mamawin:
And what's wrong with that?

Leave them... Nigerians be raising children who lack Boldness and Self- confidence
Tf is wrong with using a serving spoon to put food on your plate?

bettercreature:
Useless post! Your children won’t have any confident left by time you execute all the shiiit on this list

Leave them and their archaic ways of creating
"My mommy and my daddy say iss norr good"
Some points were top notch though like that about playing in church when they're praying... But some were just bullying formed by our so called "forefathers"

[quote author=Jaytecq post=67444014]nice one.
but op wait o... do u use Plier to pick ur own nose? [/]op uses hand globe while picking the nose.

All these are good but we also need to pray for them,ultimately teach them to accept Jesus for this is the only guarantee that a parent and the children will not later cry.

isybeke:
Good write up, I hope they learn cos many parents are so guilty of these especially mothers, ,,,,always over pampering nd spoiling their kids with the excuse that "he's just a kid or she doesn't know what she's doing". I once visited a friend who is married with 2 kids(aged 3 nd 4), I was offered a bottle of malt nd the children brought their cups for me to pour some for dem, so i emptied the whole content for both of dem nd dropped d bottle on d ground,,U need to see there mother's shameful face

They are still polite sef and there is a lot of hope.

They will turn out well.

Jaytecq:
nice one.
but op wait o... do u use Plier to pick ur own nose?

lolz...epp me ask him ooo.

TEYA:
Great list, I however wonder if seeking for permission before taking something from the fridge in their house. I so like no. 27, "Please may I know who is there" sounds so polite. Beautiful post.

u d my mind

CaptJeffry:
I guess it's strictly for kids being raised in interior villages of Nigeria though some points are valid.

are you o.k?

Skepticus:


Typical moralistic trash from a set of people synonymous with hypocrisy.

The day your child gives you a 21st century slap in the public...You will not be able to coin words.

hmm

oyetunder:
The day your child gives you a 21st century slap in the public...You will not be able to coin words.

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Opinionated:
Dear Parents,

Please, carefully look at the list below and identify where you may want to make amends on yourself or on the young ones you are bringing up.

Children, if not properly groomed may never get to the top in life, even if both parents are at the top of their careers.
Manners take you to where your education can’t irrespective of your status, wealth or your reach or influence:

1) Going to your child’s school indecently dressed. (Think again).

2) Speaking rashly to your child’s teacher.

3) Cursing, using foul language or swearing words in front of your children.

4) Using makeup on children.

5) Dressing your little children up indecently (they loose their sense of Princesshood).

6) Putting earrings on your son’s ears.

7) Your child hold the cup or glassware by the brim and you don’t correct.

Your children don’t greet and you just feel they will come around one day because they have a mood swing. (You will be blamed for it).

9) Your children eat with their mouth opened and you feel they will grow up some day.

10) Your children bringing home something you did not buy for them and you say nothing. (that is the beginning of stealing).

11) The Children talk back at you and you conclude it’s okay since you are a 21st century Mummy. (You will hate yourself if they do that outside and they are disciplined).

12) The Children interrupt when you are speaking with another aduItand you think they are bold and clever. (Its really bad manners).

13) The Children exercising authority over the Nanny and domestic staff and you let them be. (that is bad parenting).

14) The Children saying things like “my driver is on his way…” I do not advocate that children should call your domestic staff Aunty or Brother, calling them by Name when they are not young people is not proper either. The use of Miss, Mr or Mrs will look good on them.

15) Your children don’t say a ‘thank you’ when they have been helped or served something and you are cool with that. (Bad parenting).

16) When your Children cannot stand children who are less privileged.

18) When the Children pick their noses with their hands.

19) When the Children don’t wash their hands after visiting the washroom or after returning from school or outside visits.

20) When your Children take something from the fridge without seeking permission. (Bad parenting).

21) When your Children don’t knock on closed doors and wait for a response before opening the door.

22) When your Children don’t collect from your hands items you brought in as you walk into your home.

23) When your Children request for a bribe to carry out their home chores or extra task. (That is disgraceful).

24) When your Children act like their Grandparents irritate them. (It’s a Transferable Curse).

25) When your Children have not learnt to get up from the Chair for the Elderly or Visitors to sit.

26) When your Child tells lot of Lies. (You will both cry in the future).

27) When your Children ask “who is that?” at a knock on your door instead of “please, may I know who is there.”

28) When your Child is always seated by your Visitors when being served Drinks or Food.

29) When your Children still point their fingers at other people, when talking to or speaking about them.

30) When your Children play and jump around when Prayers are going on. (These can apply to Children from Ages 4 and Above).

Don’t be a 21st Century Parents who can’t correct their Children. Train your children in the way of the Lord so that when they grow up they will not depart from such godly training or upbringing.

It is better to allow your children cry at an early age when you correct them. If not you might both cry at night when they bring disgrace to the family with bad and terrible behaviour.

Source: See 30 Habits that Show Improper Upbringing of Children

that number29
Na yup de starve your pikin

oxygenlove:
See Ur Mouth, Thats The Problem With Some People, Oyinbo Pikin, So Yur In Support Of Dos Nuisance Arresting Their Parent Too Abi? If I Never Travel Out I Dey Watch Film Nw, Oyibo Parent Sef Stil Do Some Of The Listd Training ,, Nigeria Parent Are Stil Fair, What About Upbringing In Those Asian Countries,, And U Tok Of Oppression! So By Mere Training Kids This Way Is Oppression. U Should Wait Til Ur Child Call U A Fool, By Then U Wont Be Comparing African Kids With Doz Mumu Oyibo Kids

with all the so called training, why is nigeria like this? it is crap made by elders to oppress children to their benefit

derrydinny:
with all the so called training, why is nigeria like this? it is crap made by elders to oppress children to their benefit

Compare The Nigeria Of 'Now' To The Nigeria Of 'Then'. Nigeria is like this cos no one is ready to train their children in right ways. imagine doz in power today, "stil the trained elders" even though their mind is now corrupted

isybeke:
Good write up, I hope they learn cos many parents are so guilty of these especially mothers, ,,,,always over pampering nd spoiling their kids with the excuse that "he's just a kid or she doesn't know what she's doing". I once visited a friend who is married with 2 kids(aged 3 nd 4), I was offered a bottle of malt nd the children brought their cups for me to pour some for dem, so i emptied the whole content for both of dem nd dropped d bottle on d ground,,U need to see there mother's shameful face

What a shame. Couldn't the mum tell the kids to not do that?

The only parent I see allowing these kinds of upbringing is women. Father's just don't let indiscipline fly. This is why the shittiest way for a child to grow up is in a single mother home and why America is going to shit.

A lot of women do not even know how to respect themselves, talk less of knowing how to respect someone else, talk less of also now TEACHING a child how to do either.

Just like I expected,just two pages of comments. If it was bbn,smh

lifedynamics:


Leave them... Nigerians be raising children who lack Boldness and Self- confidence
Tf is wrong with using a serving spoon to put food on your plate?

I wonder oo. Like I'm jobless or what? even the refrigerator own can't work, with three teenagers in the house?