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For Those Who Have Lost Their Mother How Did You Cope by Fareedadey: 4:44am On Dec 07, 2017
im 23

i feel like dying
Re: For Those Who Have Lost Their Mother How Did You Cope by BTT(m): 5:50am On Dec 07, 2017
Fareedadey:
im 23

i feel like dying

I lost my mum last year June. I am 37 and still get teary whenever I think about her or remember her favourite songs.

May God give you the fortitude to bear the loss.

I advise that you stay around loved ones. But generally, I think time we take care of the healing.

Pele.

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Re: For Those Who Have Lost Their Mother How Did You Cope by Miarose: 6:56am On Dec 07, 2017
Pepe. I was 8 when I lost my mum. It was as if perpetual darkness descended into my life. I know I would have been a different person now if my mum was alive. My only hope now is to meet her in heaven. And live long for my kids.

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Re: For Those Who Have Lost Their Mother How Did You Cope by tunbosun002(f): 7:39am On Dec 07, 2017
I lost my mum January dis year and it hasn't been easy moving on, I still see her in my dreams tho.

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Re: For Those Who Have Lost Their Mother How Did You Cope by emmanuel1990(m): 7:46am On Dec 07, 2017
Fareedadey:
im 23

i feel like dying
i lost my dad when i was 7 yrs then 3 yrs later my mum also died.

so from the age of ten i was already an orphan, and beeing the first son of the house, it has nt been funny at all..

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Re: For Those Who Have Lost Their Mother How Did You Cope by Fareedadey: 10:14am On Dec 07, 2017
Do any of you feel like your enemies are rejoicing
Re: For Those Who Have Lost Their Mother How Did You Cope by tayo60(f): 4:12pm On Dec 07, 2017
I lost mine last year. It has not been easy at all. When I think of her, I shed tears. Her memory still lingers on. cry
Re: For Those Who Have Lost Their Mother How Did You Cope by Yemiie: 8:50am On Dec 08, 2017
Wow. I pray you get strength to bear it all.
So sorry.
Re: For Those Who Have Lost Their Mother How Did You Cope by emmanuel1990(m): 6:22pm On Dec 08, 2017
Fareedadey:
Do any of you feel like your enemies are rejoicing
the enemies really rejoiced then, bt now the reverse is the case, thank God for mountain of fire.

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Re: For Those Who Have Lost Their Mother How Did You Cope by Fareedadey: 9:06pm On Dec 08, 2017
emmanuel1990:
the enemies really rejoiced then, bt now the reverse is the case, thank God for mountain of fire.

But where was God when your mum died how do u still have faith
Re: For Those Who Have Lost Their Mother How Did You Cope by aliuj: 10:09pm On Dec 08, 2017
l lost my mum Oct this year,to think that she died in my presence is what I can never forget.it is so painful I must tell you.
Re: For Those Who Have Lost Their Mother How Did You Cope by Safiaa(f): 10:56pm On Dec 08, 2017
aliuj:
l lost my mum Oct this year,to think that she died in my presence is what I can never forget.it is so painful I must tell you.
It is well. She's in a better place, take it easy.
Re: For Those Who Have Lost Their Mother How Did You Cope by Fareedadey: 11:28pm On Dec 08, 2017
aliuj:
l lost my mum Oct this year,to think that she died in my presence is what I can never forget.it is so painful I must tell you.

What happened
Re: For Those Who Have Lost Their Mother How Did You Cope by Divay22(f): 11:31pm On Dec 08, 2017
aliuj:
l lost my mum Oct this year,to think that she died in my presence is what I can never forget.it is so painful I must tell you.
Sorry about that.
Re: For Those Who Have Lost Their Mother How Did You Cope by aliuj: 11:37pm On Dec 08, 2017
Fareedadey:

What happened
she was diabetic.
Re: For Those Who Have Lost Their Mother How Did You Cope by Divay22(f): 11:45pm On Dec 08, 2017
I must confess y'all are strong..i just don't wanna imagine what life will seems like without my mum, sometimes even if i forget to pray for myself, praying for her is what has turned into one of my hobbies...

It's sad to loss a love one.. I remember when my mum called me from the hospital (Oct) that my grandpa is dead, the hunger that was almost making me furious instantly vanished and tears took over..i felt it...

It is my ernest prayer that God will hold y'all tight and give you the grace to bear your lost and keep looking at the bright and positive side of life..... TO BE SINCERE I ADMIRE YOU ALL...
JUST TRUST HIM

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Re: For Those Who Have Lost Their Mother How Did You Cope by Fareedadey: 1:54am On Dec 09, 2017
aliuj:
she was diabetic.

How old u and she
Re: For Those Who Have Lost Their Mother How Did You Cope by emmanuel1990(m): 3:03am On Dec 09, 2017
Fareedadey:


But where was God when your mum died how do u still have faith
i wish i can explain all, this world is been controled by unseen forces, my grand mum was an idol worshiper, so in the year 1995 she decided to quit worshiping the marine spirit, that was when the battle started, all her 11 children including my father died mysteriouly, and my dad was the only one that married b4 he died, the other 10 did nt marry, so after the death of my parents i had no option, bt to leave the village i have been to so many places, as a house boy, sales boy, waiter, driver and so on, bt there was a turn around when i gave my life to christ, those snake will come to attack me in my dream, bt i will always kill them, bt once in a while they will succedel in biting me, and anytime that happens, i will be feeling the movement in my body, if i should remove my clothes even u will see some strange movement, bt after fasting and prayer i will see myself vomiting some things in my dreams, and after that the movement will stop. it will be foolishness for me to believe that the 11 children of my grand mum that died was jst normal.. and for me to still be alive till today it's nt by my power.. i am even planning going to SCOAN once i have money..

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Re: For Those Who Have Lost Their Mother How Did You Cope by emmanuel1990(m): 3:04am On Dec 09, 2017
Fareedadey:


But where was God when your mum died how do u still have faith
i wish i can explain all, this world is been controled by unseen forces, my grand mum was an idol worshiper, so in the year 1995 she decided to quit worshiping the marine spirit, that was when the battle started, all her 11 children including my father died mysteriouly, and my dad was the only one that married b4 he died, the other 10 did nt marry, so after the death of my parents i had no option, bt to leave the village i have been to so many places, as a house boy, sales boy, waiter, driver and so on, bt there was a turn around when i gave my life to christ, those snake will come to attack me in my dream, bt i will always kill them, bt once in a while they will succedel in biting me, and anytime that happens, i will be feeling the movement in my body, if i should remove my clothes even u will see some strange movement, bt after fasting and prayer i will see myself vomiting some things in my dreams, and after that the movement will stop. it will be foolishness for me to believe that the 11 children of my grand mum that died was jst normal.. and for me to still be alive till today it's nt by my power.. i am even planning going to SCOAN once i have money...
Re: For Those Who Have Lost Their Mother How Did You Cope by ImaIma1(f): 5:23am On Dec 09, 2017
I lost my mum last year. It is a terrible thing to lose a parent. I cried all the way to the hospital. The funny and interesting thing is that my daughter was born this year on the exact date my mum passed on...just a year after. I miss my mum but this girl is just a huge blessing.

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Re: For Those Who Have Lost Their Mother How Did You Cope by FloraEC(f): 8:29am On Dec 09, 2017
Fareedadey:


But where was God when your mum died how do u still have faith

We'll all die one day, ash we're and ash we shall return. Things happen for a reason so in every situation give thanks to God. If you don't believe in Him then accept the fact that nature took it's course and move on and stop blaming God. Men of Old also died, Abraham, Issac, Jacob and e.t.c even Jesus Christ also died. So nobody, I mean nobody is above death cos death is a respecter of no-one.

You lost your mom at 23 and you're blaming God and feel like dying, what of me that lost mine at 10 nko. Motherless and those that lost theirs at childbirth have they all died? For how long will you blame God? Infinity? This world is not our home, we're mere visitors.

Shalom

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Re: For Those Who Have Lost Their Mother How Did You Cope by emmanuel1990(m): 8:43am On Dec 09, 2017
Fareedadey:


But where was God when your mum died how do u still have faith
it's a very long story..
Re: For Those Who Have Lost Their Mother How Did You Cope by PrinceCEE(m): 12:58pm On Dec 09, 2017
ImaIma1:
I lost my mum last year. It is a terrible thing to lose a parent. I cried all the way to the hospital. The funny and interesting thing is that my daughter was born this year on the exact date my mum passed on...just a year after. I miss my mum but this girl is just a huge blessing.

Those who believe in incarnation will most probably say that your mum came back to you...

Fareedadey:
im 23

i feel like dying

It's not easy losing a loved one. I cried a river when I saw my uncle in the casket, it worsened when he was being lowered to the grave.

A friend's sister died in my arms in the hospital. I watched all the scenes that played and still remember each line. I lost all tears in me to internal bleeding.
How much more ones mum?
I was roughly 7 when our only girl, my very first sister died around 5am. I still remember every scene that played and how I cried and fell sick almost the next two days.
You see, guy, everyone's got a story to tell and most a times, I don't blame most atheists because they couldn't contain what befell them.
But in all, God still reigns in His majesty. Most times, I think I'm more of a deist.
You've got to be strong. Things will always get better...

May your beloved mum rest in peace...

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Re: For Those Who Have Lost Their Mother How Did You Cope by khome(f): 1:59pm On Dec 09, 2017
ImaIma1:
I lost my mum last year. It is a terrible thing to lose a parent. I cried all the way to the hospital. The funny and interesting thing is that my daughter was born this year on the exact date my mum passed on...just a year after. I miss my mum but this girl is just a huge blessing.
Iyabo

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Re: For Those Who Have Lost Their Mother How Did You Cope by Nobody: 3:20pm On Dec 09, 2017
At least you grew up with your mum, I lost my mum at a tender age, I don't even know how she looked like, they keep telling me I look like her, all I have is her pictures, it also had a psychological effect on me, due to I grew up without her, it made me to not know what motherly love is, though I had fatherly love and it also makes me feel uncomfortable whenever am with other people's mum and elderly women, I always feel like am not doing it right and have this fear when am with them.
Re: For Those Who Have Lost Their Mother How Did You Cope by Viking007(m): 6:22pm On Dec 09, 2017
emmanuel1990:
i wish i can explain all, this world is been controled by unseen forces, my grand mum was an idol worshiper, so in the year 1995 she decided to quit worshiping the marine spirit, that was when the battle started, all her 11 children including my father died mysteriouly, and my dad was the only one that married b4 he died, the other 10 did nt marry, so after the death of my parents i had no option, bt to leave the village i have been to so many places, as a house boy, sales boy, waiter, driver and so on, bt there was a turn around when i gave my life to christ, those snake will come to attack me in my dream, bt i will always kill them, bt once in a while they will succedel in biting me, and anytime that happens, i will be feeling the movement in my body, if i should remove my clothes even u will see some strange movement, bt after fasting and prayer i will see myself vomiting some things in my dreams, and after that the movement will stop. it will be foolishness for me to believe that the 11 children of my grand mum that died was jst normal.. and for me to still be alive till today it's nt by my power.. i am even planning going to SCOAN once i have money..
Hmmm.
Re: For Those Who Have Lost Their Mother How Did You Cope by Viking007(m): 6:28pm On Dec 09, 2017
One of my greatest fear is losing a parent. sad
Re: For Those Who Have Lost Their Mother How Did You Cope by Destinygrl(f): 11:27pm On Dec 09, 2017
l lost my mum in may this year watching her passing on is the hardest thing I have ever gone thorough.
she opened her eyes turned her head to my direction and passed on, I think she was waiting for me to come and so she cld say her goodbye that look and gasp has stick to my brain
I saw her several times in my dreams and always in a good place I'm doing my best to make heaven and meet up with her and all loved ones

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Re: For Those Who Have Lost Their Mother How Did You Cope by Nobody: 6:08pm On Dec 10, 2017
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Re: For Those Who Have Lost Their Mother How Did You Cope by Ashraf123(f): 11:13pm On Dec 10, 2017
I lost mine few mnths to my wedding, dat was last year. It's really painful but someone has to move on. I believe they are in better place now. May Allah grant both my mum and dad aljanatul firdaus

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