Help! My Husband Wants to Divorce me because I am not a Virgin

Hello friends,

Please, I want you to help my friend.

She is currently in a big trouble and if she doesn’t take care of her marriage of two weeks, it will crash.

It all happened that she lied to her fiance then (now husband) that she is a virgin.

According to her, she said that when they first met one of the questions her husband (then fiance) asked was if she was a virgin and because she saw the serious look on him and she didn’t want to lose him, she lied.

When I asked her why she lied, she said that when her husband eventually finds out in marriage, she would beg her husband for forgiveness.

But things did not work out as she had planned for her husband has given her 7 days ultimatum to pack out.

Everyone has begged her husband including me but he didn’t listen to our pleading. He believed that if she can come up with such big lie then she is capable of killing him one day.

Now, a marriage of just two weeks after 2 years courtship is about to crash.

Please, friends, I need your advice on this issue

https://dailyfamily.ng/help-husband-wants-divorce-not-virgin/

...two years courtship without testing the engine

why lie? you broke his trust and without trust there is nothing to build on, not even friendship.... if he can't forgive & let go of the hurt, let him find happiness and trust elsewhere

kuku talk say na you be de lady. what's the pretence about? Anyway, continue the apology, he will listen soon.

Plenty of fish in the sea. She shouldn't have lied though, that's trickery. I understand why the husband is angry, she was deceitful. She should just get a divorce & then go interracial Men from other races are less judgemental about divorce. They're accepting, intellectual, logical & of course gorgeous Out with the flintstone, in with quality men with brain

abeg make I hear word .... him na virginnhe be!!!

gabinogem:
...two years courtship without testing the engine

she been dey repair de engine because e spoil wewell, so time com pass, she no wan waste time to give the mech man to test, she just drive am like dat, go meet the owner.

XhosaNostra:
Plenty of fish in the sea. She shouldn't have lied though, that's trickery. I understand why the husband is angry, she was deceitful. She should just get a divorce & then go interracial Men from other races are less judgemental about divorce. They're accepting, intellectual, logical & of course gorgeous Out with the flintstone, in with quality men with brain

Really?

I know some people(ladies) will still come here to derail this thread with their sentiments ,forgetting the bone of contention. The issue here is not about the lady not being a virgin, it's about the trust. How can you deceive a guy for two years, deprived the taste of that nunu in his salivating moments.Do you know the kind of konjition the guy endure in the two years of their relationship? I can only imagine the thoughts going through the guys mind now like " how many guys the girl must have bleeped in the past two years " shit is very painful I Swear.

Your (friend's) husband isn't divorcing you because you're not a virgin. He's divorcing you because you lied and deceived him. So that adds "dishonest" to your lack of chastity; and if he could have gotten over the fact that you weren't a virgin, a liar is a much harder pill to swallow because it's an ongoing situation: once one, always one. It'll be hard to trust you again. That's not a good start to your ever after.

Women should stop working themselves into these tight corners. If you aren't a virgin, own it. Don't be ashamed about it; don't lie about it; don't apologize for it. Not every guy out there prioritizes virginity over everything else. know your selling-point, nurture it, and be sure it is genuine. And then, know your market.

Telsa:
Really?

About?

MissWrite:
Your (friend's) husband isn't divorcing you because you're not a virgin. He's divorcing you because you lied and deceived him. So that adds "dishonest" to your lack of chastity; and if he could have gotten over the fact that you weren't a virgin, a liar is a much harder pill to swallow because it's an ongoing situation: once one, always one. It'll be hard to trust you again. That's not a good start to your ever after.

Women should stop working themselves into these tight corners. If you aren't a virgin, own it. Don't be ashamed about it; don't lie about it; don't apologize for it. Not every guy out there prioritizes virginity over everything else. know your selling-point, nurture it, and be sure it is genuine. And then, know your market.

oh this is why I have remained a virgin, don't want wahala!
Are you a virgin like me?

XhosaNostra:
Plenty of fish in the sea. She shouldn't have lied though, that's trickery. I understand why the husband is angry, she was deceitful. She should just get a divorce & then go interracial Men from other races are less judgemental about divorce. They're accepting, intellectual, logical & of course gorgeous Out with the flintstone, in with quality men with brain

this is why I have remained a virgin too,to avoid all this wahala

XhosaNostra:
Plenty of fish in the sea. She shouldn't have lied though, that's trickery. I understand why the husband is angry, she was deceitful. She should just get a divorce & then go interracial Men from other races are less judgemental about divorce. They're accepting, intellectual, logical & of course gorgeous Out with the flintstone, in with quality men with brain

u also forgot to mention ur sweet interracia can easily stick a knife into ur guts in ur luxurious apartment when slightly depressed

Segzee1:
Help! My Husband Wants to Divorce me because I am not a Virgin

Hello friends,

Please, I want you to help my friend.

She is currently in a big trouble and if she doesn’t take care of her marriage of two weeks, it will crash.

It all happened that she lied to her fiance then (now husband) that she is a virgin.

According to her, she said that when they first met one of the questions her husband (then fiance) asked was if she was a virgin and because she saw the serious look on him and she didn’t want to lose him, she lied.

When I asked her why she lied, she said that when her husband eventually finds out in marriage, she would beg her husband for forgiveness.

But things did not work out as she had planned for her husband has given her 7 days ultimatum to pack out.

Everyone has begged her husband including me but he didn’t listen to our pleading. He believed that if she can come up with such big lie then she is capable of killing him one day.

Now, a marriage of just two weeks after 2 years courtship is about to crash.

Please, friends, I need your advice on this issue

https://dailyfamily.ng/help-husband-wants-divorce-not-virgin/

When u take marriage as it all in all it tends to be a problem

brownhawk:
u also forgot to mention ur sweet interracia can easily stick a knife into ur guts in ur luxurious apartment when slightly depressed

Imagine if that happened in a mud house, my soul would never rest in peace

You have a moot point because all men are capable of extreme violence. It's proven by the stories we read here daily. Chances of an interracial lover sacrificing you for rituals are zero. Most are made men, now that's a cherry on top

XhosaNostra:


Imagine if that happened in a mud house, my soul would never rest in peace

You have a moot point because all men are capable of extreme violence. It's proven by the stories we read here daily. Chances of an interracial lover sacrificing you for rituals are zero. Most are made men, now that's a cherry on top

lol where did u get these facts from .made men and all

XhosaNostra:
Plenty of fish in the sea. She shouldn't have lied though, that's trickery. I understand why the husband is angry, she was deceitful. She should just get a divorce & then go interracial Men from other races are less judgemental about divorce. They're accepting, intellectual, logical & of course gorgeous Out with the flintstone, in with quality men with brain

On point
Reminds me of the other thread the man obviously married her believing she was a virgin and not because he loves her
.I plan on marrying a Latino.

brownhawk:
lol where did u get these facts from .made men and all

I've lived, honey

XhosaNostra:


Imagine if that happened in a mud house, my soul would never rest in peace

You have a moot point because all men are capable of extreme violence. It's proven by the stories we read here daily. Chances of an interracial lover sacrificing you for rituals are zero. Most are made men, now that's a cherry on top

LMAO

LIAR!!!!!

Imagine the guy respecting this pig enough to wait until after the wedding to yansh her already disvirgined pûnani. What a pity!

Divorce her lying ass! No union should have its foundation built on lies. Maybe the guy wouldn't have cared if her pûssy has been made wider than the Grand Canyon

XhosaNostra:


I've lived, honey

in another sentence,u spent most of ur lifetime to sample and research interracial affairs??

MissWrite:
Your (friend's) husband isn't divorcing you because you're not a virgin. He's divorcing you because you lied and deceived him. So that adds "dishonest" to your lack of chastity; and if he could have gotten over the fact that you weren't a virgin, a liar is a much harder pill to swallow because it's an ongoing situation: once one, always one. It'll be hard to trust you again. That's not a good start to your ever after.

Women should stop working themselves into these tight corners. If you aren't a virgin, own it. Don't be ashamed about it; don't lie about it; don't apologize for it. Not every guy out there prioritizes virginity over everything else. know your selling-point, nurture it, and be sure it is genuine. And then, know your market.

Nice write-up

MissWrite:
Your (friend's) husband isn't divorcing you because you're not a virgin. He's divorcing you because you lied and deceived him. So that adds "dishonest" to your lack of chastity; and if he could have gotten over the fact that you weren't a virgin, a liar is a much harder pill to swallow because it's an ongoing situation: once one, always one. It'll be hard to trust you again. That's not a good start to your ever after.

Women should stop working themselves into these tight corners. If you aren't a virgin, own it. Don't be ashamed about it; don't lie about it; don't apologize for it. Not every guy out there prioritizes virginity over everything else. know your selling-point, nurture it, and be sure it is genuine. And then, know your market.

Well-said.

Hello, Misswrite. Been a while.

Ladyhippolyta88:

On point
Reminds me of the other thread the man obviously married her believing she was a virgin and not because he loves her
.I plan on marrying a Latino.

Telemundo kee you dia!

lie kee you there.

brownhawk:
in another sentence,u spent most of ur lifetime to sample and research interracial affairs??

Can't help it, they find me attractive

Tozara:
Well-said.

Hello, Misswrite. Been a while.

Awwww.......boy, I missed you! Where have you been?

UDUJ:


Nice write-up

Thank you.

Earthbound:


Telemundo kee you dia!

How on earth do you know I watch telemundo?
I plan on marrying Fabian Rios.

Martin0:


oh this is why I have remained a virgin, don't want wahala!
Are you a virgin like me?

Lol......

Yes, exactly like you. Me sef, no want wahala.