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Things To Consider Before Dating An Older Partner by jannydear(f): 1:01pm On Dec 27, 2017
Researchers have studied the age gap difference in relationships and have found that, there’s no conclusive answer that applies to all couples. If you are attracted to someone older or your than you and wondering if a relationship will work out, the truth is, there are many factors that could help your relationship overcome an age difference or even benefit from it. Let’s look at the following guideline questions that can offer direction in the best choice to make:
How well do you connect?
You may likely feel the cultural dissimilarities that exist between generations if the age difference between couples is wide. The movies, music, and popular cultural bearings may vary, weakening your connection. However, if you have a strong foundation based on other factors, the age difference might essentially rouse more interest and engagement with each other.

Do[b] you assume particular roles based on the age difference? [/b]
It’s vital to be cognizant of any prejudices you have about each other based on your differences in age. That a partner is older doesn’t mean they would be wiser and also, a younger partner on the contrary might not be overly open to adventure. Or, if you do fit each other’s expectations based on age, are you open to the changes that might come with time? As time passes, the younger partner might not want a mentor and the older partner might grow bored of not being challenged.
Do your life goals match up?
Both partners may have the same mindset now, but your future stages of life might not match up. Some goals, such as the desire to travel or have kids, might contrast based on age difference. So, it can help to know your current and future goals.
Are you willing to adapt to the physical changes that comes with aging?
Aging does not only affect the physical outlook, but also affects your partner emotionally. This might leave a much younger partner handling age-related issues such as less physical stamina or more physical health problems – long before they need to face those concerns for themselves.
Should you pursue the relationship or move on?
The best decision of how to cope with an huge age difference in a relationship is a very personal one. Remember that the difference in your ages as just one aspect to be considered in your relationship. So weigh it along with all the other aspects of your relationship, and then pick what’s best for you.

Source: http://www.healthdiary365.com/2017/12/27/things-to-consider-before-dating-an-older-partner/

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