth but e dey cut shit.
14. Lizard wey fall from tall iroko tree, if nobody hail am, e go hail himself.
15. If girl take husband do boyfriend, she go take boyfriend do husband.
16. Cockroach wey jam fowl, jam bad luck.
17. Na cricket tell him children say, No matter how ground strong, dem no go sleep outside.
18. Pikin wey say him Mama no fine dey use style call him Papa blind man.
19. No be eye wey dem take chop eba dem take dey share meat.
20. Person wey use Elephant set trap, na him know wetin he wan catch.
21. When breeze blow fowl yansh go open.
22. Student Wey Read Na Him Serious, But Student Wey Pass Na Him Know Book .
23. Dem no dey tell tortoise say race don start.
24. Dem no de tell blind man say salt no dey for food.
25. Before you see monkey, monkey don see you.
26. Thief wey jump fence enter house where owner dey wait for am, no go jump again.
27. If pikin say he sabi die, him papa sef go tell am say him sabi bury.
28. Na wetin dey sweet for goat mouth, na im dey kill am.
29. If e be like say everybody dey craze" na you dey craze.
30. Meat wey you dey forbid, no use your teeth cut am.
31. My thing and our thing no be the same oh.
32. Na happiness dey make prick stand.
33. Na as goat stand for market dem dey price am.
34. Craze no hard to form, na the trekking be de wahala.
35. Its a small world!! No mean say you fit trek from Nigeria go Australia.
36. No matter how hot your temper be, e no fit boil beans.
37. Chicken wey run from Borno go Warri go still end up inside Mama Akpos pot of stew.
38. Today’s newspaper na tomorrow Suya wrap.
39. Akara and moi moi get the same parent, na wetin dem pass through make dem different.
40. Mosquito wey stand for blokos na drive dem dey drive am. Dem no dey kill am

Instructive!

OP.
Thanks for sharing. It is very unfortunate that today's society have completely lost focus in the area of proper child upbringing all in the name of civilization and modernization.

ochobaba:

I feel your pain brov but parents have to go along way in teaching about moral values, cultured and conformity

I know but there has to be balance. Social development is 100% important in the life of a child. U as a parent won't always be the one to talk for ur kids or make friends for them. So once in a while u let them socialise and do their own thing, if they do something bad, they'll even find out the consequences on their own and that will affirm what u have told them

In some situations, raising a child and then locking them up might even make them too susceptible to peer pressure when they finally get out of ur prison, e.g going to university. That's why u see some freshers going overboard just to exercise their new found freedom.

It's just about finding the right balance to raise a balanced person who can not only make his own decisions but can also be trusted to make the right decisions.

I guess parenting is really difficult so Nigerian/african parents just take the less stressful way of just zeroing all social activities for their kids instead of finding the right balance. Kudos to all good parents out there tho.

You are welcome.

Gravas:
OP.
Thanks for sharing. It is very unfortunate that today's society have completely lost focus in the area of proper child upbringing all in the name of civilization and modernization.

okay