Will Smith drops wisdom gems every once in a while via his Instagram account and he recently dropped another about a lesson he learned about love.

This lesson, he revealed, was taught to him by his wife of 20 years, actress Jada Pinkett Smith. Will asked Jada about one of the biggest revelations that she’s had about love and he shared her answer for another IG sermon. Jada told Will that her biggest revelation about love has been that the pursuit of happiness isn't found in what your partner can do for you but what you can do for yourself to better your relationship.

"You cannot make a person happy," he began. "You can make a person smile, you can make a person feel good, you can make a person laugh but whether or not a person is happy deeply, totally and utterly out of your control."

He continued: "I remember the day I retired. I said to Jada, 'I retire, I retire from trying to make you happy. I need you to go make yourself happy and just prove to me that it's even possible.' After we cracked the hell up, we started talking about it and we came into this false romantic concept that somehow when we got married, we would become one. We realized that we were two completely separate people on two completely separate, individual journeys and that we were choosing to walk separate journeys, together.

"Her happiness was her responsibility and my happiness was my responsibility and we decided that we were going to find our individual internal, private joy and then we keep going ", Speaking on why she no longer acts the romance filled movies since she got married, she said it is due to the fact that her husband does not like it and she has to please her husband.

When asked by an interviewer how she settles her dispute with the husband she said;

“When I offend my husband, I jump on his body and he laughs. I may also write a message and paste it at the back of our daughter purity’s back. Honestly the man is tired of my pranks.” read more entertaining news @@@ http://gistsala.com/will-smith-says-isnt-responsible-making-wife-jada-happy