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Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by Gentle034(m): 7:56pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Daeylar:Daeylar |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by akaahs(m): 7:57pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Chrisrare:Pls always take ur time and read before commenting. He stated it clearly |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by ladensmith(m): 7:58pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Moyinoluwa35:lol....na person father be that ooh |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by psalmistkakah(m): 8:04pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Chrisrare:Read all ova again, pls |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by dominique(f): 8:04pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Yes you can tell your mum to divorce your dad, but she won't. Why? She has totally lost herself in the marriage. What does she have going for her other than being a pastor's wife and a mother of ten kids? The older ones amongst you should stand up for your mum against your father. No amount of fasting or praying will change him, he will continue till he's too old to beat her up or either of them passes. So if you want your mum to have peace of mind, you fight for her. |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by zynzyn(m): 8:06pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Don't believe in Divorce BUT i believe SEPARATION is sometimes NECESSARY!! |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by BJ0SE(m): 8:06pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Talk to your Dad on your concerns but on no account should you encourage your mum to divorce ur dad, let her make the decision by herself. |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by yemkz: 8:13pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
And u will marry ur mummy? |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by anigbajumo(m): 8:16pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Djboosting: God bless you,@op read nd understand this contribution. |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by Welcomme: 8:18pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Tobium1:Get a well paid job? At where? Have u forgotten you are in Nigeria? Even a low and lowest paid job sef is not easy to get. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by oruma19: 8:18pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Clyod:bros, he that comes to equity must come clean. We can't be fighting wrongdoing with wrongdoing. Much as I hate what useless pastors are doing now I don't supot telling lies to make the story look good. A man that has ten children from one woman must be above 60 or thereabout using average calculation, a sixty year old pastor with 10 children will be maltreating his wife and children that some are big enough to be on Nairaland. Haba, make we use our brain na. An average boy of 16 will beat up his father if he abuses the mother in their presence. Let alone 10 children. Them for don kill d papa sef if na true story. U cannot beat the mother of ur grown up children and go free. Ask any young boy, he will tell u what will happen to the father if he tries it. The story is cooked and a very big lie. |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by anigbajumo(m): 8:19pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Hector09: You bear ur dad??That is abomination here in Yoruba Land nd is even against religious line |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by dominique(f): 8:19pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Chrisrare: Sharrap! Must you blame the victim? It's not every person that find themselves with an abusive partner that is at fault. Some people are born bullies, they derive pleasure in intimidating and subduing others. That's the type of person Op's dad is. Even his grown up kids are afraid to confront him, that ought to tell you that man is an evil bully. It's your likes that will justify a man battering a woman to the point of death- it has to be her fault somehow. But when a man got stabbed by his psycho wife, you'll be screaming women are evil. FYI, evil knows no gender, in this particular case, the evil one is the man. Deal with it! 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by Icon79(m): 8:22pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
The best response so far! Brain and beauty!! O pari Elis49: 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by londoner: 8:23pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Hector09: I'm a woman actually. It does not help that society encourages the situation where a woman is in fact risking her life simply by staying in her own home. She is probably also trying to protect his reputation but at the same time paying with her emotional and physical peace. That's what abused people do. Have you spoken to your mum, I mean all of your siblings if you are all of the same mind that she should leave or at least separate. Does she know that she is not letting you down by leaving? Your dad' s core belief may just be that no matter what she is 'just' a woman and below him so the are truth may be that he is INCAPABLE of respecting her. How many of our aunties, mother's, sisters or daughters have this same tale to tell? How many have to be scared, destroyed or killed before it becomes unacceptable? African society just has to do better. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by anigbajumo(m): 8:23pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Lomprico2: Second comment nd seeing here to beat his father. Morally, culturally even religiously is very wrong no matter wat. |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by pweetiedee(m): 8:26pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
emusmithy: What do you mean by Divorce is a no no? what is too late? Don't you read the news? Don't you know how many stories about wife killing husband and husband killing wife? Divorce is not too late. I just pity ops mum. I hope the man doesn't end up killing her. |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by londoner: 8:27pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
anigbajumo: Let someone come and start beating my mum, I will beat them with all my might. In that situation culture and religion can f*ck off. They are the CAUSE of it in the first place. |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by mastermaestro(m): 8:27pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Gracious10: May the LORD give you strength to pull through in JESUS' name.
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Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by Icon79(m): 8:28pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Thank you, my dear. I laugh each time I see naija people trying to put themselves in other people's marriage. Only the TWO people involved (along with their God) know what's going on their marriage! Hence, it's best to keep yourself out of it. And if you must intervene, ensure that you hear BOTH sides of the story!! O pari alignacademy: |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by anigbajumo(m): 8:30pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
londoner: Bro,someone is different from ur father.You can't beat ur father coz of ur mum..Reason it again, it is very wrong... |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by mastermaestro(m): 8:31pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
alignacademy: Someone is recounting a firsthand ordeal, while you are here posing preposterous questions.
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Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by Icon79(m): 8:31pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
My friend, marriage is complicated. You may thing you've got it all figured out but you've absolutely no idea. O pari Gracious10: |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by Elis49(f): 8:32pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Icon79: |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by Icon79(m): 8:33pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
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Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by Hector09(m): 8:35pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
anigbajumo:but if ur dad kill ur mum is it nt an abomination, cus i knew how many women that ve gone six fit cus of this singular act |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by benabbey(m): 8:43pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Get a video record of any assault on your mom. And make a back up on the cloud storage. Send the video to him and tell him all the world we see their Pastor battering his wife. Also sit him down that if he ever bit your mom again you will defend her. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by ModsWillKillNL: 8:45pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
hollamanng: An ifayemi can never be responsible. Many Matthews are fake! |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by cherriex(f): 8:47pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Memories12411: You are right and again the little I understand from this issue is a case scenario of a man marrying for love in the eighties,now more educated, more exposed and sophisticated, d problem is He upgraded alone and now in a modern world, with posh pastors and their eloquent wives all around, He's now ashamed of His wife,wishing she is as presentable, educated, and eloquent as the rest, Of course instead of upgrading or just continues to accept her the way she is, He resents her, and resentment leads to abuse, because clearly He needs more and she's in d way and as a pastor he can't easily replace her. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by juman(m): 8:48pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
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Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by hollamanng(m): 8:50pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
ModsWillKillNL: Sir/ma Lol I don't know what to say I wish I can see you and talk one on one I will tell you things you don't know |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by daddio(m): 8:51pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Ayo4251: CONGRATULATIONS O. INCASE NOBODY GAVE YOU ANY GIFT FOR THIS I HAVE SOME GIFTS FOR YOU
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