Lalas247:


So ?

Still needs to check his sperm count , quality of sperm too
This is the issue with some uneducated men.... they think it’s always the woman’s fault .. they will never go and check if they also have the issue
Drinking, smoking, wearing tight boxers , drugs you take all sort can make a man have low sperm count which would make it difficukg for the lady in question to conceive

Also once they check all that out and neither have no issues she may just need her womb tightened or an IVF procedure ...

Lalas247:



Thanks so much, you nailed it. Especially where you mentioned "this is the problem with un-educated men". They are silly people and so unreasonable, yet, they believe they are the wisest.

So ?

Still needs to check his sperm count , quality of sperm too
This is the issue with some uneducated men.... they think it’s always the woman’s fault .. they will never go and check if they also have the issue
Drinking, smoking, wearing tight boxers , drugs you take all sort can make a man have low sperm count which would make it difficukg for the lady in question to conceive

Also once they check all that out and neither have no issues she may just need her womb tightened or an IVF procedure ...

whiteseed:
Wat are d doctors saying d problem is?

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
@Brightforyou, Ask her to blend banana, milk and a tablespoon of baking soda. She should take it after her period. If possible the man should also take it as it improves sperm count.

BrightForYou:


Thank you very much sister. The only problem is that her hubby does not want to co-operate anymore. But we'll still consider your prescription. Thanks.

BrightForYou:


He has two children already,from his ex- wife.

BrightForYou:


He has two children already,from his ex- wife.

BrightForYou:
My baby sister will be 26 in two weeks. Her marriage will be 4 yrs this month, but she has pregnancy issues. They have tried several means (medicals, prayers, and herbals etc) to solve the problem but all to no avail. She would cry and get depressed on many occassions and I always try to calm and tell her words of hope... Fastforward, the poor girl called me on phone this morning, crying, I was so scared. She told me her hubby said he's set to marry another wife,as he has always threatened, and he vowed nothing is gonna stop him this time. I felt so bad but I managed to consoled her and let us meet today after work. My people, what do you think I should do? I don't wanna interfere into her marriage but then she's my immediate younger sister, she's gone through alot already, what if somethin unpleasant happens to her as a result of depressn or even rivalry clash? Pls, experienced ones should advise.

Theyoungmatron:
Take your sister away from that environment fast.
That man does not deserve her. Imagine the pressure he is pushing her to, maybe that's why his ex wife ran away from him.



Get your sister away fast

whiteseed:
Pls do..Tell her not to hide anything from u.If its a physical issue,one can know how to tackle it.

Prognose:

Is your sister the reason he left his ex-wife and two children?

bukatyne:


Why did a young lady of 22 who is at her prime of choosing a mate settle for a divorcee with 2 kids? At that age, men of all creed would be at her beck and call.

@issue: have they gone for tests? There is something called secondary infertility and having ten kids prior doesn't mean the person is fertile now. It is also possible that his ex-wife's kids are not his.

For man who has 2 kids prior, he is too worried and desperate to think a second wife.

For a girl of 22 to marry a divorcee with two kids, there is something wrong.

@Solution:
1. Confirm what ended the first marriage
2. Press your sister well to find out if she had any known and undisclosed issues with her reproductive health prior to her marriage.

The answers will determine the next steps.

WilsonMayowa:

Send me a pm

BrightForYou:


He has two children already,from his ex- wife.

ladycomfort:
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She married another person husband

ladycomfort:
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She married another person husband

BrightForYou:

ladycomfort:
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BrightForYou:


miss, is he your husband

ladycomfort:
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No... I don't do divorcee