A friend confided in me
His wife earns 100k while he earns 83k because of loans monthly
Now he is trying to raise money for accommodation
He has saved 150k and needs extra 100k
Challenge :
He has to pay school fees for his daugther and balance money oweing for furniture for the house from his feb and march salary
He didn't ask his wife for support but she seem to be quiet about his predicament and leave him to sort himself and raise money by himself for the rent
Thou she uses her money to buy things for her daugther sometimes

His expectations:
he expects her to have put heads with him and if possible opt to save from her salary to augument the the remaining balance or save up something to support(20k monthly for 3months)

Married women in the house is that the general attitude of some in marriage not to plan side by side with their husband
Or is it the psyche of a woman to expect her husband to pay the rent, pay for kid's fees and all as against planning with him?

Nigeria lady believe once you marry them, you are the one to take care of every bills even to be fuelling her car to her own working place. 9ja women should change that mentality .