I've had challenging experiences in life. I can boldly say that I'm not where I had envisaged to be at 34, yes its a number you'd expect some certain degree of stability, but mine is totally not true. Before you blame me of laziness and not being proactive, I came to back to nja after making marriage plans and decision to start a busines.... long and short is that the car hire and logistics business crashed I lost my relationship but I somehow weathered the storm and kept hustling and empowering myself with lots of certification that has to do with oil and gas. As you know this courses are capital intensive With expiry date... as I speak a few has expired. I've picked up menial jobs that is far below where I can maximally express what I'm capable of. I feel stocked.... like im on a standstill. I reluctantly picked up insurance work that stress the hell out of me after my masters back in 2016. People. I have hustled, tried my hands in everything like driving taxi, laundry etc. As I speak I have admission in The US but no sponsor. My financial situation have made me almost become a laughing stock amongst friends and worst even within my family as I had to return to putting up with my parents, yes! I'm with my parents!! I've lost countable jobs after interviews,some telling me my qualifications are too much, while some bcoz lack of God father and you know how labout market employers attach interest on age limit. Let me quickly say I'm a believing and preyerful person, but at this point I'm losing it, as I write I'm home alone ... I'm withdrawn and hardly go out. Recently I started nuring this evil though that it could actually be better if I end it to find rest away from this world but my inner person calls me to order. I Hardly concentrate, I'm bipolar and have lost uncountable number of relationships, which I won't blame the ladies involved... yes, who would want to associate with a person in my situation. I've done everything wishing my powers hence this thread. I desperately need urgent help, job, a psychologist, Or counselor anybody

Don't be too harsh on yourself. Take life easy. Life itself is in phases.



If you're a Christian you suppose to have read the advice of the Lord,, ' by worry you cannot add a cubit to your height.'

I was in your shoes before. Attached to a neurosurgeon in UCH. Then counselled, and after getting married, things changed.
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My pastor always warned me then not to make myself a nervous wreckage. So I warn you now.

Count t your blessings

Thank God any time you want go feel bad.

During my own, I MADE a bead for counting thank you Jesus (just to concentrate not a rule). I say it about a thousand times at a goal, then gradually I came out of it.

Now I am happy. Married at 35, to a beautiful woman with lovely children.


Gradually my dreams are unfolding. ...


You dreams will surely come true.

MightySparrow:
Don't be too harsh on yourself. Take life easy. Life itself is in phases.



If you're a Christian you suppose to have read the advice of the Lord,, ' by worry you cannot add a cubit to your height.'

I was in your shoes before. Attached to a neurosurgeon in UCH. Then counselled, and after getting married, things changed.
..
My pastor always warned me then not to make myself a nervous wreckage. So I warn you now.

Count t your blessings

Thank God any time you want go feel bad.

During my own, I MADE a bead for counting thank you Jesus (just to concentrate not a rule). I say it about a thousand times at a goal, then gradually I came out of it.

Now I am happy. Married at 35, to a beautiful woman with lovely children.


Gradually my dreams are unfolding. ...


You dreams will surely come true.

He just nailed it, time to get closer to your God. Only God alone can change your situation.