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A Woman Has My Dad Under Control by Sheun001(m): 6:30am On Oct 14, 2017
Pls nairalanders i feel like my dad is under some kind of charm from a lady is there a way to undo that charm

pls u should help suggest what i can do to help him as my family is on a verge of collapsing

Mods pls help push to FP

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Re: A Woman Has My Dad Under Control by eezeribe(m): 6:32am On Oct 14, 2017
Go and see a strong pastor that does miracles and crusades,not the ones that only know how to preach...

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Re: A Woman Has My Dad Under Control by Sheun001(m): 6:34am On Oct 14, 2017
eezeribe:
OK
pls help a brother here pls;(
Re: A Woman Has My Dad Under Control by EuroBoy007(m): 6:39am On Oct 14, 2017
Use hammer nakam for head, him brain go reset and the charm go comot.....thank me later
Sorry I meant anointing oil and prayers.

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Re: A Woman Has My Dad Under Control by emerged01(m): 6:40am On Oct 14, 2017
You can only fight this kind of battle on your knees.













Pray hard!

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Re: A Woman Has My Dad Under Control by Sheun001(m): 6:42am On Oct 14, 2017
EuroBoy007:
Use hammer nakam for head, him brain go reset and the charm go comot.....thank me later
Sorry I meant anointing oil and prayers

thanks bro but we not the really spiritual type

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Re: A Woman Has My Dad Under Control by Sheun001(m): 6:46am On Oct 14, 2017
emerged01:
You can only fight this kind of battle on your knees.













Pray hard!


okay bro
Re: A Woman Has My Dad Under Control by Peachess(f): 6:55am On Oct 14, 2017
Your dad is probably not under any spell. He's probably doing that cos the lady is giving him mind blowing sex (some men can be very silly) or he's infatuated at his age. Just tell your mum to divorce him ASAP if she can't handle his cheating ass, no woman deserve a cheating partner.

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Re: A Woman Has My Dad Under Control by Sheun001(m): 6:59am On Oct 14, 2017
Peachess:
Your dad is probably not under any spell. He's probably doing that cos the lady is giving him mind blowing sex (some men can be very silly) or he's infatuated at his age. Just tell your mum to divorce him ASAP if she can't handle his cheating ass, no woman deserve a cheating partner.

i suspect that as much but this marriage is over 21yrs and i dont want one stupid lady that didnt go through thick with us to now comman scatter the marriage

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Re: A Woman Has My Dad Under Control by Sheun001(m): 7:00am On Oct 14, 2017
Peachess:
Your dad is probably not under any spell. He's probably doing that cos the lady is giving him mind blowing sex (some men can be very silly) or he's infatuated at his age. Just tell your mum to divorce him ASAP if she can't handle his cheating ass, no woman deserve a cheating partner.

what do you suggest i do to break their bond
Re: A Woman Has My Dad Under Control by Sheun001(m): 7:02am On Oct 14, 2017
Lala pls help push to front page
Re: A Woman Has My Dad Under Control by Peachess(f): 7:05am On Oct 14, 2017
Sheun001:


i suspect that as much but this marriage is over 21yrs and i dont want one stupid lady that didnt go through thick with us to now comman scatter the marriage
I really feel sorry for you guys tho. He'll reap what he sowed later. When the kids start taking care of only their mum when they're financially stable they'll start crying wolf. You've how painful it is, don't do that to any lady when it's your turn sha .

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Re: A Woman Has My Dad Under Control by Sheun001(m): 7:07am On Oct 14, 2017
Peachess:

I really feel sorry for you guys tho. He'll reap what he sowed later. When the kids start taking care of only their mum when they're financially stable they'll start crying wolf. You've how painful it is, don't do that to any lady when it's your turn sha .

i wont ever do that i suspected the lady since the 1st time i saw her

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Re: A Woman Has My Dad Under Control by Peachess(f): 7:11am On Oct 14, 2017
Sheun001:


what do you suggest i do to break their bond
You all should show him love, make home conducive and happy for him to stay. Tell your mum to dress sexy and stuffs like that, make him jealous if she can. And try to show him he is not the only one out there, she's not dependent on him while still showing love. One way to make someone change is showing them love while they're hurting you. If they have conscience, they'll stop.

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Re: A Woman Has My Dad Under Control by Sheun001(m): 7:16am On Oct 14, 2017
Peachess:

You all should show him love, make home conducive and happy for him to stay. Tell your mum to dress sexy and stuffs like that, make him jealous if she can. And try to show him he is not the only one out there, she's not dependent on him while still showing love. One way to make someone change is showing them love while they're hurting you. If they have conscience, they'll stop.

but do you think he'll change like that cause the way i see things he might not cuz that woman is diabolical
Re: A Woman Has My Dad Under Control by Peachess(f): 7:23am On Oct 14, 2017
Sheun001:


but do you think he'll change like that cause the way i see things he might not cuz that woman is diabolical
That I don't know. Just be strong, your mum will need.

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Re: A Woman Has My Dad Under Control by Sheun001(m): 7:26am On Oct 14, 2017
Peachess:
That I don't know. Just be strong, your mum will need.
okay thanks
Re: A Woman Has My Dad Under Control by nifemi25(m): 7:30am On Oct 14, 2017
Why can't you call your dad mam to man and ask him what makes him change to the family. He might be happy to exchange some words with you.

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Re: A Woman Has My Dad Under Control by Sheun001(m): 7:34am On Oct 14, 2017
nifemi25:
Why can't you call your dad mam to man and ask him what makes him change to the family. He might be happy to exchange some words with you.

i dont think he'll tell me
he'll just deny it and pretend like nothin is wrong
Re: A Woman Has My Dad Under Control by pocohantas(f): 8:58am On Oct 14, 2017
Your dad isn't under any spell. Your dad is only being a man.
When men cheat, they claim they were charmed, snatched, or pushed out by their wives. Only una!!!

Call him and talk to him. Only your dad can undo the 'charm'.

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Re: A Woman Has My Dad Under Control by uboma(m): 9:29am On Oct 14, 2017
Sheun001:


but do you think he'll change like that cause the way i see things he might not cuz that woman is diabolical



what makes you think that the woman in question is diabolical?
Re: A Woman Has My Dad Under Control by Sheun001(m): 9:41am On Oct 14, 2017
pocohantas:
Your dad isn't under any spell. Your dad is only being a man.
Na only una dem dey use spell on.
Na una them dey snatch.

Call him and talk to him. Only your dad can undo the 'charm'.

hmmm okay but this is a man i've known for 17yrs and nothing like this has ever happened even women who try to seduce him
he do push them away and narrate the incident to my mum i dont now understand what's going on now;(
Re: A Woman Has My Dad Under Control by Sheun001(m): 9:42am On Oct 14, 2017
uboma:



what makes you think that the woman in question is diabolical?
read my above response
Re: A Woman Has My Dad Under Control by amiibaby(f): 10:39am On Oct 14, 2017
Prayer answereth all things.....have u tried praying?

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Re: A Woman Has My Dad Under Control by ivolt: 10:40am On Oct 14, 2017
I don't think he was charmed, he is just not interested in the marriage any more.
I hope your mum is financially independent, because a bigger storm may be on
its way.

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Re: A Woman Has My Dad Under Control by madridguy(m): 10:40am On Oct 14, 2017
@ OP, is your dad still performing his duty and responsibility as the head of the family?
If yes,then allow the old man to enjoy his life to the fullest. Your dad need a young blood to refresh.

Well, if you're sure the woman charmed him, let me know if you are a Muslim then I will tell you what to read to neutralize the charm Insha Allah your dad will come back to his senses.

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Re: A Woman Has My Dad Under Control by Firefire(m): 10:40am On Oct 14, 2017
emerged01:
You can only fight this kind of battle on your knees.













Pray hard!

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Re: A Woman Has My Dad Under Control by hahnsmall: 10:40am On Oct 14, 2017
Sheun001:
Pls nairalanders i feel like my dad is under some kind of charm from a lady is there a way to undo that charm

pls u should help suggest what i can do to help him as my family is on a verge of collapsing

Mods pls help push to FP

Your dad has gotten some good pvssy grin

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Re: A Woman Has My Dad Under Control by Apina(m): 10:40am On Oct 14, 2017
Sheun001:
Pls nairalanders i feel like my dad is under some kind of charm from a lady is there a way to undo that charm

pls u should help suggest what i can do to help him as my family is on a verge of collapsing

Mods pls help push to FP
Feelings first of all do not cumulate into evidence. U didn't say if there was anyone u knew of whom Ur dad was into and what exactly his actions are which had led to the supposed collapse. Since we don't know what exactly Ur experience is, how do u expect us to advise u? undecided

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Re: A Woman Has My Dad Under Control by Daeylar(f): 10:40am On Oct 14, 2017
Sheun001:


i suspect that as much but this marriage is over 21yrs and i dont want one stupid lady that didnt go through thick with us to now comman scatter the marriage

You dad is the one scattering the marriage not the 'stupid' woman. wink

The same way he chased them away before he should have done so now
That you dad hasn't done such before doesn't mean he can't start now.

Can you talk to your dad about this? If you can Try

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Re: A Woman Has My Dad Under Control by JoshMedia: 10:40am On Oct 14, 2017
Did you say, she charmed your Dad?


Well, I advise you pray


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Re: A Woman Has My Dad Under Control by Ifyx(m): 10:40am On Oct 14, 2017
@OP, I suggest u state your dad's case more explicitly so that we can know how best to proffer solutions.

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