Rchibs:
True. but a woman can build and a woman can destroy.

gypsey:
Atleast the man or husband can defend themselves, this poor child can not, not as hard as an adult.

Unfortunately, we live in a world where the MAN/HUSBAND is demonized, right from when they are little BOYS!

Did you not notice that all the NGO are about Women and Girls, ~(`so it can appear sympathetic).... But its like BOYS live in heaven and they never experience all these problems that women and girls experience?

In real life, we all know the Male Child goes through worse things than the Female but they are conditioned by those who oppress them "to be STRONG and BOTTLE IT ALL UP" LIKE A 'REAL MAN'.

Statements like "Boys dont cry", "take it on the Chin like a real man", e.t.c, are coined to make the MALE child hard and unfeeling, while suffering in silence.

Males are viewed/treated like Donkeys: Work and Run but never stop when you are tired.....just collapse and die when it your body cant absorb the punishement anymore
Everytime, Cardiac Arrest

smallsmall:


Unfortunately, we live in a world where the MAN/HUSBAND is demonized, right from when they are little BOYS!

Did you not notice that all the NGO are about Women and Girls, ~(`so it can appear sympathetic).... But its like BOYS live in heaven and they never experience all these problems that women and girls experience?

In real life, we all know the Male Child goes through worse things than the Female but they are conditioned by those who oppress them "to be STRONG and BOTTLE IT ALL UP" LIKE A 'REAL MAN'.

Statements like "Boys dont cry", "take it on the Chin like a real man", e.t.c, are coined to make the MALE child hard and unfeeling, while suffering in silence.

Males are viewed/treated like Donkeys: Work and Run but never stop when you are tired.....just collapse and die when it your body cant absorb the punishement anymore
Everytime, Cardiac Arrest

stephenduru:
According to the story shared by Francesca,a heartless madam inflicted injuries on her maid in Lagos by throwing her down from the second floor of a building.The photos have been trending with many suggesting that the madam should be dealt with.Below is what Francesca wrote....

'Thrown from the second floor by her madam.  Deep lacerations and contours.  Terrible.  What can be done please.  Just tired of this madness'.I hereby sentence her to life imprisonment.

Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2017/11/wicked-madam-throws-her-maid-down-from.html?m=1

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Everything you and the person you quoted said, are very correct.

But we must be careful not to "throw away the baby, with the bath water", literally speaking.
What l mean is this:
RESPECT is a very important virtue of Life, which most Africans have ingrained in them.
On the other hand, WICKED ARROGANCE is also a very bad virtue, which is very common in Africa.
The two are NOT THE SAME and the former is not the cause of the latter.

What you are observing is wicked arrogance, something which can be tackled with Legislation (punishment) while still keeping our "respect culture".
For instance, in Africa, you wont find a son slapping his father or asking his father to eff-off as is common in the West.
You wont find a father taking his child to court, over not paying rent in his father's house!
What you will find is the younger ones, showing respect to the older ones, in greeting, in helping them to carry heavy things, in standing up fpr them in Buses, in obedience, e.t.c.

But on the other hand, we have aband of "wicked elders" who take pride in lording itover the less fortunate ones.
Look at our NASS for example, you have "people's representative" who cannot approve #18,000 minimum wage (citing no funds) but wickedly approve #29Million take-home pay for themselves! That is wicked arrogance that has nothing to do with the concept of "respect".

You have office Bosses see themselves as a kind of demi-god and their surbodinates as inhuman slaves!
They steal from the profit of the company to buy houses all over the place while owing workers their salary.

We have Public Servants at the top level, who are supposed to supervise the implementation of policies for the 'common good' buying and riding bigger and higher SUV's to counter the giant Pot-holes on the road, instead of repairing the road.
They build higher and higher fences, instead of tackling the root cuases of Crime.
They run abroad for medical treatment, instead of building and improving existing Hospital care facilities.
Even our President, since he came back from his medical treatment abroad, l have not heard him declare an ememrgency (with real actions) on our hospitals. I guess if he gets sick again, he will still run to the U.K to get treated while the common man is left to die here.

I can go on and on.
And you cansee from the examples above, that RESPECT, which is actually a good thing, is not the problem.
What we lack are the requisite LEGISLATION and the Political Will to implement them, to deal with such wicked actions of those in positions of authority.
We must keep our 'respect culture' while tackling those that abuse the less priviledged in the society

AFONJAPIG:
serve her right , some house maids are too annoying... who knows what she does to deserve this kind of punishment from her madam.. maybe stealing meat from the pot

ceaser:


Oh crap. NL needs a "dislike" or "thumbs down" button for goodness sake! More emojis even.

A tribal bigot and child molester in one. What could be a worse combination?

iamJ:
what did she do?

Maybe she raped her son

Or maybe she did somtin bad that is deserving of what she received

Osama bin laden was killed nobody called his killers bad guys because he deserved it


#No Filter Attitude

snowblaq:


BoringBoring

iamJ:
yes like ur face


Get lost

NwaAmaikpe:


The sad thing about nature is that maids are always seen as the underdogs.

In reality, most maids deserve no pity.
But throwing a maid overboard literally is overboard.