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there's something I've noticed. I thrive better in my endeavours in life when I'm condemned or in trouble. Is this normal?


I'll explain further. If things are going smoothly, I become complacent but once I get into trouble, I feel bad and some how it brings out the good in me..


Sometimes, I wonder why I'm motivated better when I'm pitied, reprimanded or fall into trouble. I feel uneasy when praised. Who else feels this way?


Is it due to the fact that I was always scolded at childhood or I'm still being childish? I think it's one of the reasons why I post the kind of threads I make

Its human nature, you just need to break from it

Treasuredlove:
Its human nature, you just need to break from it

Hmm.. really? Coz I keep saying I'll change but find myself going back to the same thing after a little period of remorse

No you are normal, its natural but you have to strife to break barriers without been pushed.

CaptainStephen:
No you are normal, its natural but you have to strife to break barriers without been pushed.

hmm... I'll try because people (i, inclusive) are getting hurt by my actions. I hope to try apply premeditation.


If you don't mind, what do you reflect on to deter you from making some obnoxious decisions

you need to grow up man