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Old things where they belong; in the past. by Xamie271(m): 9:12pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
I was filling a form online and user my younger brother as next of kin. He by chance saw the form and raised hell. Scolding everyone and everything. What I did, was it wrong? Edit January, 2019: Learning to live with the things you can't change is a much better route to peace of mind. |
Re: Old things where they belong; in the past. by Sleekydee(m): 9:13pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
he wanted u to use him? am lost, find me 5 Likes |
Re: Old things where they belong; in the past. by Nobody: 9:15pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Hmm |
Re: Old things where they belong; in the past. by Xamie271(m): 9:17pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
yes. saying I regard my brother more than him. Sleekydee: |
Re: Old things where they belong; in the past. by Nobody: 9:24pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Sleekydee:use him for? |
Re: Old things where they belong; in the past. by yomi007k(m): 9:25pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Xamie271: No problem wen u grow up u will know wat being a dad is like. I use to be in ur shoes till I became my own man....and now I bow down to my dad even as he RIP. 2 Likes |
Re: Old things where they belong; in the past. by Biggcake: 9:35pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
1 Like |
Re: Old things where they belong; in the past. by Nobody: 9:54pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Seems petty to me though. Trying to figure out why i will get mad if my son uses my other son as next of kin? 1 Like |
Re: Old things where they belong; in the past. by sKy007: 9:55pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Next of kin should be your siblings. Period If you go somewhere, say school or bank, him go gree leave him work and follow you? 2 Likes |
Re: Old things where they belong; in the past. by ASecondChance: 10:01pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
loneatar:Ritual |
Re: Old things where they belong; in the past. by coolebux(m): 10:18pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
But some dads can escalate issues sha
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Re: Old things where they belong; in the past. by Xamie271(m): 10:20pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
as the next of kin loneatar: |
Re: Old things where they belong; in the past. by Xamie271(m): 10:30pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
yomi007k:so you're insinuating? that my brother isn't good enough as a next of kin? 1 Like |
Re: Old things where they belong; in the past. by Sleekydee(m): 10:46pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Xamie271: now that's just some petty shit |
Re: Old things where they belong; in the past. by yomi007k(m): 11:13pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Xamie271: Nope...im saying u will understand in the future. 1 Like |
Re: Old things where they belong; in the past. by babythug(f): 3:37am On Oct 26, 2017 |
Please explain to your dad that your next of kin is "expected" to out live you so a sibling, spouse or child is most appropriate choice 5 Likes |
Re: Old things where they belong; in the past. by Ranchhoddas: 6:09am On Oct 26, 2017 |
Have you ever heard the term "patricide"? Na question ooo.... |
Re: Old things where they belong; in the past. by Xamie271(m): 7:17am On Oct 26, 2017 |
Ranchhoddas:And what has murdering someone's got to do with next of kin? |
Re: Old things where they belong; in the past. by Xamie271(m): 7:18am On Oct 26, 2017 |
babythug:that's what I thought ooh. now I don't even know again. |
Re: Old things where they belong; in the past. by Oyindidi(f): 7:53am On Oct 26, 2017 |
Very funny |
Re: Old things where they belong; in the past. by Ranchhoddas: 8:28am On Oct 26, 2017 |
Xamie271:Na question na. I was thinking you were looking for a solution. |
Re: Old things where they belong; in the past. by ImaIma1(f): 9:40am On Oct 26, 2017 |
It is better to use your siblings as NOK instead of your dad. Your dad is technically meant to die before you. But hating your dad is too much energy. Respect him, live your life and be happy. Try not to expect too mich when you relate with him since he abuses you mentally. Just take the negative things he says with a pinch of salt. 2 Likes |
Re: Old things where they belong; in the past. by LadySarah: 11:37am On Oct 26, 2017 |
nok are supposed to be ppl in your generation or younger thsn you not some old person biko. As it is my small son will be my nok |
Re: Old things where they belong; in the past. by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:30pm On Oct 26, 2017 |
if i am your dad, and you still live under my roof, i will quickly ask you to go live at your next f kin place....since they matter more than me who is feeding/housing you |
Re: Old things where they belong; in the past. by tofek4real: 1:50pm On Oct 26, 2017 |
babythug:Yes & No it's a matter of choice though |
Re: Old things where they belong; in the past. by tofek4real: 1:55pm On Oct 26, 2017 |
ImaIma1:I love this |
Re: Old things where they belong; in the past. by djoe21(m): 5:05pm On Oct 26, 2017 |
Sleekydee: This got me cracked up! |
Re: Old things where they belong; in the past. by Xamie271(m): 5:46pm On Oct 26, 2017 |
ImaIma1: thank you |
Re: Old things where they belong; in the past. by Xamie271(m): 5:47pm On Oct 26, 2017 |
ImaIma1: thank you very much |
Re: Old things where they belong; in the past. by Xamie271(m): 5:49pm On Oct 26, 2017 |
ImaIma1: thank you very much! |
Re: Old things where they belong; in the past. by Xamie271(m): 5:58pm On Oct 26, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1: let's say there was property at stake, I should die before him and he'll inherit them all while I have a brother? How does that even resound in your mind? I'm glad most father's are more enlightened to not reason this backwardly. |
Re: Old things where they belong; in the past. by 4kings: 6:08pm On Oct 26, 2017 |
Ranchhoddas:You no well. Long time how far. |
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