Good evening familanders.
Sometime happened to someone around me that I think we can all learn from. I'm so sad at the moment but I feel this might be helpful to someone
A certain lady whose husband is the keeper/guard of my complex died today,she was rejected by three hospitals before she finally succumbed to death this evening.
They are from Niger Republic and the husband said she was 15 when she came from her town to live with him in Lagos in 2010..they have 3children, the youngest being less than a year old, she wanted to go for FP which her husband agreed to...they went to their family private hospital but the doctor was not around so they planned to come back later.
The lady was not patient, she went ahead to meet an auxiliary nurse who injected her and she has been bleeding since First week in September, but last week, things got so bad that she had several transfusion but she finally died this evening.
When I saw the husband this morning, he was just crying that he told her he prefers to use condoms but she insisted.

I just want to impore us all, please go to a certified private hospital probably with a competent gynaecologist or a Teaching hospital/General hospital for family planing... certain tests might be conducted to know which suits you best.
Family planning is good, I've been on FP for three years and I know it works fine.
Couples should agree well and seek for help in the appropriate place.
If on any FP, and you feel too uncomfortable, please see your doctor.

Thank you

That's too bad. I'm sure the Nurse who injected her will go scot-free.