salbis:
Take it or leave it, not everyone born of woman will be rich. Just like our fingers are not equal, that is how our financial muscles are. The bottom line is, may God bless our hustle. Broke people suffer!

That's the sad d reality. It's not possible for everybody to be rich, it has been like that since time immemorial. Self contentment is key. Amen to your prayer

kenzysmith:
bet9ja have ruin me

take heart bro, you are not alone

Ra88:
Depends on your definition of being BROKE.

My money is my money, my gf should work for hers, I am nobody's ATM.

If all you have to offer is your Pussssy, all I got for you also is my Diclkk.... Full Stop!!!!

Ok let me just drop this here :
So I met a girl early last year. She’s technically a good/bad girl from a decent home.
A final year nursing student @ Abud young(20) an almost perfect body!! She’s sinfully pretty still graciously beautiful.
So got talking exchanging text and all and the first Proper question she asked was : - -was is it I do and am I stingy ?
And her first opinion about herself was :
- am high maintenance.
So a couple of weeks later I called and she was in a sad mood , her Aunty sent her Final year dinner gown and it was more like a cheap version of what she wanted , she cried and I tried to calm her down and promised I’ll see if I can come up with something.
From that moment our conversation changed!! She started blowing up my phone leaving sms if and when I don’t read or reply my chat ... meanwhile I was in Lag that weekend with D boo. She noticed I was ignoring some of my calls and was like Ife u are Hoeing again ba but we laughed about it ..
Monday I was back at work we did chat conversation went fine , we were flirting she was gisting me bout her ex and also the guy she’s shagging presently ( dude is from her church’ e is engaged so they are just shagging - infact it has happened just once according to her “lol’)
Next day she found someone in Akure who could make another dinner Gown for 40k and told me , I played cool told her I’d think about it. But then I figured it’s just 40k I can indulge her bla bla bla .
So everyday we basically flirt and talk about d 40k gown. Then she suggested she gets an exeat so she can come spend time with me in town then I’d take her to Akure for her measurement and then we can chill in Akure for the weekend.
In my head am already doing calculations hotel bills in Akure etc .
Friday I picked her up took her to the salon to loose her hair gave her cash for her nails left for the market to get stuffs to cook and then bought her drinks (she requested ) .
Friday night we made out had Fun and yea she’s good probably gave me the best Bj have had since 2006�
Next morning got a call from work... had to do little running around and the lady she’s suppose to meet in Akure had to travel . She became upset started giving me attitude and told me to drop her in school - Reason being : she would be bored at home and she was really looking forward to unwinding in Akure... but then her supposed engaged fuckbody called and she went to the room talked for a while argued and all so I knew something was up, I asked her wasup act like I was a bit angry we argued I dropped her back in school .
Her calls reduced she was also giving me attitude and she only talks to me when she wants to update me as regards d Dinner gown.
3days later she called and said her sub was out asked how much and she mentioned 5k!! I was irritated . I told her No then she mentioned she scheduled a meeting in Akure for friday bla bla bla that’s when I told her I don’t think I’ll be able to pay for the gown in full but I’d drop 20k and she can sort out the rest ... she cried sent me VN begged and even asked me to loan her ‘
Eventually I did not pay for the gown she got her airtime for data thou but technically stoped talking to me only for her to call a week later and asked if we would still be making our supposed trip to Lagos after her Dinner night Inagbe resort for a week lol .. I told her No and she flared up and said am stingy haha ...

Subconsciously I asked her : girl if your dad probably spent all the money e made at my age buying
Data :5k
Chicken republic drinks and cakes
Nail acrylics 4K
Gown 40k etc pretty much all the time I doubt e would be able to save enough let alone build a future for himself or even be able to afford sending you to a private University.
Girl you need a GeeBoy for a BF and I hung up
Boring story shey? I be they find who I go gist and I can’t tell D Boo lol

Ric Hassani Don buy Porsche for a girl before. Ode oshi

TheUpsetGirl1:
This would've if he made it a two way thing..
broke people, both ladies and guys shouldn't be in a relationship not only guys.


Make money not excuses but when you're done don't try using it to impress any Nigerian lady.

That's one thing I never did in my entire life despite never being broke cox I'm from a high class family.



Any man who makes money for the sole purpose of trying to impress a lady or getting her attention is a dead man still living.

U really hit the nail on the head with the last paragraph.

kenzysmith:
bet9ja have ruin me

but how?

TheUpsetGirl1:
This would've if he made it a two way thing..
broke people, both ladies and guys shouldn't be in a relationship not only guys.


Make money not excuses but when you're done don't try using it to impress any Nigerian lady.

That's one thing I never did in my entire life despite never being broke cox I'm from a high class family.

Any man who makes money for the sole purpose of trying to impress a lady or getting her attention is a dead man still living.

Any man who makes money for the sole purpose of trying to impress a lady or getting her attention is a dead man still living.

God bless you my nigga!

No be the same Ric hassani wey still dey try find hin bearing for the music industry, It will be advisable for him to stick his ass in churning out good music instead of trolling the real hustlers.

But shey the bros said that's his personal opinion na.

The money that u will use to provide and care for the girl and she Will still end up cheating on u and sleeping with all manner of men in town. Abi u think say rich men dem no dey cheat on dem? U are making ur money and working not cos u want to impress a woman but u want to be useful to society and be fulfilled as a man. Dat u have money and a big house is no guarantee dat a woman will be loyal to u.

Is it a crime to be broke? What if the girl loves you for other reasons and not becos of your bank account. Make we hear word abeg

abeg he is saying the truth jare....broke guys will hate dis ..

Ra88:
Depends on your definition of being BROKE.

My money is my money, my gf should work for hers, I am nobody's ATM.

If all you have to offer is your Pussssy, all I got for you also is my Diclkk.... Full Stop!!!!

well said

Very true!!!!

What's a broke person doing in a relationship? The energy invested in that relationship should be channeled to your goals and dreams.

When I mean broke, I mean not working.
Not someone who earns but earns little.

Someone who isn't earning anything atalllllllll not even 5k a month shouldn't be in a relationship , if your pen.is stands up. wait for it to lie down back.

A purposeful man is an attractive man, when you are not actively engaged in work how do you want to command respect?

this is for everyone except those that are still in the university

UBGG:


Love is not enough and neither is money.

Once, I left a young CEO for a struggling dude. The man could cure a clinically depressed person with his sense of humour and was as kind-hearted as they come.

If there's not one person out there willing to move past the fact that you're not there yet, maybe your attitude stinks.

Well, I don't have to drag words with U. It's your opinion and 100% your perception. We all come from different background, my situation is different from yours and that largely influences how we see life, what makes us Happy, what keeps us alive.
Aunty, each man to his own cabin biscuit and la casera

Thunder fire this guy, how much does he think he has that can be enough for a woman??

TheUpsetGirl1:
This would've if he made it a two way thing..
broke people, both ladies and guys shouldn't be in a relationship not only guys.


Make money not excuses but when you're done don't try using it to impress any Nigerian lady.

That's one thing I never did in my entire life despite never being broke cox I'm from a high class family.

Any man who makes money for the sole purpose of trying to impress a lady or getting her attention is a dead man still living.

You re a real man.

Rozaytee:
abeg he is saying the truth jare....broke guys will hate dis ..

Aunty how much do you have?? You think it's by selling your body to the highest bidder that makes you not to be a broke girl. Abeg shift. Girls that make real money will never call a man broke, I 've a colleague who earns half a million monthly she treats even the janitor with utmost respect.

LyfeJennings:
Well the guy is saying the truth
The only reason I'm yet to have a relationship is because I am not where I want to be
Love is just not enough

You think money keeps a woman?? You think you 're the only one who gives your woman Money?? Bottom line, do what's within your power even the Chioma that's a reference point is a hoe, most guys in her school has had her, no one rates her.

Pharaoh001:
SAY NO TO BROKE NIGGAS

And if you should check now, your father broke pass church rat

obentenyson:

And if you should check now, your father broke pass church rat

lmao....An empty barrel make hell of noise.full stop

Pharaoh001:

lmao....An empty barrel make hell of noise.full stop

don't derail my thread.
take your beef with him outside..

kingem:
what's with broke people shouldn't be in a relationship


thought Ric Hassani had sense..

Not only should broke people not be in a relationship. They also shouldn't be having sex.

Omo,broke people dey suffer o!
But still on still,May God bless our hustle!
I think say this Ric hassani get sense sha,but na big fool!

I don't think Ric Hass Ani sense. Mtchew

dominique:
Some people work very hard, sadly not all hard work translates to plenty money. That doesn't mean that they should be shamed because of it.

That's very true

It's a shame what our society has become

StaffofOrayan:
Do Nigerians even realize they are the poorest people in the world?

Poorest people in the world?

Will you gerrout

Ugosample:


That's very true

It's a shame what our society has become

Sadly a lot of young men are turning to crime because of this.

dominique:


Sadly a lot of young men are turning to crime because of this.

Yes o


Across Nigeria, and even outside, our men are on the hustle (mostly illegal stuff anyways) just to make the money, because the pressure is too much.

A society that evaluates a human's worth by his possessions is a shithole society.

dominique:
Some people work very hard, sadly not all hard work translates to plenty money. That doesn't mean that they should be shamed because of it.

I think you may be up to something.

Wealth-shaming is the word, right? We have to shame people who wealth-shame guys. They will never say this about a woman. Bloody misandrist.

TheLordIsGr8:


I think you may be up to something.

Wealth-shaming is the word, right? We have to shame people who wealth-shame guys. They will never say this about a woman. Bloody misandrist.

Very senseless post, who are you by the way? If you can't read and comprehend a 3-sentence post, kindly buzz the hell off my mentions.