I love my baby but atimes I feel left out in the relationship..
She doesn't call, text, or chat me. her excuse is she doesn't have credit to reach out..
An incident happened last two week.. I called her no thrice consecutively it's was busy for like 5 minutes, so I chilled to call her back...
it rang she didn't pick up.
tried it twice again.. still she didn't pick..
I was furious
when I chatted her up. she couldn't even apologize for missing by call..
Could it be she is seeing someone else?

Your real name should be Sissy not Johnny

Assistant boyfriend spotted.

Acknowledge your position to avoid heartbreak.

Bro find the next available girl sharp sharp

Lol... This type of thread/post just manages to open all my '32' . Baba check yourself well, are you sure u're satisfying your woman, i'm not talking about 3 hours for e-play and 25 secs lovemaking

Lol u r nt even in a rship with her n u r talking break up. She is jst using u to pass time. Start looking for another girl this one is gone, she is nt interested in u

Should I even comment self?

If s/he doesn't call you.. Its simple. Don't panic. Don't beat yourself. Keep things in perspective.

“Dating is risky business.” It’s risky, of course, because there’s always the chance of getting hurt. If you are going to date, you need to accept that many different variables are at play when two people successfully come together and forge a real relationship. Timing, readiness, relationship status, and even luck all play an important role, so remember that and live by this cardinal rule of matchmaking.

What I’m about to say may be hard to hear but it’s the truth: How you respond to a guy/girl not calling is a reflection on how you feel about yourself, and not so much about the guy/girl. If you’re feeling bad because a guy/girl didn’t call, it means that you’ve gotten stuck jumping to some negative conclusions. To turn things around, focus on yourself by saying positive things about yourself. Say out loud, “I’m a good package, and I know other men/women will see that.” Repeat it multiple times throughout the day.

"The temptation to feel bad when someone you like doesn’t call is going to be strong, so watch out for the accompanying inclination to beat yourself up. Instead of focusing on the negative (he didn’t call), redirect your attention to something positive."
If it’s been a couple days and he hasn’t called, give him a week or so until you decide to move on. But once it’s apparent that he’s not going to call (usually around the one week marker), set a new goal of finding someone else.

abeg leave trash for lawma.The girl just dey play u around.use your head...

Are you sure you are actually in a relationship with this girl or you imagine you are in a relationship with her Because she looks at you once a while?

virud:
If s/he doesn't call you.. Its simple. Don't panic. Don't beat yourself. Keep things in perspective.

“Dating is risky business.” It’s risky, of course, because there’s always the chance of getting hurt. If you are going to date, you need to accept that many different variables are at play when two people successfully come together and forge a real relationship. Timing, readiness, relationship status, and even luck all play an important role, so remember that and live by this cardinal rule of matchmaking.

What I’m about to say may be hard to hear but it’s the truth: How you respond to a guy/girl not calling is a reflection on how you feel about yourself, and not so much about the guy/girl. If you’re feeling bad because a guy/girl didn’t call, it means that you’ve gotten stuck jumping to some negative conclusions. To turn things around, focus on yourself by saying positive things about yourself. Say out loud, “I’m a good package, and I know other men/women will see that.” Repeat it multiple times throughout the day.

"The temptation to feel bad when someone you like doesn’t call is going to be strong, so watch out for the accompanying inclination to beat yourself up. Instead of focusing on the negative (he didn’t call), redirect your attention to something positive."
If it’s been a couple days and he hasn’t called, give him a week or so until you decide to move on. But once it’s apparent that he’s not going to call (usually around the one week marker), set a new goal of finding someone else.

He feels bad for a very good reason and he should listen to his gut feeling. The girl is clearly not very interested.

My advice: Ignore her and move on. Girls in love do not act like that. They can't wait to see your name on the screen of their phones. Don't be a mumu.

Mindfulness:



He feels bad for a very good reason and he should listen to his gut feeling. The girl is clearly not very interested.

My advice: Ignore her and move on. Girls in love do not act like that. They can't wait to see your name on the screen of their phones. Don't be a mumu.

Simple and shortest.

Mindfulness:



He feels bad for a very good reason and he should listen to his gut feeling. The girl is clearly not very interested.

My advice: Ignore her and move on. Girls in love do not act like that. They can't wait to see your name on the screen of their phones. Don't be a mumu.

Did you {take time to} read what I posted?

virud:
If s/he doesn't call you.. Its simple. Don't panic. Don't beat yourself. Keep things in perspective.

“Dating is risky business.” It’s risky, of course, because there’s always the chance of getting hurt. If you are going to date, you need to accept that many different variables are at play when two people successfully come together and forge a real relationship. Timing, readiness, relationship status, and even luck all play an important role, so remember that and live by this cardinal rule of matchmaking.

What I’m about to say may be hard to hear but it’s the truth: How you respond to a guy/girl not calling is a reflection on how you feel about yourself, and not so much about the guy/girl. If you’re feeling bad because a guy/girl didn’t call, it means that you’ve gotten stuck jumping to some negative conclusions. To turn things around, focus on yourself by saying positive things about yourself. Say out loud, “I’m a good package, and I know other men/women will see that.” Repeat it multiple times throughout the day.

"The temptation to feel bad when someone you like doesn’t call is going to be strong, so watch out for the accompanying inclination to beat yourself up. Instead of focusing on the negative (he didn’t call), redirect your attention to something positive."
If it’s been a couple days and he hasn’t called, give him a week or so until you decide to move on. But once it’s apparent that he’s not going to call (usually around the one week marker), set a new goal of finding someone else.

Bros, this is more like textbook (internet) relationship advice.

Like I love a guy and he claims he loves me too...and he does not communicate me in any way for let's say...Two days.....at the start of our relationship when the loff usually shaks sumbodi like mard?
And I feel this disconnect from him...??

Hian.

The best I will do is try not to label or judge the situation, but I am moving on.

Of course, he will be back to explain himself or not.
Whatever happens after then will determine if I should put his market back on my head or dust it off my shoulders.

MizMyColi:


Bros, this is more like textbook (internet) relationship advice.

Like I love a guy and he claims he loves me too...and he does not communicate me in any way for let's say...Two days.....at the start of our relationship when the loff usually shaks sumbodi like mard?
And I feel this disconnect from him...??

Hian.

The best I will do is try not to label or judge the situation, but I am moving on.

Of course, he will be back to explain himself or not.
Whatever happens after then will determine if I should put his market back on my head or dust it off my shoulders.

Correct.
Simply put...
Dont Panic> Afterall you just got to know this person. Its either acceptance or Rejection. Why the melt down?
Benefit of doubt>> You owe him / her that. There could be some legitimate reasons why s/he stopped communicating. In this case, 'NO AIRTIME', which isn't just flying.

Then you decide to put his market back on your head or dust it off your shoulders.

let me shed more light on this relationship..
been dating since early 2015.. at the first two month she was cool and nice.
I once teased her That I was broke and she surprise me with a little token. that like 2015..
since then till now.. she hasn't helped with 1000 naira or 100 naira card..
I always get her nice stuffs and celebrate her with gifts on her birthday but she has never given me a gifts..

This is really sad for me
i am a custom designer. I make custom wears and sell custom apparels..
I get her lot of custom designs..
So Money wasn't really my problem buh she never for once helped me.
This is really dishearten.
but why do ladies acts like that??

virud:


Correct.
Simply put...
Dont Panic> Afterall you just got to know this person. Its either acceptance or Rejection. Why the melt down?
Benefit of doubt>> You owe him / her that. There could be some legitimate reasons why s/he stopped communicating. In this case, 'NO AIRTIME', which isn't just flying.

Then you decide to put his market back on your head or dust it off your shoulders.

Nope Been in the relationship for almost 3years

johnnyn1:
let me shed more light on this relationship..
been dating since early 2015.. at the first two month she was cool and nice.
I once teased her That I was broke and she surprise me with a little token. that like 2015..
since then till now.. she hasn't helped with 1000 naira or 100 naira card..
I always get her nice stuffs and celebrate her with gifts on her birthday but she has never given me a gifts..

This is really sad for me
i am a custom designer. I make custom wears and sell custom apparels..
I get her lot of custom designs..
So Money wasn't really my problem buh she never for once helped me.
This is really dishearten.
but why do ladies acts like that??

Stop touching her there. It's irritating my penìs

Idk why you think you're in a relationship with someone who doesn't communicate with you. You're clearly in a relationship by yourself. Move on and find someone else who's interested in you and has your time.

Love is never enough to keep a relationship...

Berra take the exit route out of that relationship guy...

This is a one-sided love story.
Now that you're no more drunk in love and you've realised your tally of favors are adding up while hers remains stagnant, you might want to do yourself a favor by getting out of the toxic relationship. The sooner you accept she's done with you, the sooner you can leave her behind and the better for you.

This op is what I call a real dunce

Cuddlebugie:
This is a one-sided love story.
Now that you're no more drunk in love and you've realised your tally of favors are adding up while hers remains stagnant, you might want to do yourself a favor by getting out of the toxic relationship. The sooner you accept she's done with you, the sooner you can leave her behind and the better for you.

. You are beautiful

You are just a tool in her hand,maybe a screwdriver to screw or unscrew when the needs arise. It is your decision if you want to remain a tool.

Seriously do you have to attach random pictures to your posts?

crunchyg:
. You are beautiful

Thank you

It's obvious she's not into you, stop forcing yourself on her.

Cuddlebugie:
Thank you

Can we get to know ourselves better?

It looks like she's not interested, break up with her and I believe the right woman would come at the right time