OceanmorganTrix:
Have you spoken to BABA about this??

Peachess:
There's nothing wrong with their relationship, she's cold towards you cos she's jealous of the attention she'll stop getting cos of you. And maybe she sees you as a threat that'll ruin the relationship (normal uncle niece relationship) she has with her uncle. You're doing exactly that by assuming she likes him more than a uncle. Your imagination is just sick to be honest, gush! Only a weird person will have such an imagination.

NihinlolaTenny:




n who says it's wired?
isn't it this generation that we're in?
Abeg cut the crab
it happens and with most of the things you guys we read/hear about nothing should be overlooked.


a sixteen year old(in this generation) is old enough to stop playing or fiddling with her uncle's hair.

nothing should be overlooked
if you're not comfortable with it speak to your man, that's why he's your man.
even if nothing is fishing she shouldn't be encouraged to go ahead with all the attitude of a thing.

Peachess:

Except she got married to a sick man who'll have a sexual relationship with his niece he's 14 years older than, then there's nothing to be worried about. I hate it when some women just come into a family and try to destroy the lovely relationship in the family.
You don't know how close they were before she met him, it could be she looked up to him as a child and she still do at 16. Give her time, she'll stop.

NihinlolaTenny:


it is not in your place to tell her to give her time, for crying out loud the bride herself is just 20 while the girl is 16

the niece is no longer a SMALL GIRL
n if she ISN'T COMFORTABLE with the whole thing she should talk it out with HER HUSBAND before things get out of hand and she runs back here to share her plight.

abi what do you want?
for things to go wrong n she runs back here to cry abi, I definitely don't want that for her.

if her husband finds something of such nature he isn't comfortable with between her and her nephew, I would also encourage him to talk about it.

the most important thing is for her to be mindful of how she presents it, so it wouldn't sound like an accusation.

A SIXTEEN YEAR OLD GIRL ISN'T TO YOUNG TO KNOW HER DARLING UNCLE HAS A WIFE NOW.

I'm sure she knows what crush/infatuation is that is even if she doesn't know beyond all those . n I'm sure she knows what being married is


you're even off point Mr. man
what has the fourteen years age difference has to do with this
are you in this present generation at all

you only know about yourself
so Pls cut the CRAB.
THEY DONT WRITE IT ONTOP FIREHEAD!

Peachess:

Dude, I'm not a man maybe you're too blind with accusations to see the 'f' besides my moniker..
I happen to come from a family with lots of males and I wouldn't want any woman to break the love in my family because of her unnecessary insecurities. If her husband is not a pervert that'll be attracted to his own niece then there nothing to be worried about.
If she likes she should drive her husband's niece out of the house because of her insecurities. If her husband is like that, he'll still cheat on her

NihinlolaTenny:


all I know is if she is not comfortable with it
she has the right to talk to her man about it especially when it comes to giving attitudes
Abeg I have uncles that I love dearly too n I even encourage them to be good to their wives not feeling jealous that they're with with their women.
cos I don't understand you o
the niece is not a 3year old wake up
everything has limits

Peachess:

Dude, I'm not a man maybe you're too blind with accusations to see the 'f' besides my moniker..
I happen to come from a family with lots of males and I wouldn't want any woman to break the love in my family because of her unnecessary insecurities. If her husband is not a pervert that'll be attracted to his own niece then there nothing to be worried about.
If she likes she should drive her husband's niece out of the house because of her insecurities, it's none of my business (cos it's not my family). If her husband is like that, he'll still cheat on her.

Peachess:

Well, that's your business and her business not mine. She's new to the family and should be making friends and not enemies. What happened to trying to be close to her? What are you waiting for? Drive her out, including every female member that comes visiting cos they'll have an affair with your husband. Maybe that kind of behavior is common in your family that's why you harbour such thoughts. I don't fucking care, please stop quoting me already..
#bye