SIGNS OF IMMATURITY IN MARRIAGE FOR MEN:

1. Rejecting food when there's an issue:
Mr husband, you gave your wife money for
food and after it was prepared you refused
to eat because you are angry. It's one of the greatest signs of immaturity, it's time to grow up! You should not even abandon your home for any reason. You could go somewhere when angry but ensure that you don't allow it to linger unnecessarily because that is enough for the devil to build on even though some women can be really troublesome.

2. Telling your wife severally that you are the head:

May I let you know that even when your wife disobeys/ disrespect you she still knows that you are the head. You need not shout or scream it daily. Or do we need to get you a slot on CNN? It's important for you to know when and how to be firm and put your feet down over issues, however don't become a nagging husband just to prove that you are the head.

3. Issuing threats:

beating, verbally abusing
your wife, issuing threats of divorce or
bragging about marrying another wife does
not make you a man. An EMPTY barrel makes the loudest noise. Your strength is in your ability to tame your tongue and control your fist. When she is acting her "childish woman" part, play the "matured man."

4. Reporting your wife to friends and family:

When your wife offends you, correct
and talk things through. You don't have to tell everyone about her mistakes, that will paint her black and sell her cheap such that you will not be able to redeem her back.
By the way, are you a reporter answer my question ?

5. Keeping malice:

is it not funny to know that some men keep malice? Some of them even nag, criticise, abuse and call their wives names in public. It may make you look like a "big boy" who's in control but you are not going to gain anything good from it, your home will only be a den of insults and confrontations.

6. Not helping with house chores:
I must say here that it is the sole responsibility of a woman to tend and manage a home.
However, it's not a bad thing if a man lends a helping hand when necessary. Watching football with newspaper in your hand every evening, not caring how stressful the house chores are will only increase the pressure on your wife and if you truly care you'll help, just checking on her while busy could encourage and sooth her, this also makes you a good example to the kids especially the boys. Some men don't even say "thank You" to their wives after eating, all they do is compare her with other women. It's a shame that after having 3-4 kids some
men cannot change a simple diaper or
prepare cereal meals; a big shame.
My point?
A REAL man is a pillar of support to his wife, not a hole of depression.

True talk.

That means 99.9% of men are immature in marriage...

Not true
Not true
Not true

No two marriages and persons are the same,the things you mentioned helps in factory reset sometimes

Number 1 is not immaturity. It is just to register his displeasure nothing more.

It shows that he lost his appetite due to her behaviour... I don't see anything wrong with a man that says "he is not hungry. "

When he's hungry, he will eat.. u can't force someone to eat when he or she is not a baby

This write up is misleading...

I don't think the the writer is married.

Rubbiish:
This write up is misleading...

which aspect is misleading sir

Olorunfemy:
SIGNS OF IMMATURITY IN MARRIAGE FOR MEN:

1. Rejecting food when there's an issue:
Mr husband, you gave your wife money for
food and after it was prepared you refused
to eat because you are angry. It's one of the greatest signs of immaturity, it's time to grow up! You should not even abandon your home for any reason. You could go somewhere when angry but ensure that you don't allow it to linger unnecessarily because that is enough for the devil to build on even though some women can be really troublesome.

2. Telling your wife severally that you are the head:

May I let you know that even when your wife disobeys/ disrespect you she still knows that you are the head. You need not shout or scream it daily. Or do we need to get you a slot on CNN? It's important for you to know when and how to be firm and put your feet down over issues, however don't become a nagging husband just to prove that you are the head.

3. Issuing threats:

beating, verbally abusing
your wife, issuing threats of divorce or
bragging about marrying another wife does
not make you a man. An EMPTY barrel makes the loudest noise. Your strength is in your ability to tame your tongue and control your fist. When she is acting her "childish woman" part, play the "matured man."

4. Reporting your wife to friends and family:

When your wife offends you, correct
and talk things through. You don't have to tell everyone about her mistakes, that will paint her black and sell her cheap such that you will not be able to redeem her back.
By the way, are you a reporter answer my question ?

5. Keeping malice:

is it not funny to know that some men keep malice? Some of them even nag, criticise, abuse and call their wives names in public. It may make you look like a "big boy" who's in control but you are not going to gain anything good from it, your home will only be a den of insults and confrontations.

6. Not helping with house chores:
I must say here that it is the sole responsibility of a woman to tend and manage a home.
However, it's not a bad thing if a man lends a helping hand when necessary. Watching football with newspaper in your hand every evening, not caring how stressful the house chores are will only increase the pressure on your wife and if you truly care you'll help, just checking on her while busy could encourage and sooth her, this also makes you a good example to the kids especially the boys. Some men don't even say "thank You" to their wives after eating, all they do is compare her with other women. It's a shame that after having 3-4 kids some
men cannot change a simple diaper or
prepare cereal meals; a big shame.
My point?
A REAL man is a pillar of support to his wife, not a hole of depression.

. Total rubbish

Marriage is one institution that each couple works out themselves. They agree how they want to run it and each marriage is peculiar to the couples involved.

Generally, communication is very important. Talk and make yourself understood. No assumptions.

Respect for each other. Be friends and buddies but respect each other's views, feelings,etc.

Love. When you love, you give. You give time,attention,care, encouragement, gifts, support,etc.The other person's welfare and happiness,peace of mind,etc, becomes very crucial to you.

You will disagree, you will fight but in the midst of it and all the shakara, you will know that he is your husband and she is your wife and you guys will always work things out.

There is no textbook principle or step by step process about how to run a marriage. It is in the little things you do daily that make or mar the marriage.