You’ve seen all the memes about African parents yh? Well, they’re all true so that’s not what I want to talk about today.

When did it occur to you that you’ve really grown especially in the eyes of your parents? Mine happened to be a series of events but I think the best was winning an argument with my dad.

This happened right after my NYSC period in 2016. I left Abuja in November back home to Lagos but before I left, I had already informed him I’d be travelling to Uyo for the holidays and he didn’t object. So I came back home, spent 2 weeks and was planning my trip to Uyo and this man switched everything up on me, he even tried to guilt trip me into feeling like a bad daughter for not wanting to be with the family during the festivities. Saying I was upset would be an understatement, I was livid and as always, I shut down, didn’t speak to anyone, was in my room 20 hours of everyday, basically type A passive aggressive bitch ...read more @https://olliealley./2018/02/07/grown-woman/