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Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by fisayo02(m): 10:33pm On May 07, 2018
this one serious, in this 21st century
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Nobody: 10:35pm On May 07, 2018
Number of people viewing this thread is alarming, wat is doing all of you Na.
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by osusuallstars: 10:41pm On May 07, 2018
hmmm 8 hours drive from calabar to the remote village. that means from Aba to lagos. that means cross river is the largest state in Nigeria
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Nobody: 10:44pm On May 07, 2018
osusuallstars:
hmmm 8 hours drive from calabar to the remote village. that means from Aba to lagos. that means cross river is the largest state in Nigeria



Underate that state at your own peril.
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Nobody: 10:46pm On May 07, 2018
Fatherofdragons:
when did cross rivers become an igbo state? Codeine addict mtcheeeeewwwww
and when did I say it is Igbo state?

And when did I told u I'm a northerner
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Olumaeme: 11:05pm On May 07, 2018
As long as it's for money, there's nothing SS and SE people don't do
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by otunbadan(m): 11:18pm On May 07, 2018
ayourbamie:
This is barbaric. I'm sure there are churches and schools in that's LGA.

Maybe the pastors and teachers are even involved in the kind of dehumanising behaviour

You are an slowpoke
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by otunbadan(m): 11:19pm On May 07, 2018
ayourbamie:
This is barbaric. I'm sure there are churches and schools in that's LGA.

Maybe the pastors and teachers are even involved in the kind of dehumanising behaviour

You are an imb.e.cile
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by otunbadan(m): 11:22pm On May 07, 2018
This is actually something I was reading about yesterday... It's a major tribal group found at the boundary between Nigeria and Cameroon. The backwardness on this side of the world is practically unbelievable, the worst I have ever seen. These guys practically live in the mountains, and have very minimal contact with the outside world, it's a tradition that they where born into and know no better.
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Sagay212: 11:23pm On May 07, 2018
Lol...after some peoole go open mouth they yab kanye west, meanwhile slavery dey go on for their own backyard.

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Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by maestroferddi: 11:32pm On May 07, 2018
Nigerian journalism and sensationalim are 5 and 6.

I can bet my last bulk this report was exaggerated.

I am Cross River now and I can say that pepper, tatashe and salt have added to the cultural practice to attract readers.
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by ayourbamie: 11:37pm On May 07, 2018
otunbadan:

You are an slowpoke
Why
otunbadan:

You are an slowpoke
Why
otunbadan:

You are an slowpoke
Why

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Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Newboss(m): 11:44pm On May 07, 2018
Who is shocked? angry

This is basically the definition of marriage in Nigeria: buying of women! angry
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by otunbadan(m): 11:45pm On May 07, 2018
maestroferddi:
Nigerian journalism and sensationalim are 5 and 6.

I can bet my last bulk this report was exaggerated.

I am Cross River now and I can say that pepper, tatashe and salt have added to the cultural practice to attract readers.

It's a traditional thing my brother, I am in cross river and in that very community, the story is very true but they also share the same culture with akwaya district in the English speaking Cameroon...infact they have almost the same language and the thing is very real

https://mobile.camerounweb.com/CameroonHomePage/features/The-broken-lives-of-Akwaya-s-Money-Women-324762
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Newboss(m): 11:49pm On May 07, 2018
gists:

Speak for yourself. Maybe every woman in your life is a money woman.
I did not pay a dime for the love of my life. Her dad gladly and willingly handed her over to me amidst songs and merriment.
You didn't pay bride price or dowry or buy other items for the family? angry

Which state is the dad from? angry
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Optionalx: 12:38am On May 08, 2018
hmmm
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Truthcat: 1:13am On May 08, 2018
Not every woman, Yoruba women are not for sale, no money exchange hands in our marriages.
carpmam:
Every woman is a money woman because they were also bought by their respective husbands through bride price,the only difference here is that this people are doing theirs in an archaic way
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by KingMicky3286: 1:18am On May 08, 2018
CastedDude:
A Nigerian journalist, Imani MumZoe, has shared her experience after embarking on an investigate trip to Cross River state to uncover the "Money Marriage Practice'' under the platform of Channels TV. Money Marriage is an old traditional practice synonymous with the Becheve tribes in Obanliku Local Government Area of Cross River State, South South Nigeria where an elderly man buys a little girl for a wife.

Obanliku Local Government Area is situated in Northern Cross River State, approximately eight hours drive from Calabar the State Capital to access.

According to the journalist, the traditional practice is presently ongoing in a remote part of Cross River State South South Nigeria where, young girls are being sold out for a kind of marriage known as, "The Money Marriage" and the victim, Money Woman.

The practice which is as old as tradition itself is carried out without the consent of the girl who in most cases, is sold out to clear debts owed by a family relation even before her birth.

At each of the communities visited, victims of the Money Marriage through the help of the missionary were quick to share with Channels Television their experiences as Money Women or Money wives.

The Money Woman practice according to tribes in becheve is a status thing and a show of pride as there is virtually no family in Becheve that is not without a Money Woman.

The victims are most times used to settle debts owed by her relatives and when her husband dies, his next-of-kin marries her and if the girl-wife dies without giving birth to children, her parents are obligated to bring a replacement in accordance with customary demands.

In cases where a money woman gets pregnant by another man, the husband hold claims of the children and if the woman eventually gives birth to a baby girl, she is in turn sold out to a willing buyer without her consent.

‘Money Wives’ are not allowed the right to education and in every sale, the girl’s opinion is not sought. She is the bread winner.

Victims of this marriage are sold for as low as Ten Thousand Naira, few goats and pigs, tubers of yam, depending on the man's bargain power.

The buyer determines what he does with the money woman even if he uses her for ritual purposes.

Once a girl is sold out for Money Marriage, she is considered dead by her own immediate family and warned never to return back irrespective of how she is being treated by her husband or his relatives.

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/05/money-marriage-practice-becheve-tribes-in-obanliku-lg-in-cross-river-state.html

There are lots of works for our senators, police , house of rep, Buhari, Ministers and we to do... I am not comfortable for this ugly predicament.
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by KingMicky3286: 1:19am On May 08, 2018
CastedDude:
A Nigerian journalist, Imani MumZoe, has shared her experience after embarking on an investigate trip to Cross River state to uncover the "Money Marriage Practice'' under the platform of Channels TV. Money Marriage is an old traditional practice synonymous with the Becheve tribes in Obanliku Local Government Area of Cross River State, South South Nigeria where an elderly man buys a little girl for a wife.

Obanliku Local Government Area is situated in Northern Cross River State, approximately eight hours drive from Calabar the State Capital to access.

According to the journalist, the traditional practice is presently ongoing in a remote part of Cross River State South South Nigeria where, young girls are being sold out for a kind of marriage known as, "The Money Marriage" and the victim, Money Woman.

The practice which is as old as tradition itself is carried out without the consent of the girl who in most cases, is sold out to clear debts owed by a family relation even before her birth.

At each of the communities visited, victims of the Money Marriage through the help of the missionary were quick to share with Channels Television their experiences as Money Women or Money wives.

The Money Woman practice according to tribes in becheve is a status thing and a show of pride as there is virtually no family in Becheve that is not without a Money Woman.

The victims are most times used to settle debts owed by her relatives and when her husband dies, his next-of-kin marries her and if the girl-wife dies without giving birth to children, her parents are obligated to bring a replacement in accordance with customary demands.

In cases where a money woman gets pregnant by another man, the husband hold claims of the children and if the woman eventually gives birth to a baby girl, she is in turn sold out to a willing buyer without her consent.

‘Money Wives’ are not allowed the right to education and in every sale, the girl’s opinion is not sought. She is the bread winner.

Victims of this marriage are sold for as low as Ten Thousand Naira, few goats and pigs, tubers of yam, depending on the man's bargain power.

The buyer determines what he does with the money woman even if he uses her for ritual purposes.

Once a girl is sold out for Money Marriage, she is considered dead by her own immediate family and warned never to return back irrespective of how she is being treated by her husband or his relatives.

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/05/money-marriage-practice-becheve-tribes-in-obanliku-lg-in-cross-river-state.html

There are lots of works for our senators, police , house of rep, Buhari, Ministers and we to do... I am not comfortable for this ugly predicament.... Yes am not happy
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Adamummya(f): 1:23am On May 08, 2018
abdelrahman:
The bigot Igbo Christians now!

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Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Nobody: 1:44am On May 08, 2018
CastedDude:
A Nigerian journalist, Imani MumZoe, has shared her experience after embarking on an investigate trip to Cross River state to uncover the "Money Marriage Practice'' under the platform of Channels TV. Money Marriage is an old traditional practice synonymous with the Becheve tribes in Obanliku Local Government Area of Cross River State, South South Nigeria where an elderly man buys a little girl for a wife.

Obanliku Local Government Area is situated in Northern Cross River State, approximately eight hours drive from Calabar the State Capital to access.

According to the journalist, the traditional practice is presently ongoing in a remote part of Cross River State South South Nigeria where, young girls are being sold out for a kind of marriage known as, "The Money Marriage" and the victim, Money Woman.

The practice which is as old as tradition itself is carried out without the consent of the girl who in most cases, is sold out to clear debts owed by a family relation even before her birth.

At each of the communities visited, victims of the Money Marriage through the help of the missionary were quick to share with Channels Television their experiences as Money Women or Money wives.

The Money Woman practice according to tribes in becheve is a status thing and a show of pride as there is virtually no family in Becheve that is not without a Money Woman.

The victims are most times used to settle debts owed by her relatives and when her husband dies, his next-of-kin marries her and if the girl-wife dies without giving birth to children, her parents are obligated to bring a replacement in accordance with customary demands.

In cases where a money woman gets pregnant by another man, the husband hold claims of the children and if the woman eventually gives birth to a baby girl, she is in turn sold out to a willing buyer without her consent.

‘Money Wives’ are not allowed the right to education and in every sale, the girl’s opinion is not sought. She is the bread winner.

Victims of this marriage are sold for as low as Ten Thousand Naira, few goats and pigs, tubers of yam, depending on the man's bargain power.

The buyer determines what he does with the money woman even if he uses her for ritual purposes.

Once a girl is sold out for Money Marriage, she is considered dead by her own immediate family and warned never to return back irrespective of how she is being treated by her husband or his relatives.

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/05/money-marriage-practice-becheve-tribes-in-obanliku-lg-in-cross-river-state.html

We black people laid down the precedent on how other race of people should treat us, and boy, have they treated us the way we have handled ourselves, like Shyte.
I wonder who instituted this paedophiliac practice in the name of settling debts, and I wonder why the clergymen haven't spoken about this evil act.
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by ItsMeAboki(m): 3:17am On May 08, 2018
beylinko:

I was expecting to see a Northern state immediately I saw the Topic. This is total slavery with the level of education in tat part of the world.

You would be surprised how many other parts and cultures in southern Nigeria also practice it - with all their education.
Check for example Ebonyi State, particularly Abakilliki, they also have a long tradition of child marriage - yet their youths would also join in insulting northerners.

https://www.nairaland.com/3320703/shocking-culture-child-marriages-southern

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Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Nobody: 3:40am On May 08, 2018
madridguy:
Subhanalah, in this era? This is more than slavery.
samething happen in the north where a 7years old girl is sold to an old man for a little or no money, haven't you had of a man buying 7 years old girl for 100$ ? it's their culture I mean religion of piss and sh**t
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by godox2(m): 4:46am On May 08, 2018
beylinko:
I was expecting to see a Northern state immediately I saw the Topic. This is total slavery with the level of education in tat part of the world.

When Baba said a lot of Nigerian youths are not educated, you thought its only the Northern part?Illitrates are everywhere, Thank God you now know.
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by mensos544: 6:25am On May 08, 2018
beylinko:
I was expecting to see a Northern state immediately I saw the Topic. This is total slavery with the level of education in tat part of the world.
Idiot n became silent when u see that is from south. Mumu n a great enemy of progress. North are more socialized or civilized in time that not u d son of a bitched that is fatherless n idol worshipper....

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Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by NOETHNICITY(m): 7:03am On May 08, 2018
These re the same civilise pple who wud rain insults and abuse the North over a similar revelation. If one of these was to happen in the north it wud definitely hit the headlines in national dailys in stark hypocritical journalism like we see everyday.
Even the drugs and codeine abuse has taken such a dimension
This is the reason I no longer read newspapers.

Junk journalism

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Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Nobody: 7:24am On May 08, 2018
This is what happens when men make rules of customs and traditions while one party is horney and the other party broke.
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by pat077: 7:33am On May 08, 2018
Wakanda nonsense tradition is that
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Nobody: 7:45am On May 08, 2018
It makes headlines every year,but nothing is done at the end of the day. I've known this for several years now,the government of Cross River & Nigeria is very aware of this money marriage culture in Becheve, but they have not done anything about it. Several letters have been sent, I guess they don't want to dirty their hands in poor people's affair cry
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by MrBONE2(m): 8:03am On May 08, 2018
donbachi:
The men bought the girls as blood tonics...steady changing of oil also.and we are complaining.as if you did not buy mikimiki icecream in your primary school days...abegi,dem force dem?.this is just the difference between america and africa...the americans bought blacks as slaves into a civilized society,while africans bought their fellow blacks into an uncivilized society.
grin
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by CaptainGOOD: 8:19am On May 08, 2018
Seun360:

Olodo!
Northern Cross river.
Later now u go follow dey abuse Buhari.

So I dnt know an average Hausa man dnt know boundaries of Nigeria? undecided
To them I'd u dnt speak housa or yoruba u are automatically igbo.

This people are still 50yrs backward

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