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Boniface Mwangi: "I Had Sex Once And Church Kicked Me Out" by ChangeIsCostant: 10:26am On May 08, 2018 |
A politician and woman rights activist has taken to Facebook to share his story how he was purportedly kicked out of the church because he had sex with his then girlfriend (who is now his wife) and got her pregnant in the process. According to the Kenyan writer, Boniface Mwangi, his church members also refused to attend his wedding . Read below what he shared on Facebook. I had sex once, and was kicked out of church! I just finished photographing and interviewing 70 people between the ages of 18-70 from across Kenya. I posed two questions to them: how did you learn about sex, and what's your family planning method? Growing up, sex was a taboo subject and it was amazing to learn that people born 70 years ago had the same experience. When I turned 14, I got circumcised. Culturally, I was now a man. I assume my mother told my elder brother to talk to me about sex, but all he mumbled was that women are dangerous, and that was the end of my sex education! When I was serving in the church ministry, we were taught about abstinence and that it was a cool thing to be a virgin. The church told us sex was a beautiful cake, but if you eat it at the wrong time, it has a rotten rat inside. What a metaphor. I remember listening to a pastor who taught us how to pray "dangerous prayers". The prayers went like this: Lord, if l look at a woman and desire her, strike me with blindness and if I sleep with her, infect me with HIV/Aids. Those "dangerous prayers" were to discourage us from engaging in premarital sex. But you see, my parent (I was brought up by a single mum) and my eldest brother didn't bother telling me what sex was and its context. The church told me you will discover what it is when it happens. Unfortunately, the church didn't see it fit to tell us that in case you found yourself tempted, you could use a condom. My girlfriend at the time, who is now my wife, also grew up in church. She sang in the choir and wore a chastity ring until the day two young Christians, burning with passion, had sex without understanding its consequences. Njeri got pregnant and was subsequently fired from the Christian organisation she had been working for, while I got kicked out from serving as a youth deacon. My church pastors didn't even attend my wedding and my wife's church presided over the service. Yet if we had received better sex education, we might have had sex with a condom. Sadly, we aren't talking about it. Scheaffer Okore tells me she was taught that sex was for wayward people. It was a dirty word, for sinners and prostitutes. If you talked about sex, or engaged in it, you would contract HIV and die. What I find stupid about this approach is that sex education isn't about children having sex. It is about understanding sex because left in the dark, it is curiosity that ends up killing the young cats. Personally, It I don't think anyone should have sex in their teenage years. It doesn't add value to their lives and in any case they lack the emotional and monetary ability to deal with its consequences. But we are not helping kids by pretending that sex does not exist. In 1962, Kenya had 8 million people and we are at 50 million people today. We have been having sex, lots of sex and it shows because our population has exploded. We need to talk about family planning. Men in particular must be more responsible. We cannot continue leaving family planning to women. I am part of this campaign, #FormNiGani which is getting young adults to talk about sex and family planning freely. As writer Kingwa Kamenchu once told me, family planning is about pleasure, and if you have too many kids it will affect your pleasure calendar. Let us all take charge of our sex lives because those three seconds of passion can alter our lives for better, or for us. And let's bring children on board. If our kids can watch politicians behaving badly on national television, then they are old enough to learn about sex Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/05/i-had-sex-once-and-was-kicked-out-of-church-man-shares-his-story-on-facebook-photo.html 2 Likes
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Re: Boniface Mwangi: "I Had Sex Once And Church Kicked Me Out" by Firefire(m): 10:28am On May 08, 2018 |
What it the moral of the story? 11 Likes |
Re: Boniface Mwangi: "I Had Sex Once And Church Kicked Me Out" by Evablizin(f): 10:30am On May 08, 2018 |
So ? If you want to talk about the importance of sexual education,discuss it peacefully and stop trying to justify or blame the church for your lustful action. 32 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Boniface Mwangi: "I Had Sex Once And Church Kicked Me Out" by Naza25: 10:40am On May 08, 2018 |
Many of these church folks can be so judgemental. I stopped giving a fvck about them long time ago 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Boniface Mwangi: "I Had Sex Once And Church Kicked Me Out" by kobosmart(m): 10:50am On May 08, 2018 |
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Re: Boniface Mwangi: "I Had Sex Once And Church Kicked Me Out" by IamD18: 11:49am On May 08, 2018 |
Re: Boniface Mwangi: "I Had Sex Once And Church Kicked Me Out" by Tracypacy(f): 4:01pm On May 08, 2018 |
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Re: Boniface Mwangi: "I Had Sex Once And Church Kicked Me Out" by mhizcassidy001(f): 4:02pm On May 08, 2018 |
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Re: Boniface Mwangi: "I Had Sex Once And Church Kicked Me Out" by eleojo23: 4:02pm On May 08, 2018 |
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Re: Boniface Mwangi: "I Had Sex Once And Church Kicked Me Out" by AprokoGirl: 4:02pm On May 08, 2018 |
Re: Boniface Mwangi: "I Had Sex Once And Church Kicked Me Out" by IMASTEX: 4:03pm On May 08, 2018 |
Mark 2:17: KJV: When Jesus heard it, he saith unto them, They that are whole have no need of the physician, but they that are sick: I came not to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance Church is met for sinners. If they ask you to leave. Peacefully move to another church, after all they will be at lost of your offerings since it is even their main interest over your salvation. 3 Likes |
Re: Boniface Mwangi: "I Had Sex Once And Church Kicked Me Out" by HeWrites(m): 4:03pm On May 08, 2018 |
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Re: Boniface Mwangi: "I Had Sex Once And Church Kicked Me Out" by jbreezy: 4:03pm On May 08, 2018 |
And y is dia tongue out...is d gesture for d church?? 2 Likes |
Re: Boniface Mwangi: "I Had Sex Once And Church Kicked Me Out" by MrGreenMavro: 4:03pm On May 08, 2018 |
Re: Boniface Mwangi: "I Had Sex Once And Church Kicked Me Out" by pornhub: 4:04pm On May 08, 2018 |
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Re: Boniface Mwangi: "I Had Sex Once And Church Kicked Me Out" by Millz404(m): 4:05pm On May 08, 2018 |
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Re: Boniface Mwangi: "I Had Sex Once And Church Kicked Me Out" by HeWrites(m): 4:05pm On May 08, 2018 |
Evablizin: Are you trying to tell me you've never been BANGED before? 2 Likes |
Re: Boniface Mwangi: "I Had Sex Once And Church Kicked Me Out" by Debazent1: 4:06pm On May 08, 2018 |
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Re: Boniface Mwangi: "I Had Sex Once And Church Kicked Me Out" by Tracypacy(f): 4:06pm On May 08, 2018 |
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Re: Boniface Mwangi: "I Had Sex Once And Church Kicked Me Out" by rims4emmy(m): 4:06pm On May 08, 2018 |
UGLY WIFE. WELL SHA I WILL LIKE TO Bleep HER TOO. |
Re: Boniface Mwangi: "I Had Sex Once And Church Kicked Me Out" by Nobody: 4:12pm On May 08, 2018 |
The head line is misleading. The church kicked him out from being a youth deacon and not from the church entirely. 3 Likes |
Re: Boniface Mwangi: "I Had Sex Once And Church Kicked Me Out" by Nobody: 4:13pm On May 08, 2018 |
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Re: Boniface Mwangi: "I Had Sex Once And Church Kicked Me Out" by khanwale(m): 4:16pm On May 08, 2018 |
I ENJOY SEX ALL THE TIME.......I HAVE NO SHAME IN SAYING IT. YOU TOO SHOULDNT. BUT WHEN NOT SURE USE CONDOM 2 Likes |
Re: Boniface Mwangi: "I Had Sex Once And Church Kicked Me Out" by Bruemath(m): 4:18pm On May 08, 2018 |
Re: Boniface Mwangi: "I Had Sex Once And Church Kicked Me Out" by czaratwork: 4:20pm On May 08, 2018 |
How truthful! Once? |
Re: Boniface Mwangi: "I Had Sex Once And Church Kicked Me Out" by Nobody: 4:20pm On May 08, 2018 |
I no some people will still gamtalk with these story. Is better you change your orientation rather than writing rubbish, At least you can still gain somethings and if you don't then you don't have to comment. If we check there family well na people like them go de number 10 or 11 for him papa o.[b][/b][i][/i] 1 Like |
Re: Boniface Mwangi: "I Had Sex Once And Church Kicked Me Out" by markode777: 4:27pm On May 08, 2018 |
are you justifying your lustful desires? and yet rubbing it on the church's face? People no longer fear God at all... Yourr penis stand and break God commandment and you are happy, instead of asking God for forgiveness.. I am not Mr righteous, but lets fear God, at atlease 3 Likes |
Re: Boniface Mwangi: "I Had Sex Once And Church Kicked Me Out" by holyfather(m): 4:40pm On May 08, 2018 |
Utter balderdash. He should be ashamed of himself. Leave sex for those in marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Boniface Mwangi: "I Had Sex Once And Church Kicked Me Out" by Phemi93(m): 4:51pm On May 08, 2018 |
kobosmart:Kenyan! |
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